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Introduction

Over the last four weeks we have thought a great deal about the topic of discipleship.

We have asked the question “What is discipling?” and have concluded that it is the deliberately, intentionally relating to another Christian with the aim of doing them good spiritually.

We have asked “Why engage in discipling?” and concluded that it is critical for other’s good, for our joy and for God’s glory.

We have considered various “barriers and excuses for discipling” and have hopefully dispensed with them based on sound reasoning and the teaching of Scripture.

Finally, we have considered the object and goal of our discipling relationships and have concluded that the grand object of this wonderful work is to encourage our friend to grow in holiness, as evidenced by greater obedience to God’s revealed will.

There is one more question we must answer before we turn to the specific and practical matters that will occupy the remainder of this class.

Our final broad questions are: “What venue is best for establishing discipling relationships?” and “How do we get started?”

We will assert today based on practical reasoning, but most importantly based on the pattern of Scripture, that the primary venue for our discipling relationships should be the local church wherever we find ourselves as members.

Now, I want to state here at the outset that we are NOT saying that it is wrong to be in intentional, spiritually encouraging relationships with persons from outside your local church.

That is not what we are saying.

And we are not saying that it is bad to enter into those kinds of relationships with a friend at school or at work.

I am saying the best place to have discipling relationships is in your local church.

That seems like a rather straightforward idea, but let’s clarify what I mean by that.

What I am NOT saying is that all discipling much take place in the church building, or that only recognized leaders of the local church should disciple, NOR do I intend to say that it is wrong to invest in people who are not members of your church, like Christian friends at work or school.

What we ARE saying is that it is biblically wise that most of us have the majority of our discipling relationships in the context of a local church.

We should have a discipling relationship with someone who is also a member of the same church, where you are sharing in the same teaching and the same Christian community.

Why Disciple in the Context of the Local Church?

Let’s start with ten reasons why we should disciple in our local church, and then we’ll introduce a few ideas on how this can be done.

This list is not exhaustive and it’s not in any order of importance.

Making your church the primary platform for one-on-one discipling relationships makes good sense and is a necessary implication of the overall teaching in Scripture regarding the church.

Why disciple in your local church?

Reason #1: Because God has called the church to be pure.

Consider discipling in your local church because God has called the church to be pure.

We read in that a part of the reason Jesus came into the world was to call and create a pure people for himself known as the church.

Paul writes: 11For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, 12training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, 13waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, 14who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.

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It is in part through discipling relationships that we help other Christians to grow in knowledge and in personal holiness.

This is a great part of what Jesus came into the world to do.

When we labor in encouraging relationships especially among those who are in the church, then we enhance the corporate witness of the church as a whole.

This should be our desire for our own local church, that it would be a shining example of God’s holiness and transforming power in the lives of his people.

Reason #2: Because you do not have every spiritual gift.

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We should consider the value of church based discipling as a way to balance our own weaknesses and lack of certain gifts.

Being a source of spiritual encouragement for others is normative for the Christian life, but we have areas of weakness and spiritual blindness that may also limit our helpfulness in discipling.

When our discipling relationships are rooted in the community of a local church, there are others in the relational mix to help balance out the difference.

Do you hesitate to engage in discipling relationships because you are timid?

Are you hesitant to engage in deliberate discipling relationships because you feel you lack the full skill and wisdom for the task?

Well I have good news: God knows that you are not sufficient for this great task.

In his kindness God has given us the church, and the church is sufficient for the work he intends to give her.

When you disciple within a relationship of shared church experience, you are acknowledging that you don’t have all the wisdom and encouragement that your friend needs.

But you realize that the church, as a whole, is given every good thing that is needed for the task of evangelism and discipling.

God has not promised to give you every gift needed to encourage and build up others.

That is a promise he has made to the whole church.

You don’t have everything that your friend needs – so your friend needs a church.

Reason #3: Because a church provides better and greater accountability.

Third, we should realize that in the context of discipling relationships, the church provides better and greater accountability than just our friendship alone.

