How to get pass your limit The Power of the Other
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Dr. Henry Cloud ?
You don’t rise to the challenge, you fall to the level of your training
2 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,
When a Navy seal is dropped into enemy territory there are Three things that ask
Where I’m I ?
Where is the Enemy ?
Where is my buddy ?
The Four Corners of a Leaders World
Whether we know it or not we are in one of these stages
We are always searching for a connection
We are in a connection
We are suffering or benefiting from the connection that we are in
Corner number One
No Connection : Can’t Find one
A Leadership role can push us there
Life can push us there
Symptoms of having No Connection
Felling of meaningless
Lack of Hope
Begin to Slip into Depression
Unnecessary Anxieties
18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
Corner number two
Corner number two
Bad Connection
Symptoms of having a Bad Connection
A Bad Connection leaves you in a state of always feeling bad
A Bad Connection is a relationship with someone you just cant please: it’s never good enough
If you feel that way about TIL let me know so we can get you out of that place
But we will push for Excellence
We eventually find a way to unplug and head back to Corner one
33 Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”
Corner number three
A Pseudo Connection
pseudo adjective pretentious or insincere. noun (plural pseudos) a pretentious or insincere person.
pseudo /ˈs(j)uːdəʊ/ informal
■ adjective pretentious or insincere.
■ adjective pretentious or insincere.
■ noun (plural pseudos) a pretentious or insincere person.
pretentious adjective attempting to impress by affecting greater importance or merit than is actually possessed.
Soanes, C., & Stevenson, A. (Eds.). (2004). Concise Oxford English dictionary (11th ed.). Oxford: Oxford University Press.
pretentious
■ adjective attempting to impress by affecting greater importance or merit than is actually possessed.
Soanes, C., & Stevenson, A. (Eds.). (2004). Concise Oxford English dictionary (11th ed.). Oxford: Oxford University Press.
We are designed to desire to feel good.
Symptoms of having a Pseudo Connection
It’s not whole
Its not real
It Strokes Me
It Pets Me
It makes me feel Good
Corner number four
A Real Connection
You must voluntarily fall into a state of need
I must be sourced from the outside
We must become aware with our GPS
1 Since therefore Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves with the same way of thinking, for whoever has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin,
2 so as to live for the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for human passions but for the will of God.
3 For the time that is past suffices for doing what the Gentiles want to do, living in sensuality, passions, drunkenness, orgies, drinking parties, and lawless idolatry.
4 With respect to this they are surprised when you do not join them in the same flood of debauchery, and they malign you;
5 but they will give account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead.
1 Peter 4
6 For this is why the gospel was preached even to those who are dead, that though judged in the flesh the way people are, they might live in the spirit the way God does.
7 The end of all things is at hand; therefore be self-controlled and sober-minded for the sake of your prayers.
8 Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
9 Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.
10 As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace:
11 whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
We must build a life of corner four relationships
We should not operate at our limit we should operate at God’s designed limit
Matt 19:11
11 But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given.