Abigail Makes Peace

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The Lord’s chosen servants should embrace the wisdom that he provides.

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1 Samuel 20 NIV
1 Then David fled from Naioth at Ramah and went to Jonathan and asked, “What have I done? What is my crime? How have I wronged your father, that he is trying to kill me?” 2 “Never!” Jonathan replied. “You are not going to die! Look, my father doesn’t do anything, great or small, without letting me know. Why would he hide this from me? It isn’t so!” 3 But David took an oath and said, “Your father knows very well that I have found favor in your eyes, and he has said to himself, ‘Jonathan must not know this or he will be grieved.’ Yet as surely as the Lord lives and as you live, there is only a step between me and death.” 4 Jonathan said to David, “Whatever you want me to do, I’ll do for you.” 5 So David said, “Look, tomorrow is the New Moon feast, and I am supposed to dine with the king; but let me go and hide in the field until the evening of the day after tomorrow. 6 If your father misses me at all, tell him, ‘David earnestly asked my permission to hurry to Bethlehem, his hometown, because an annual sacrifice is being made there for his whole clan.’ 7 If he says, ‘Very well,’ then your servant is safe. But if he loses his temper, you can be sure that he is determined to harm me. 8 As for you, show kindness to your servant, for you have brought him into a covenant with you before the Lord. If I am guilty, then kill me yourself! Why hand me over to your father?” 9 “Never!” Jonathan said. “If I had the least inkling that my father was determined to harm you, wouldn’t I tell you?” 10 David asked, “Who will tell me if your father answers you harshly?” 11 “Come,” Jonathan said, “let’s go out into the field.” So they went there together. 12 Then Jonathan said to David, “I swear by the Lord, the God of Israel, that I will surely sound out my father by this time the day after tomorrow! If he is favorably disposed toward you, will I not send you word and let you know? 13 But if my father intends to harm you, may the Lord deal with Jonathan, be it ever so severely, if I do not let you know and send you away in peace. May the Lord be with you as he has been with my father. 14 But show me unfailing kindness like the Lord’s kindness as long as I live, so that I may not be killed, 15 and do not ever cut off your kindness from my family—not even when the Lord has cut off every one of David’s enemies from the face of the earth.” 16 So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David, saying, “May the Lord call David’s enemies to account.” 17 And Jonathan had David reaffirm his oath out of love for him, because he loved him as he loved himself. 18 Then Jonathan said to David, “Tomorrow is the New Moon feast. You will be missed, because your seat will be empty. 19 The day after tomorrow, toward evening, go to the place where you hid when this trouble began, and wait by the stone Ezel. 20 I will shoot three arrows to the side of it, as though I were shooting at a target. 21 Then I will send a boy and say, ‘Go, find the arrows.’ If I say to him, ‘Look, the arrows are on this side of you; bring them here,’ then come, because, as surely as the Lord lives, you are safe; there is no danger. 22 But if I say to the boy, ‘Look, the arrows are beyond you,’ then you must go, because the Lord has sent you away. 23 And about the matter you and I discussed—remember, the Lord is witness between you and me forever.” 24 So David hid in the field, and when the New Moon feast came, the king sat down to eat. 25 He sat in his customary place by the wall, opposite Jonathan, and Abner sat next to Saul, but David’s place was empty. 26 Saul said nothing that day, for he thought, “Something must have happened to David to make him ceremonially unclean—surely he is unclean.” 27 But the next day, the second day of the month, David’s place was empty again. Then Saul said to his son Jonathan, “Why hasn’t the son of Jesse come to the meal, either yesterday or today?” 28 Jonathan answered, “David earnestly asked me for permission to go to Bethlehem. 29 He said, ‘Let me go, because our family is observing a sacrifice in the town and my brother has ordered me to be there. If I have found favor in your eyes, let me get away to see my brothers.’ That is why he has not come to the king’s table.” 30 Saul’s anger flared up at Jonathan and he said to him, “You son of a perverse and rebellious woman! Don’t I know that you have sided with the son of Jesse to your own shame and to the shame of the mother who bore you? 31 As long as the son of Jesse lives on this earth, neither you nor your kingdom will be established. Now send someone to bring him to me, for he must die!” 32 “Why should he be put to death? What has he done?” Jonathan asked his father. 33 But Saul hurled his spear at him to kill him. Then Jonathan knew that his father intended to kill David. 34 Jonathan got up from the table in fierce anger; on that second day of the feast he did not eat, because he was grieved at his father’s shameful treatment of David. 35 In the morning Jonathan went out to the field for his meeting with David. He had a small boy with him, 36 and he said to the boy, “Run and find the arrows I shoot.” As the boy ran, he shot an arrow beyond him. 37 When the boy came to the place where Jonathan’s arrow had fallen, Jonathan called out after him, “Isn’t the arrow beyond you?” 38 Then he shouted, “Hurry! Go quickly! Don’t stop!” The boy picked up the arrow and returned to his master. 39 (The boy knew nothing about all this; only Jonathan and David knew.) 40 Then Jonathan gave his weapons to the boy and said, “Go, carry them back to town.” 41 After the boy had gone, David got up from the south side of the stone and bowed down before Jonathan three times, with his face to the ground. Then they kissed each other and wept together—but David wept the most. 42 Jonathan said to David, “Go in peace, for we have sworn friendship with each other in the name of the Lord, saying, ‘The Lord is witness between you and me, and between your descendants and my descendants forever.’ ” Then David left, and Jonathan went back to the town.
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[1 Samuel 20]
1 & 2 Samuel The Text in Context

