Faithfulness in Community
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Good morning brothers and sisters, welcome to Church today. Welcome to our family. This is our community that God gave us and in this place, the thing that happens here in Church is change. In our community, lives are changed. Changed for the better. Amen?
Two weeks ago I talked about how fellowship can sometimes make us fat. But there is something else that happens when we fellowship and that is growth. Growth happens when we fellowship. But fellowship is not just simply coming together to eat or drink. That is just having a meal together. But real fellowship is coming together to help one another to grow in our relationship with God. When we become children of God, God not only gave us a relationship with him. but he also put us into a community with fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. Right? When we become Christian, one of the first and most important thing that our friend will tell us to do is to go to church and also attend a Cell group.
Why is this so important? Why do we need to be in a community? Can we live as a Christian by ourself and grow? What happens if we are left to be by ourselves?
Todays society values individualism. This is where people are only interested in themselves and not interested in other people. Where they will not allow others to speak into their lives. They are interested in what benefit they can get more than what others can get. Individualism in society has caused divorces to increase, more competition at work and even lack of growth in people’s lives. Individualism can make people selfish.
This used to be something that is from the west. From the western countries. But in recent times, because of the globalisation, the world has become a smaller place and the culture of he west has come to the east. People in Asia are becoming more individualistic in their lives and they care only for themselves and not for others.
If we are not careful, this can happen to us also in the church. Where we come to Church only to hear the sermon. We don’t invest much in people’s lives and we don’t allow brothers and sisters to come into our lives and invest into our lives. I thank God that in our Church, we have a very warm community and we care for each other and we are willing to help each other. But I feel that we can grow in the way that we fellowship more. We can help each other grow more. The Bible teaches us how to do so. In today’s text, we will be looking at Hebrews 10:24-25.
And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
In , it talks about Jesus’s sacrifice on the cross for us. Jesus sacrifice has paid the price of our sins once and for all. Because of that, we have been set free from our sins. And after that it says from verse 19 that we can now enter into the presence of God. he encourages us to hold on to the hope that we have in Christ. And in verse 24 -25 he talks about our fellowship with each other helps us to continue to have that hope in God.
Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,
Paul is telling us that we need each other in order for us to continue to persevere in our faith. So the person sitting next to you is very important to you. We need each other to finish the race. We cannot do it alone.
Here are 3 things that we can learn from Paul from these verses.
Spur one another to love and good deeds.
What makes a good friend? Are good friends people who tell you nice things? Or are good friends people who are willing to tell you the truth that other people will not tell you? What kind of friends are we? Are we friends who are willing to tell the truth? It says here in proverbs that the friend is willing to tell us the truth even if it hurts us, but the enemy tells us only the good things.
6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
Pauls tells us that we should take an interest in each others lives and speak the truth to each other. The word in this verse is to spur or to stir each other to love and good deeds. Spur in english is what cowboys put on their boots to make the horse move by poking them. So sometime we need to poke each other to help each other do the right thing. Which means that we need to encourage one another to love and do what is right.
For example when we see a brother or sister making a decision that is not good for them. What will we do. Will we just keep quiet about it of will we try to talk to the person about it?
There was once when a brother in Church told me that he will be going to his girlfriend’s place to bake cookies for Chinese new year after cell group and that he will stay at her place because it would be late when they finished. When I heard it, I as quite troubled by it because they were not yet married and it is not good for them to start staying over at each others house.
So I went to ask my pastor what should I do? I was afraid that he would be angry if I told him that it was not a good idea. My Pastor encouraged me to talk to him if I care for him. So I prayed before I spoke to him and I thank God that he listened to me and he told me that he will not stay over. He will take a taxi home after they were done. And he messaged me that night to tell me that he went home that night. I thank God for this brother who was willing to listen to what i needed to tell him. Some may say it is just staying over one night. It is not a big deal. Nothing will happen. But if he did stay over, there is a chance that something might happen that both of them will regret. He doesn’t need to take chance like that. God says that there should not be even a hint of sexual immorality in the Church.
God wants us to speak into each others lives. God wants us to be willing to listen to those who love us enough to tell us the truth about our lives. We need to submit to each other. We need to account to each other for the things in our lives. Many times God speaks to us through our brothers and sisters to warn us about certain things in our lives. Many times it is the other people who are outside who see what we cannot see about ourselves. And many times what others tell us about ourselves can help us see our sins. When people give us feedback. It would be good for us to not need to rush to protect ourselves first, but to go back and pray about what the person had said and if there is truth in it to change and repent.
