Methods for Coping When We are Hurting

Introduction:

Grief is a reality in the life of even the believer. At some point in our lives we each will experience it. It is not always death that causes grief. Sometimes it is the loss of something dear to us or a change in our lives. Whatever the cause, it remains a reality.

We don’t all experience it the same. But we encounter it. Truth is sometimes life hurts!

Psalm 34

Psalm 34:18 ESV

18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.

Seek Hope from God, understanding:

God is near

God saves the crushed in spirit

Application:

- Pray for God’s direction

Trust God’s Timing

His timing is not always ideal for us

Psalm 41:1 ESV

1 Blessed is the one who considers the poor! In the day of trouble the Lord delivers him;

Resolve is not always immediate

Psalm 30:5 ESV

5 For his anger is but for a moment, and his favor is for a lifetime. Weeping may tarry for the night, but joy comes with the morning.

Isaiah 40:31 ESV

31 but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.

Trust God’s Heart

Psalm 34:19 ESV

19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.

Matthew 5:45 ESV

45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.

John 16:33 ESV

33 I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Trust God’s Presence

Psalm 23:4 ESV

4 Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.