Saul persisted in his efforts to kill David, but Jonathan saved David again, risking his own life in the process. David was finally forced to run away, setting the stage for the next part of the story: David needs to wander from place to place to escape Saul’s hostility.

Saul persisted in his efforts to kill David, but Jonathan saved David again, risking his own life in the process. David was finally forced to run away, David needs to wander from place to place to escape Saul’s hostility.
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As David left Jonathan, he knew that Saul was now fully committed to murdering him. The king tried to kill him in a variety of ways, but each time David escaped).
1 & 2 Samuel The Text in Context

As David left Jonathan, he knew that Saul was now fully committed to murdering him. The king tried to kill him in a variety of ways, but each time David escaped (chaps. 18–19), once through the Lord’s direct intervention (19:23–24). Apparently unaware of Saul’s latest attempts to kill David (19:9–24), Jonathan was confident that his father would not harm David (cf. 19:6–7). But when Saul rejected Jonathan’s latest attempt to defend his friend, and Jonathan had to dodge one of his father’s spears (20:30–33), Jonathan realized the truth and warned David. The situation looked bleak for David, but he still had a devoted friend and protector in Jonathan. The narrator keeps David’s destiny before us through the words of Jonathan, who prayed for David’s well-being (20:13, 16), expressed his confidence that the Lord would subdue David’s enemies (20:15–16), and renewed his allegiance to the future king (20:17). Though David is still on the run, he has every reason to be confident: after all, David has escaped once again, the king’s son has recognized David’s destiny and is fully behind him, and the Lord has demonstrated his ability to protect David. But human emotions can be fickle, and in this next episode David’s faith wavers.

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1 & 2 Samuel The Text in Context

Saul’s intention to destroy David was never clearer than in chapter 22, which tells how Saul murdered the priests of Nob simply because he believed they had conspired with David against him. As the story continues, the tension is high because God told David to return to Judah (22:5), placing him in harm’s way. But chapter 23 shows that the God who places his servant in harm’s way also guides and protects; this theme of divine guidance and protection dominates the story in the coming chapters. It contributes to the author’s agenda of contrasting David with Saul. As we see in chapter 23, Saul claims divine assistance (see v. 7), but it is clear that God is really helping David. The Lord gives the Philistines into David’s hand, but he also uses the Philistines to divert Saul and to protect David.

First Samuel 22:20–23 describes Abiathar’s arrival at David’s camp, while 23:6 informs us that David is at Keilah when Abiathar arrives. Since 23:5 states that David and his men go to Keilah (from the forest of Hereth? [22:5]), Abiathar’s arrival takes place after or during the deliverance of Keilah. This means that the events of 1 Samuel 22:6–23:6 are not in strict chronological order. Saul’s slaughter of the priests at Nob is roughly contemporaneous with David’s victory over the Philistines at Keilah, while Abiathar’s two arrival scenes correspond (1 Sam. 22:20–23; 2 Sam. 23:6). One may think of a chronological flashback occurring at 23:1:

Saul’s slaughter of priests (22:6–19) / Abiathar’s arrival (22:20–23)

FLASHBACK: David’s victory at Keilah (23:1–5) / Abiathar’s arrival (23:6)

The contrast between David and Saul is sharp. While Saul is murdering the Lord’s priests, David is accomplishing what Saul should be doing: delivering people from the Philistines (see 9:16). David then protects the one remaining priest from the murderous Saul.