In the church we find a network of relationships with people who each know us in a slightly different way and come to our relationship with a different perspective or set of concerns.

This web of significant relationships forms a spiritual “safety net” that will help your friend in hard times more than just your relationship alone.

Realize that the church exists in part for the very purpose of increased accountability.

The church is structured not only with the love of Christ but also His corrective authority.

is Jesus directing the church how to act with one who does not repent of his sin.

We should realize in all humility that a group of people in a community can know a person so much better than you can alone.

If you meet with a friend from work once a week for coffee and discipling there are some serious limitations to how much you can know that person’s life.

It may be pretty easy for them to hide, or for you to just miss, significant areas of struggle in their life.

But in the context of a church community there is at least a better chance that the mix of relationships will provide a depth and texture of insight that results in better accountability and protection.

Reason #4: Because you have a limited amount of time.

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Fourth, we are all challenged by the fact that life is short and our time is precious.

For many of you I expect that you feel great pressure trying to balance the demands of your job, spouses, children, relatives, church ministries, neighborhood evangelism and the desire to have meaningful discipling relationships.

Think about some of the ways that the ministry of the church can expand your discipling ministry.

For example, we talked about previously using the regular teaching times of the church as the content for your discipling relationships—it can be a great way to maximize your time and still be fruitful in the lives of others in your church.

So consider getting together with someone from this church and making the Sunday morning sermon, or the Sunday night talk, or a core seminar class the content of your discipling relationship.

You can talk together about application – how the sermon, talk or lesson applies to each of your lives.

You are not needing to plan and prepare a Bible study on your own; rather, why not allow the public teaching of this church help to grow and shape a fellow brother or sister in Christ even if you time is severely limited.

Reason #5: Because God is glorified as the body grows together (, , )

Fifth, individualistic Christianity is an oxymoron.

You were never meant to live the Christian life alone.

If you feel that you are growing in maturity as a Christian while you ignore those around you, I would challenge you as to how mature you really are.

At what point are you maturing if the body of Christ is not reflecting his character in increasing clarity?

God intends for us to glorify him primarily through our life together as a church, so we should strive to grow toward him together.

Whether you like it or not, when you live in the context of community, your life is meant to be tethered to others.

My son – I love to watch him grow.

Wouldn’t it be odd if only his feet grew, but torso and body stayed the same size?

He would quickly look disproportionate.

The body of Christ is meant to grow together.

As you grow, it spills over into their life, and they grow also.

As they grow, it spills over into your life, and you grow.

God intends for us to mature together as community, growing together in greater Christ-likeness.

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Reason #6: Because building up the church is what you were gifted to do

Sixth, we should realize that this sort of church based discipling is near the focus of what the Holy Spirit intended when you were given spiritual gifts.

Your gifts are intended to bless God’s kingdom, yes, but especially to bless and build up the local church.

Paul writes about this in where he says: 4Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit.

5And there are varieties of ministries, and the same Lord.

6There are varieties of effects, but the same God who works all things in all persons.

7But to each one is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.

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Likewise in Paul tells us: 12So with yourselves, since you are eager for manifestations of the Spirit, strive to excel in building up the church.

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There is lots of debate among evangelicals about how exactly to think about these spiritual gifts.

In much of the debate, the purpose of these gifts is often over-looked.

Spiritual gifts are not for your personal fulfillment, but for the building of the church.

Reason #7: Because discipling is a primary way to show love for Christ and for his church.

Seventh, if you are looking for a way to show love to God’s church, if you are thankful for the way God has used this church to impact your life, then I can think of few better than intentionally setting out to do spiritual good for another member of your local church.

As we considered earlier in this course, tells us how Jesus loved us by laying down his life and opening up the Father’s truth to us.

We can show our love for those that God has placed in our church by doing much the same thing.

You can show love for this local body than by intentionally setting out to do good for other members by encouraging them and pointing them toward deeper or more personal consideration of God’s word.

Likewise, consider 19We love, because He first loved us.

20If someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.