RAW (Teach Me How To Love You)

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Teach Me How To Love You!!!

Ruth 3:1–17 (GNB)
1 Some time later Naomi said to Ruth, “I must find a husband for you, so that you will have a home of your own. 2 Remember that this man Boaz, whose women you have been working with, is our relative. Now listen. This evening he will be threshing the barley. 3 So wash yourself, put on some perfume, and get dressed in your best clothes. Then go where he is threshing, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. 4 Be sure to notice where he lies down, and after he falls asleep, go and lift the covers and lie down at his feet. He will tell you what to do.”
5 Ruth answered, “I will do everything you say.”
6 So Ruth went to the threshing place and did just what her mother-in-law had told her. 7 When Boaz had finished eating and drinking, he was in a good mood. He went to the pile of barley and lay down to sleep. Ruth slipped over quietly, lifted the covers and lay down at his feet. 8 During the night he woke up suddenly, turned over, and was surprised to find a woman lying at his feet. 9 “Who are you?” he asked.
“It’s Ruth, sir,” she answered. “Because you are a close relative, you are responsible for taking care of me. So please marry me.”
10 “The Lord bless you,” he said. “You are showing even greater family loyalty in what you are doing now than in what you did for your mother-in-law. You might have gone looking for a young man, either rich or poor, but you didn’t. 11 Now don’t worry, Ruth. I will do everything you ask; as everyone in town knows, you are a fine woman. 12 It is true that I am a close relative and am responsible for you, but there is a man who is a closer relative than I am. 13 Stay here the rest of the night, and in the morning we will find out whether or not he will take responsibility for you. If so, well and good; if not, then I swear by the living Lord that I will take the responsibility. Now lie down and stay here till morning.”
14 So she lay there at his feet, but she got up before it was light enough for her to be seen, because Boaz did not want anyone to know that she had been there. 15 Boaz said to her, “Take off your cloak and spread it out here.” She did, and he poured out nearly 20 kilogrammes of barley and helped her to lift it on her shoulder. Then she returned to the town with it. 16 When she arrived home, her mother-in-law asked her, “How did you get on, my daughter?”
Ruth told her everything that Boaz had done for her. 17 She added, “He told me I must not come back to you empty-handed, so he gave me all this barley.”
Ruth 3:8–9 KJV
8 And it came to pass at midnight, that the man was afraid, and turned himself: and, behold, a woman lay at his feet. 9 And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman.
Let me start out saying this, I believe a lot of marriages could have been saved if we had more Naomi’s in our families......
Naomi in this chapter plays in my opinion the working of the Holy Spirit..
Naomi had done her homework and knew exactly where Boaz was going to be…
As a parent she felt responsible for finding a Suitable home for Ruth..
Where have we heard this word Suitable used before concerning relationships?
Genesis 2:18 CJB
18 Adonai, God, said, “It isn’t good that the person should be alone. I will make for him a companion suitable for helping him.”
suitable: right or appropriate for a particular person, purpose, or situation:
good for you..
Proverbs 18:22 AV
22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
I believe some brothers need help discerning a good thing...
Some men didn’t realize how good they had it until it was gone and someone else discovered the treasure..
Do yourself a favor and look into your wife and tell her how great-full you are to God that he has blessed you with such a good thang..
LADY M TAKES OVER:
The Mothers Instructions:
Wash Yourself (cleanse yourself of all unrighteousness)
2. Put On Perfume
Song of Solomon 4:11 NCV
11 My bride, your lips drip honey; honey and milk are under your tongue. Your clothes smell like the cedars of Lebanon.
3.Change Your clothes
Put on your red dress and slip on your high heels And some of that sweet perfume, it sure smells good on you
4. Go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you’re there until he is finished his dinner.
Some commentators have suggested that Ruth is fashioning herself as a bride, and thus to be seen would be to tip her hand. Most consider her remaining hidden to be an issue not of propriety but of appropriate timing.
5. Watch him so you will know where he lies down to sleep
Learn his pattern
Bishop Takes Over
6. When he lies down, go lift the cover off his feet and lie down.
He will tell you how to love him! Opps i mean.. He will tell you what you should do.”

uncovering feet and the spreading of the garment. There are occasions in the Old Testament where the term “feet” is used euphemistically for the sexual organs. The expression “spread the edge of the garment” is likewise used with sexual overtones in a betrothal context in Ezekiel 16:8. The text of Ruth does not suggest a blatant sexual act but is provocative in its ambiguity.