Saul’s intention to destroy David was never clearer than in chapter 22, which tells how Saul murdered the priests of Nob simply because he believed they had conspired with David against him.
describes Abiathar’s arrival at David’s camp, while 23:6 informs us that David is at Keilah when Abiathar arrives. Since 23:5 states that David and his men go to Keilah (from the forest of Hereth? [22:5]), Abiathar’s arrival takes place after or during the deliverance of Keilah. This means that the events of are not in strict chronological order. Saul’s slaughter of the priests at Nob is roughly contemporaneous with David’s victory over the Philistines at Keilah, while Abiathar’s two arrival scenes correspond (; ). One may think of a chronological flashback occurring at 23:1:
Saul’s slaughter of priests (22:6–19) / Abiathar’s arrival (22:20–23)
FLASHBACK: David’s victory at Keilah (23:1–5) / Abiathar’s arrival (23:6)
The contrast between David and Saul is sharp. While Saul is murdering the Lord’s priests, David is accomplishing what Saul should be doing: delivering people from the Philistines (see 9:16). David then protects the one remaining priest from the murderous Saul.
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1 & 2 Samuel The Text in Context

Chapter 23 ends with David’s escaping from Saul, yet one suspects that this is but a respite in the unfolding conflict. Indeed, once he has dealt with the Philistine problem, Saul resumes his pursuit of David. This time divine providence hands David an opportunity to kill Saul, yet he refuses to do so. Instead, he confronts Saul, protests his innocence, and appeals to God for justice. Throughout this section of 1 Samuel, the narrator’s purpose is to demonstrate beyond the shadow of a doubt that David, not Saul or one of his descendants, is the rightful king of Israel. The speech by Saul becomes Exhibit A in the narrator’s defense. The heir apparent to Saul’s throne, Jonathan, has already acknowledged David’s destiny; now Saul himself confesses the truth. He admits that David is in the right and that he (Saul) has acted sinfully. Saul blesses David, asking the Lord to repay him for his good deed. He also admits that David will become king, and he even asks David to promise that he will not wipe out his family line. David’s oath to Saul, by which he promises to spare Saul’s descendants, is also important in the following story, for David’s commitment to keep it (2 Sam. 9) demonstrates his faithfulness to both Jonathan and Saul, proving that he is not a usurper who masterminds their demise.

David’s escapes from Saul, yet one suspects that this is but a respite in the unfolding conflict. Indeed, once he has dealt with the Philistine problem, Saul resumes his pursuit of David.
Saul blesses David, asking the Lord to repay him for his good deed. He also admits that David will become king.
1 Samuel 24 NIV
1 After Saul returned from pursuing the Philistines, he was told, “David is in the Desert of En Gedi.” 2 So Saul took three thousand able young men from all Israel and set out to look for David and his men near the Crags of the Wild Goats. 3 He came to the sheep pens along the way; a cave was there, and Saul went in to relieve himself. David and his men were far back in the cave. 4 The men said, “This is the day the Lord spoke of when he said to you, ‘I will give your enemy into your hands for you to deal with as you wish.’ ” Then David crept up unnoticed and cut off a corner of Saul’s robe. 5 Afterward, David was conscience-stricken for having cut off a corner of his robe. 6 He said to his men, “The Lord forbid that I should do such a thing to my master, the Lord’s anointed, or lay my hand on him; for he is the anointed of the Lord.” 7 With these words David sharply rebuked his men and did not allow them to attack Saul. And Saul left the cave and went his way. 8 Then David went out of the cave and called out to Saul, “My lord the king!” When Saul looked behind him, David bowed down and prostrated himself with his face to the ground. 9 He said to Saul, “Why do you listen when men say, ‘David is bent on harming you’? 10 This day you have seen with your own eyes how the Lord delivered you into my hands in the cave. Some urged me to kill you, but I spared you; I said, ‘I will not lay my hand on my lord, because he is the Lord’s anointed.’ 11 See, my father, look at this piece of your robe in my hand! I cut off the corner of your robe but did not kill you. See that there is nothing in my hand to indicate that I am guilty of wrongdoing or rebellion. I have not wronged you, but you are hunting me down to take my life. 12 May the Lord judge between you and me. And may the Lord avenge the wrongs you have done to me, but my hand will not touch you. 13 As the old saying goes, ‘From evildoers come evil deeds,’ so my hand will not touch you. 14 “Against whom has the king of Israel come out? Who are you pursuing? A dead dog? A flea? 15 May the Lord be our judge and decide between us. May he consider my cause and uphold it; may he vindicate me by delivering me from your hand.” 16 When David finished saying this, Saul asked, “Is that your voice, David my son?” And he wept aloud. 17 “You are more righteous than I,” he said. “You have treated me well, but I have treated you badly. 18 You have just now told me about the good you did to me; the Lord delivered me into your hands, but you did not kill me. 19 When a man finds his enemy, does he let him get away unharmed? May the Lord reward you well for the way you treated me today. 20 I know that you will surely be king and that the kingdom of Israel will be established in your hands. 21 Now swear to me by the Lord that you will not kill off my descendants or wipe out my name from my father’s family.” 22 So David gave his oath to Saul. Then Saul returned home, but David and his men went up to the stronghold.
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The Chapter ends with David’s being vindicated as Saul acknowledged David’s innocence, pronounced a blessing upon him, and assured him that he would someday be the king of Israel.
1 & 2 Samuel The Text in Context

