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Show clip from Forrest Gump – Forrest says, “Sometimes there just aren’t enough rocks.”
Obviously, that was a scene from the movie “Forrest Gump.”
Forrest’s lifelong friend Jenny had grown up in a home where she was abused by her father.
He had left his mark on Jenny in a horrible way, profoundly affecting her life choices.
And now, years later, seeing that house – the house where she grew up – that house from which she ran to an even more destructive way of life – seeing that house brought back painful memories.
The hurt hadn’t gone away.
The wounds had never fully healed.
And Forrest appropriately comments, “Sometimes there just aren’t enough rocks.”
Let me ask you to consider something today.
Have you run out of rocks?
Rocks are what we hurl at objects or individuals who remind us of our pain.
They are not literal rocks, but maybe actions or words that we employ to strike back at almost anyone or anything in an attempt to offset some of our own hurt.
A sarcastic comment here, a bit of excessive behavior there.
Hopefully we won’t hurt so bad as long as we have rocks to throw.
Jenny’s wayward adult life that is pictured in Forrest Gump is presented as a futile effort at numbing the pain of past wounds.
The trouble is that the deep hurts and the deep wounds of our lives can’t be fully healed by simply throwing rocks.
Sooner or later we’ll run out – we’ll find we’ve hurt others in the process.
We’ll find the pain is still there.
And reduced to a puddle of unmanageable emotions, we find ourselves having to come to grips with the rest of life, wondering how we’ll cope.
There is a man in the Bible whose family deeply wounded him.
His name is Joseph.
Joseph’s father was married to two sisters at the same time and kept two mistresses.
He had 13 children through these 4 women, all of whom lived in the same household with him.
12 of those children were boys.
Joseph’s only sister had been raped.
His brothers were guilty of murder, theft and gross immorality.
Before he was 10 years old his mother died.
Joseph was the favorite son of his father’s favorite wife.
And because of that, Genesis 37 says his father made for him a beautiful robe, fit for a prince.
A robe that showed everyone he was exempt from the manual labor his brothers had to engage in day after day.
His brothers wore dirty farming clothes.
But not Joseph.
He had a favored place in the family.
His brothers hated him.
They were consumed with jealousy.
At the age of 17, Joseph was attacked by his brothers, who furiously stripped him of his beautiful robe.
They threw him into a deep hole in the ground and would have killed him, except one of his brothers talked the rest out of it.
Instead of committing murder, they sold Joseph to some slave traders who took him to Egypt.
The brothers lied to their father, telling him Joseph had been killed by a wild animal.
Picking up where we left off last week, through an incredible series of events, Joseph had gone from slave to prisoner to being appointed as 2nd in command in the great Egyptian empire.
During a 7-year period of famine, it was Joseph’s responsibility to manage the distribution of grain to everyone in the Empire and the surrounding areas.
*Read Genesis 41:56-57*
Because of the famine, in Genesis 42 his brothers are forced to come to Egypt for food.
All of his brothers make the trip except for his little brother Benjamin.
The only other child of his father’s favorite wife.
Joseph recognizes his brothers, but they don’t recognize him.
He holds one brother hostage and makes them go back for his little brother.
When they return Genesis 45 says Joseph reveals who he is.
And instead of punishing them for what they did to him, he invites them to bring his father down to Egypt so they can all survive the famine and live closer together.
The entire family comes to live in Egypt.
And Joseph is finally reunited with his father.
Seventeen years after the reunion, Joseph’s father dies.
And that is where join the portion of the story I want us to look at today.
*Read text – Genesis 50:14-21*
Joseph’s life is an example of how God can bring healing to the deep wounds of our lives.
Somehow Joseph made it.
After all he’d been through.
After all the hurt, the betrayal and unfair treatment.
Joseph found healing.
As we look at Genesis 50 there are a few substantial truths we can learn from Joseph about the healing of hidden hurts.
I. Guard against bitterness
A chiropractor from Tampa, Florida, had paid alimony to his former wife for a long time.
In 1994 he came to his final alimony payment of $182.
He didn’t just want to send his money; he wanted to send a message.
So in large scale he drew a check on the back of a pinstripe shirt.
On the memo line of his shirt-check, he wrote, “Here it is-the shirt off my back!”
The bank cashed it.
- That’s bitterness.
Bitterness is what can happen when we choose to dwell on our wounds.
Maybe we get into the habit of picturing the one who wounded us and imagining all sorts of bad things we would enjoy seeing come upon that person as payback.
Bitterness can even lead to a desire for personal revenge.
Joseph’s brothers just assumed he would be bitter.
(Genesis 50:15)
So they send word that dad had left a message for Joseph before he died.
His message: forgive your brothers.
Joseph cried when he heard it.
Most scholars believe Joseph probably cried because his brothers chose to stoop to the level of making up a story that involved their deceased father.
They were afraid, so they chose drastic measures.
But his brothers didn’t need to be afraid because Joseph wasn’t bitter.
He wasn’t bitter?
After being sold into slavery at the age of seventeen he wasn’t bitter?
Why not?
Joseph wasn’t bitter because he left the righting of wrongs to God. (50:19)
God alone rights wrongs, so I don’t have to settle the score.
Deep wounds will never be healed if we let ourselves become bitter.
In bitterness we want to spread the hurt.
Share it with the ones who hurt us.
But we do so at the expense of leaving our own wounds unmended.
In the New Testament, Ephesians 4:31 says, Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger…
\\ One biographer on the life of Robert E. Lee tells how after the Civil War was over, General Lee visited a Kentucky lady who showed him the remains of a large old tree in front of her house.
She cried bitterly that its limbs and trunk had been destroyed by Union artillery fire.
She looked to Lee for a word condemning the soldiers of the North or at least sympathizing with her loss.
After a brief silence, Lee said, “Cut it down, my dear Madam, and forget it.”
Get rid of all bitterness.
Let it take root and it can poison the rest of our lives.
Joseph was a wise man.
He knew God wouldn’t heal his hurt as long as he carried a bitter desire to see harm come to his brothers.
Do you have a deep wound inflicted by someone in your past?
If so, guard against bitterness by trusting God to right the wrongs.
Without this, healing will not occur.
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