7. About midnight Boaz was startled and rolled over. There was a woman lying near his feet! Boaz asked, “Who are you?” She said, “I am Ruth, your servant girl. Spread your cover over me, because you are a relative who is supposed to take care of me.”

3:8–9. Something startled Boaz in the middle of the night. He turned to discover that a woman was lying at his feet. Boaz asked for the identity of his unusual guest (cf. 2:5). Ruth responded in humility (cf. 2:10): I am your servant Ruth. She had put herself under the wings of Yahweh (2:12), and now she asked to be put under the wings of Boaz. In the phrase the corner of your garment the word “corner” is ḵānāp̱, which is translated “wing” in 2:12.

Ruth 2:12 NCV
12 May the Lord reward you for all you have done. May your wages be paid in full by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come for shelter.”

She used a poetic image that had its source in the blessing that Boaz had given her. A Moabitess widow was calling the attention of a noted Hebrew to his responsibility. He could now follow through on his benediction (2:12) by becoming Ruth’s kinsman-redeemer and providing her with the security of marriage.

But this is what i want you to get out of this.
Ruth is under his feet the most submissive place for a women to place herself.
submission 1 the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person: 2 the action of presenting a proposal, application, or other document for consideration or judgment:
The ability to yield to the will of another person requires great strength, discipline & humility..
Because she is in a place of submission she is also in position to present her proposal...
Genesis 1:27 NCV
27 So God created human beings in his image. In the image of God he created them. He created them male and female.
We are created beings in the image and likeness of our creator, He works well with submitted beings than he does with un-submitted beings.
We can get more from God by giving him what he wants and not what we think he wants.
That requires relationship, intimacy, obedience & submission
And in this God teaches us how to Love Him…
So Ruth positions herself in a state of submission not lowering herself but actually elevating herself…
She’s Under his feet calling the shots!! Put your cover over me bra thats your job and your destiny.
Submission is the place we are taught and the place we teach.
It’s not a position for just females its also for Males,
The safest place a women wants to be is in the arms of God and the Covering of her husband
talk about that Rob

I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman—She had already drawn part of the mantle over her; and she asked him now to do it, that the act might become his own. To spread a skirt over one is, in the East, a symbolical action denoting protection. To this day in many parts of the East, to say of anyone that he put his skirt over a woman, is synonymous with saying that he married her; and at all the marriages of the modern Jews and Hindus, one part of the ceremony is for the bridegroom to put a silken or cotton cloak around his bride.

8. Boaz joyfully received Ruth’s proposal
Ruth 3:10 Then Boaz said, “(1)The Lord bless you, my daughter. (2)This act of kindness is greater than the kindness you showed to Naomi in the beginning.

You didn’t look for a young man to marry, either rich or poor

Boaz recognized she had Options...
Ruth 3:11 The Hebrew order is: (3) “don’t be afraid”; (4) “I will do everything you ask”; (5) “all people know that you are a good woman.”
However, the object of Ruth’s fear is not the possibility of Boaz’s refusing help to her, but the possibility that the people of the town will oppose her because she is of Moabite origin.*

So Ruth stayed near his feet until morning but got up while it was still too dark to recognize anyone. Boaz thought, “People in town must not know that the woman came here to the threshing floor.” So Boaz said to Ruth, “Bring me your shawl and hold it open.”

So Ruth held her shawl open, and Boaz poured six portions of barley into it. Boaz then put it on her head and went back to the city.

When Ruth went back to her mother-in-law, Naomi asked, “How did you do, my daughter?”

Ruth told Naomi everything that Boaz did for her. She said, “Boaz gave me these six portions of barley, saying, ‘You must not go home without a gift for your mother-in-law.’

Have you ever meet a Man that was willing to pour into you without looking For anything In return?
Boaz will also be concerned with outcome of your family..
‘You must not go home without a gift for your mother-in-law.’
This is a lesson on how to be Loved.. Can You Cover them?
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