Chapter 24 ends with David’s being vindicated as Saul acknowledged David’s innocence, pronounced a blessing upon him, and assured him that he would someday be the king of Israel. However, he did not invite David to return to the royal court; Saul and David went their separate ways (v. 22). As we move to chapter 25, Saul remains backstage for a brief time as the narrator focuses on David’s dealings with the wealthy but foolish Nabal, and his wise wife, Abigail. In chapter 24 David refused to take vengeance into his own hands; instead, he appealed to God for vindication. In chapter 25 this theme of vengeance emerges again. Nabal insults David, prompting David to seek vengeance against him. But wise Abigail intervenes and very diplomatically warns David that such a deed would be unworthy of Israel’s future king. David recognizes her as God’s messenger and praises the Lord for keeping him from doing something unwise. David instead waits on the Lord and is vindicated when the Lord mortally strikes down Nabal. David’s restraint and reliance on God’s intervention are fitting for one who will rule Israel. Once more David stands in contrast to Saul, who is obsessed with getting revenge on his enemies (14:24; 18:25), has been on a mission to take an innocent life (David’s; cf. 1 Sam. 19:5), and has already killed the innocent priests of Nob and their families (1 Sam. 22). The voice of wisdom, embodied in Abigail (25:3, 33), reiterates what Saul himself has confessed (24:16–21): David is destined to be king. Only a fool (like Nabal—and Saul?) would resist God’s purposes.

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There continues to be this ongoing war between Saul and David.
Samuel was the one that anointed David and Saul. There was a great deal of history here between these two.
There was war between Saul and David.
There is a very simple way that the chapter begins
Samuel was one of the great figures of Israelite history, acting as priest, prophet, and judge in Israel. He was a maker and a breaker of kings, an extremely powerful personage.
Yet the account of his death is limited to this: “Now Samuel died; and all Israel assembled and mourned for him. They buried him at his home in Ramah.”
Despite its unpretentious austerity, the text does speak of the near-universal respect Israel had for Samuel. “All Israel assembled and mourned for him.”
The mourning could have lasted for some time, involving many ceremonies.
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David’s activity after the funeral is a bit unclear. The MT says he went down to the “wilderness of Paran,” which describes the southern extremity of the Arabah, a location that seems much too far south.
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Despite its unpretentious austerity, the text does speak of the near-universal respect Israel had for Samuel. “All Israel assembled and mourned for him.” The mourning could have lasted for some time, involving many ceremonies. They are beside the point for the narrator, however, who simply wants the reader to know that Samuel is dead in order to set the stage for Saul’s later appeal to Samuel’s shade (28:3–25). The notice is repeated in 28:3 but presented as something that happened in the past. The interlude serves one other function, however: it illustrates the momentary peace that existed between Saul and David. Saul undoubtedly would have presided over some aspects of the national mourning for Samuel. If David also attended the ceremonies, as the text implies, there is no hint of trouble. Outward animosity was suspended out of respect for the deceased leader.
Samuel was one of the greatest men in the history of Israel. However, Israel rejected his godly leadership, especially regarding a king, and all their lamenting and eulogies at his death were delinquent and hypocritical.
David’s activity after the funeral is a bit unclear. The MT says he went down to the “wilderness of Paran,” which describes the southern extremity of the Arabah, a location that seems much too far south. One of the better versions of the Septuagint (LXXB) has “Maon” and another (LXXL) has “Yeshimon,” as does the Syriac version. In any case, David’s further activities in chapter 25 do not take place in Paran, but in the area surrounding Maon.
Analytical Bible Expositor: I & II Samuel 1. The Prologue of the Request (1 Samuel 25:1)

Samuel was one of the greatest men in the history of Israel. However, Israel rejected his godly leadership, especially regarding a king, and all their lamenting and eulogies at his death were delinquent and hypocritical. Many good men are only praised when they die.

