Graveside Funeral
Today we come to remember the life of a husband, a father, a grandfather, a friend, and a child of God. The facts say this: (read obituary). That is what the facts say about , but those who knew know that facts could never sum up a life well lived. For example, (recall personal anecdotes).
We can take comfort today because not only talked with the Lord, but today he is in the presence of the Lord. Paul said to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
Today as we say good-bye to this man, please let me share with you why we can take comfort from the words of Jesus. (Read John 14:1–6.)
These comforting words, given by Jesus to comfort his disciples, in turn comfort us.
I. Let not your heart be troubled.
Death has a way of troubling us, does it not? Just the very nature of death is troubling.
· The unknown
· The uncertainty: what will I do next?
· By all standards, death is the most dreaded event.
But Jesus says, “Don’t let your heart be troubled or agitated because you believe in God.” God brings us comfort today. (Read 2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.) God is providing for us the relief we need.
II. We receive comfort when we realize there is a home.
C. S. Lewis—“If we really think that home is elsewhere and that this life is a ‘wandering to find home,’ why should we not look forward to the arrival?”
For us Heaven is many mansions—not just a home, not just a room, but a mansion! This home speaks of God’s provision. There is room for each of us. A weary traveler’s most dreaded sign is NO VACANCY, but that is not true with our home in Heaven. There is always room in his house.
This speaks of God’s care for his own.
III. We receive comfort in knowing that Jesus is returning for us.
Death is simply a waiting room where we wait for the great reunion. Jesus says that if I go I will return. We detest saying good-bye because it means the event is over. We say things like, “I will see you later,” or, “We will do this again.” But we know that is not always a certainty. Plans change, lives turn. But Jesus said, “I will return.”
· This speaks of his love for us.
· This speaks of our value.
IV. We receive comfort in knowing that we have a destination.
Thomas, upon hearing that Jesus was leaving, was anxious. He asked, “Lord, we do not know where you are going—how do we know the way?” And with three words Jesus told us about the destination, which will give us the comfort we need in days such as these. John 14:6, “I am the way, the truth, and the life.…”
The Way: He is the path to follow. followed the path.
The Truth: There are no shadows when it comes to following God’s way. He is truth. When he says he loves us, he does. When he says he cares for us, he does. When he says he will return for us, he will.
The Life: Psalm 90 says our life is made up of 70 years—80 if there is strength. was years old.