2. Meet up regularly.
If we want to speak into each other’s life. We need to meet up with one another to hear from each other and understand each other. But it will take time and effort to meet up one another. In the verse it says that we should not give up meeting up together as some are in the habit of doing. Meaning that there were people who have stopped meeting up with each other. It is easy to want to just do our own thing and live our own lives. This is where the culture of individualism affects us. This is when we just want to do our own thing and we are not interested in other people’s lives.
4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
But the bibles commands us to not only be interested about ourselves but to also care about others. We need to look out for each other.
Having a community for support is very important for us to continue to grow. When we come together to share about our struggles in life, we see that we are not the only ones that have struggles. And when we share about how God helps us in out times of struggles, it gives others in the group faith to see that God is still moving and working in the lives of others. That is why Cell groups are very important for us to come and be present and for us to contribute. I know that every time I go for cell group, I will be able to receive some encouragement or be able to encourage someone in their walk. So I make it a point to go for every Cell Group. Cell group has been one of the most important things in my spiritual life that helps me to grow in my walk in God.
22 Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.
Whenever I have something that I need advice with I will always share with my brothers and sisters at church and ask them for help. Especially when it has to do with big decisions in my life. It could be about finances or changing a Job, or getting into a relationship. Look for people who will tell you the hard truth. Don’t look for people who will only tell you things that sound nice. When I wanted to look for a new Job, I shared with my cell group members and they prayed for me and gave me advice. When I was interested in Cheri, I told my cell group leader and some close friends and i made sure her Cell Group leader knew about it. I got them to pray for us. And I thank God for my community because when I account and share with my brothers and my sisters and they pray for me, they give me wisdom form their own lives and when they pray for me, God begins to work in my life.
I know that some of us might think that we cannot find people who we can share with. But I think that it is up to us to be willing to share. It might not be that there is no one for us to share with, but it is because we don’t want people to speak into our lives. We cannot grow in our Christian walk alone. God gave us the community of believers to protect us and to help us to grow.
8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.
In 1 peter 5:8, It says that satan prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to eat. When we separate ourselves from the community and we are alone. We become easy food for satan. So don’t be the banana that leaves the bunch. That is the banana that gets eaten.
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3. Encourage one another
God commands us to carry each other’s burdens.
1 Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.
We are to help one another in times of struggles and if any one of us sins, we need to be help to restore the person by gently encouraging the person to return to obeying God in love. We will all struggle with many things and we will sin. But it is the community that is able to encourage us and to help us get through our seasons of struggles. The community helps us to keep walking with God. In helping others we must also be careful to not be proud. If not we ourselves might fall. There will be times when we need others to help us and there will be times when we need to help others.
12 And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
When I was in the army, all of us will have buddy. So as a buddy, we are responsible for each other. We are suppose to help each other. So we will have a road march. Where we need to walk 10 km. It is part of our training. Usually it is 42 km for the normal soldiers. But our group are people who have injuries. So we need to carry our bag which is 15 kg and we have to carry our rifle too. So we all wear our uniform in long sleeves and pant and boots. We start in the morning till afternoon. And it is very hot. Some of us are fitter and don’t have a problem. But we have some who are not very fit and cannot finish the march. Some of them become very tired and cannot carry their pack and walk on.When one of us is down and cannot carry our packs, our buddy will help us to carry our pack and also help us to continue to walk. We will encourage each other to finish the march. And we will make sure that everyone finishes the march. We will not leave anyone behind.
Just like in the army, we are in God’s army. And God have given us buddies, a community to take encourage us to finish the race. We might need to carry each other at times. But we will make it to the end together. We will not leave anyone behind.
It says that we need to do this more and more even as we see the day approaching. Life will continue to get harder. and we need to come together more. not separate. So that we can help each other finish the race.
Are you willing to be a part of this community? and finish this race together? If we are, we need to:
Spur one another
Meet up together
Encourage one another
Do you think it is important for us to spur one another?
Are we open to let others speak into our lives and are we willing to account to our brothers and sisters about our lives?
What do you want to do to build the church community.
Account to one another
allow others to speak in to our lives.
Be gentle with one another.