Many good men are only praised when they die.
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1 Samuel 25:1 NIV
Now Samuel died, and all Israel assembled and mourned for him; and they buried him at his home in Ramah. Then David moved down into the Desert of Paran.
Without much fanfare…Samuel has died
With much fanfare…Samuel has died. ALL of Israel. That’s a bunch of men, women,children. They all came together and “mourned,” probably for quite sometime.
The Saul/David conflict is interrupted in 25:1 with a surprisingly simple note that Samuel had died.
Samuel was one of the great figures of Israelite history, acting as priest, prophet, and judge in Israel.
He was a maker and a breaker of kings.
Saul undoubtedly would have presided over some aspects of the national mourning for Samuel. If David also attended the ceremonies, as the text implies, there is no hint of trouble. Outward animosity was suspended out of respect for the deceased leader.
1 Samuel 25:2 NIV
A certain man in Maon, who had property there at Carmel, was very wealthy. He had a thousand goats and three thousand sheep, which he was shearing in Carmel.

Two things should worry us about this man. The first is his name. In Hebrew it means “fool.” The sense of the word can be appreciated from Psalm 14:1:

The fool [Hebrew, nabal] says in his heart, “There is no God.”

They are corrupt, they do abominable deeds,

there is none who does good. (Psalm 14:1)

Isaiah spoke eloquently of the fool, in terms that fit Nabal remarkably:

For the fool [Hebrew, nabal] speaks folly,

and his heart is busy with iniquity,

to practice ungodliness,

to utter error concerning the LORD,

to leave the craving of the hungry unsatisfied,

and to deprive the thirsty of drink. (Isaiah 32:6)

The second worry is the description of his conduct, which fits his name (as well as Psalm 14:1 and Isaiah 32:6) too well: “the man was harsh and badly behaved.” We will see his abominable behavior very soon.

The last point made in his introduction is, “he was a Calebite.” I suspect there is a note of bitter irony here. Caleb was no fool. Caleb was a model faithful Israelite at the time of the wilderness wanderings and the conquest of Canaan (see Numbers 13:30–33; 14:1–12, 24, 30, 38; Deuteronomy 1:36; Joshua 14:6–15; 15:13–19; Judges 1:11–15, 20). This man may have been a Calebite in name, but his character and conduct betrayed that noble heritage. In reality Nabal was no Calebite!

Two things should worry us about this man. The first is his name. In Hebrew it means “fool.” The sense of the word can be appreciated from :
Psalm 14:1 NIV
1 The fool says in his heart, “There is no God.” They are corrupt, their deeds are vile; there is no one who does good.
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The fool [Hebrew, nabal] says in his heart, “There is no God.”
The fool [Hebrew, nabal] says in his heart, “There is no God.”
there is none who does good. ()
Isaiah spoke eloquently of the fool, in terms that fit Nabal remarkably:
For the fool [Hebrew, nabal] speaks folly,
and his heart is busy with iniquity,
to practice ungodliness,
to utter error concerning the LORD,
to leave the craving of the hungry unsatisfied,
and to deprive the thirsty of drink. ()
The second worry is the description of his conduct, which fits his name (as well as and ) too well: “the man was harsh and badly behaved.” We will see his abominable behavior very soon.
The last point made in his introduction is, “he was a Calebite.” I suspect there is a note of bitter irony here. Caleb was no fool. Caleb was a model faithful Israelite at the time of the wilderness wanderings and the conquest of Canaan (see ; , , , ; ; ; ; , ). This man may have been a Calebite in name, but his character and conduct betrayed that noble heritage. In reality Nabal was no Calebite!
1 Samuel 25:3 NIV
His name was Nabal and his wife’s name was Abigail. She was an intelligent and beautiful woman, but her husband was surly and mean in his dealings—he was a Calebite.
I want to focus here for a minute. Abigail was an “intelligent and beautiful woman.
I want to focus here for a minute. Abigail was an “intelligent and beautiful woman.
What a striking comment… Remember we are dealing with a time and place where a women was property.
The word here “intelligent” in Hebrew has a greater meaning that our meaning, “smart.” There was a moral quality. That means above the fray. Didn’t deal with perverse and faithless people. She was wise… David needed wisdom in his life.

The second character introduced is Nabal’s wife, Abigail. In short, she was everything he was not. He was a fool, she was “discerning” (literally, “good of understanding”); he was harsh, she was “beautiful” (literally, “beautiful of form”). Her wisdom and her beauty will play a major role in the events about to be told.

Her peace, wisdom and her inner beauty will play a major role in the events about to be told.
Here’s the BIG idea for this week...
Wisdom is a precious gift. It is best received when at peace. Ask for it, listen for it, don’t ignore it and pass it on when you get it
I have gotten some of the best advice in the world, some of the best advice that money can buy, I’ve ignored and suffered the consequences for my actions more than once because I didn’t listen well.
Abigail was intelligent, had morals, didn’t hang out with the wrong crowd, was wise and David was sent to her…because he needed wisdom.
Were or how or when did Abigail get this precious gift of wisdom?
Were or how or when did Abigail get this precious gift of wisdom?
Well let’s look at another example of wisdom, Solomon was known as the wisest person ever born.
1 Kings 4:29 NIV
God gave Solomon wisdom and very great insight, and a breadth of understanding as measureless as the sand on the seashore.
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There are 35 other verses in the OT that detail this “wisdom”
1 Kings 10:23–24 NIV
King Solomon was greater in riches and wisdom than all the other kings of the earth. The whole world sought audience with Solomon to hear the wisdom God had put in his heart.
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1 Kings 10:23 NIV
King Solomon was greater in riches and wisdom than all the other kings of the earth.
There are 35 other verses in the OT that detail this “wisdom”
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How did Solomon get all of this wisdom...
He asked...
1 Kings 3:12 NIV
I will do what you have asked. I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be.
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Wisdom is a very valuable asset in the biblical world.
Genesis 41:33 NIV
“And now let Pharaoh look for a discerning and wise man and put him in charge of the land of Egypt.
Talking about Joseph here..
Deuteronomy 1:15 NIV
So I took the leading men of your tribes, wise and respected men, and appointed them to have authority over you—as commanders of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties and of tens and as tribal officials.
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The “I” here is Moses
Wisdom is a very valuable asset in the biblical world.
I would say it is a valuable asset in EVERY world and all times. But do we listen to the wisdom that is around us.
I want to wander back towards our passage for today, .
I want to wander back towards our passage for today. And and give you some examples of “wise” people in the NT and OT.
Tony W. Cartledge, 1 & 2 Samuel, ed. Samuel E. Balentine and P. Keith Gammons, Smyth & Helwys Bible Commentary (Macon, GA: Smyth & Helwys Publishing, Incorporated, 2001), 291.
Vs. 4-9
1 Samuel 25:4–9 NIV
4 While David was in the wilderness, he heard that Nabal was shearing sheep. 5 So he sent ten young men and said to them, “Go up to Nabal at Carmel and greet him in my name. 6 Say to him: ‘Long life to you! Good health to you and your household! And good health to all that is yours! 7 “ ‘Now I hear that it is sheep-shearing time. When your shepherds were with us, we did not mistreat them, and the whole time they were at Carmel nothing of theirs was missing. 8 Ask your own servants and they will tell you. Therefore be favorable toward my men, since we come at a festive time. Please give your servants and your son David whatever you can find for them.’ ” 9 When David’s men arrived, they gave Nabal this message in David’s name. Then they waited.
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1 Samuel 25:7–8 NIV
7 “ ‘Now I hear that it is sheep-shearing time. When your shepherds were with us, we did not mistreat them, and the whole time they were at Carmel nothing of theirs was missing. 8 Ask your own servants and they will tell you. Therefore be favorable toward my men, since we come at a festive time. Please give your servants and your son David whatever you can find for them.’ ”
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David is telling Nabal…I could have attacked and killed your men while they were shearing, i could have taken them …I did not in fact I protected them, I respected them and you.
David got nothing from Nabal… no kindness, no generosity. No in-kind return for his efforts.
Lesson #1
We cannot always anticipate the response of those around us. Stay your course…if you know what’s right it’s right. Stand firm, stand tall
1 Samuel 25:10 NIV
10 Nabal answered David’s servants, “Who is this David? Who is this son of Jesse? Many servants are breaking away from their masters these days.
Nabal knew him…he knew him enough to call him by his tribal name… “Jesse.”
We have known those in our lives who no matter what you do, what you give, how you treat they are just nasty back to you… Sometimes it is covering something else other times like Nabal…they are “fools.”
We have known those in our lives who no matter what you do, what you give, how you treat they are just nasty back to you…
Sometimes it is covering something else other times like Nabal…they are “fools.” What is exactly what his name means… fool.
The Biblical concept is “reciprocity”
Lesson #2
Seek out and honor those around us who add value and wisdom to our lives.
So then…don’t seek out, be near, hang out with people who don’t add value and wisdom to your life.
Stay cool…as David did NOT!!
He was quick tempered and acted quickly…strap on your swords, spin up the 82nd, Get the missiles ready to fire, are the aircraft carriers in position, ready to launch, how many troops can we deliver in a short amount of time?
He was quick tempered and acted quickly…strap on your swords, spin up the 82nd, Get the missiles ready to fire, are the aircraft carriers in position, ready to launch, how many troops can we deliver in a short amount of time?
So what are we ready to go to war between David and Nabal… over respect???
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If not for Abigail...
Lesson #3
Watch for wisdom to come from unknown places and people.
Wisdom is from God…the mouthpiece is different but wisdom is wisdom
Abigail was a woman… I rely on Jill for wisdom, criticism, correction, encouragement, love. I hope the same could be said about your spouse. Our wives or ladies, your husbands should be in your corner.
For those who are single by choice or by circumstance, it is our responsibility, the responsibility of the church to provide wisdom. It is the responsibility of family to provide that wisdom.
Don’t forget our singles!!
This respect and quest for wisdom was not the case in the ancient world…and unfortunately not in the modern world.
And we, all of us have collectively lost our minds in the current world.
We’ve traded our identities for the other sex or no sex all and want to be known as “binary”
We have left as a shell the 10 commandments
We have left the 2 great commands in shambles.
We worship our pensions, retirement funds, savings and turn our backs on our most vulnerable. Most needy and those screaming for Jesus.
Abigail heard and understood how serious this situation was...
Abigail heard and understood how serious this situation was...
He husband the “Fool” had poked the “bear” David…She needed to make it right with David or She would suffer the consequences of her husbands doing.
Abigail either because of her emotional intelligence or just solid desire knew she needed to bring PEACE to the situation.
Abigail must have been a good Baptist...
What did she do???
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1 Samuel 25:18–19 NIV
18 Abigail acted quickly. She took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five dressed sheep, five seahs of roasted grain, a hundred cakes of raisins and two hundred cakes of pressed figs, and loaded them on donkeys. 19 Then she told her servants, “Go on ahead; I’ll follow you.” But she did not tell her husband Nabal.
She made a feast!!!
She used her gifts to diffuse the situation
1 Samuel 25:20–22 NIV
20 As she came riding her donkey into a mountain ravine, there were David and his men descending toward her, and she met them. 21 David had just said, “It’s been useless—all my watching over this fellow’s property in the wilderness so that nothing of his was missing. He has paid me back evil for good. 22 May God deal with David, be it ever so severely, if by morning I leave alive one male of all who belong to him!”
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Abigail made a series of requests

The ferocity of David’s words is lost a little in translation here. In the original his language had a vulgar edge to it that fitted his fury. It was moral outrage. Nabal had returned “evil” for the “good” David had done him.

Abigail made a series of requests
1 Samuel 25:25 NIV
25 Please pay no attention, my lord, to that wicked man Nabal. He is just like his name—his name means Fool, and folly goes with him. And as for me, your servant, I did not see the men my lord sent.
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Nabal was fool…ignore him!
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Pray
1 Samuel 25:26 NIV
26 And now, my lord, as surely as the Lord your God lives and as you live, since the Lord has kept you from bloodshed and from avenging yourself with your own hands, may your enemies and all who are intent on harming my lord be like Nabal.
Pray...
Abigail’s second appeal was a prayer based on a very bold interpretation of her interception of David. The Lord himself had kept David from a disaster by putting Abigail in his path that day!
Abigail’s second appeal was a prayer based on a very bold interpretation of her interception of David. The Lord himself had kept David from a disaster by putting Abigail in his path that day!
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Abigail’s second appeal was a prayer based on a very bold interpretation of her interception of David. The Lord himself had kept David from a disaster by putting Abigail in his path that day!

Accept this gift
1 Samuel 25:27 NIV
27 And let this gift, which your servant has brought to my lord, be given to the men who follow you.
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Forgiveness
1 Samuel 25:28 NIV
28 “Please forgive your servant’s presumption. The Lord your God will certainly make a lasting dynasty for my lord, because you fight the Lord’s battles, and no wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live.
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Abigail really took one for the Nabal team…she was his wife, he was her connection to everything. She was protecting herself and her family.
The list of requests that Abigail made are a great pattern for us when we bring peace and seek wisdom
They also give us relief when we have stepped all over ourselves.
Here is that list of very wise moves when dealing with those who are beyond peace and any wisdom.
Deescalate the situation…Abigail agreed with David that Nabal was a fool.
#1 Deescalate the situation…Abigail agreed with David that Nabal was a fool.
Deescalate the situation…Abigail agreed with David that Nabal was a fool.
Deescalate the situation…Abigail agreed with David that Nabal was a fool.
#2 Pray…Pray…Pray. Abigail appealed to David’s spiritual standing.
Pray…Pray…Pray. Abigail appealed to David’s spiritual standing.
Don’t lose your witness because your feelings got hurt.
#3 Accept this gift. Abigail brought a gift. Doesn’t seem like much to us. But was a huge honor to David and a credit to Abigail.
Accept this gift. Abigail brought a gift. Doesn’t seem like much to us. But was a huge honor to David and a credit to Abigail.
#4 Forgive…Everyone has been let down by another person. It’s just part of life. Forgive and move on.
Forgive…Everyone has been let down by another person. It’s just part of life. Forgive and move on.
David’s Response To All of THIS??
1 Samuel 25:33–34 NIV
33 May you be blessed for your good judgment and for keeping me from bloodshed this day and from avenging myself with my own hands. 34 Otherwise, as surely as the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, who has kept me from harming you, if you had not come quickly to meet me, not one male belonging to Nabal would have been left alive by daybreak.”
I pray that we can have good judgement as Abigail did. I pray that we can internalize this, let our lives but ruled by the Spirit of God and not by anything but truth, purity and righteousness.
1Sam25.34-35
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This remarkable aspect of David’s conduct is strikingly similar to Jesus who did not come, in his first coming, “to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him” .

This remarkable aspect of David’s conduct is strikingly similar to Jesus who did not come, in his first coming, “to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:17; cf. 12:47). The time will come for judgment (John 5:22). In the meantime Jesus Christ is in the business of forgiveness (Luke 24:47). Those who belong to him must be in the same business (see Romans 12:14–21).

The time will come for judgment In the meantime Jesus Christ is in the business of forgiveness.
Let’s Return to the BIG IDEA!!
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1 Samuel 25:1 NIV
Now Samuel died, and all Israel assembled and mourned for him; and they buried him at his home in Ramah. Then David moved down into the Desert of Paran.
1 & 2 Samuel Samuel’s Death, 25:1

Samuel was one of the great figures of Israelite history, acting as priest, prophet, and judge in Israel. He was a maker and a breaker of kings, an extremely powerful personage. Yet the account of his death is limited to this: “Now Samuel died; and all Israel assembled and mourned for him. They buried him at his home in Ramah.”

Despite its unpretentious austerity, the text does speak of the near-universal respect Israel had for Samuel. “All Israel assembled and mourned for him.” The mourning could have lasted for some time, involving many ceremonies. They are beside the point for the narrator, however, who simply wants the reader to know that Samuel is dead in order to set the stage for Saul’s later appeal to Samuel’s shade (28:3–25). The notice is repeated in 28:3 but presented as something that happened in the past. The interlude serves one other function, however: it illustrates the momentary peace that existed between Saul and David. Saul undoubtedly would have presided over some aspects of the national mourning for Samuel. If David also attended the ceremonies, as the text implies, there is no hint of trouble. Outward animosity was suspended out of respect for the deceased leader.

David’s activity after the funeral is a bit unclear. The MT says he went down to the “wilderness of Paran,” which describes the southern extremity of the Arabah, a location that seems much too far south. One of the better versions of the Septuagint (LXXB) has “Maon” and another (LXXL) has “Yeshimon,” as does the Syriac version. In any case, David’s further activities in chapter 25 do not take place in Paran, but in the area surrounding Maon.

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