Spiritual Freedom
From Childhood To Adult
(1) In the Jewish world, on the first Sabbath after a boy had passed his 12th birthday, his father took him to the synagogue, where he became a son of the law. At that point, the father said a blessing: ‘Blessed are you, O God, who has taken from me the responsibility for this boy.’ The boy prayed a prayer in which he said: ‘O my God and God of my fathers! On this solemn and sacred day, which marks my passage from boyhood to manhood, I humbly raise my eyes to you, and declare, with sincerity and truth, that henceforth I will keep your commandments, and undertake and bear the responsibility of my actions towards you.’ There was a clear dividing line in the boy’s life; almost overnight he became a man.
(2) In Greece, a boy was under his father’s care from the age of 7 until he was 18. He then became what was called an ephebos, which may be translated as cadet, and for two years he was under the direction of the state. The Athenians were divided into ten phratriai, or clans. Before a boy became an ephebos, at a festival called the Apatouria, he was received into the clan; and in a ceremonial act his long hair was cut off and offered to the gods. Once again, growing up was quite a distinct process.
(3) Under Roman law, the year at which a boy grew up was not definitely fixed, but it was always between the ages of 14 and 17. At a sacred festival in the family called the Liberalia, he took off the toga praetexta, which was a toga with a narrow purple band at the foot of it, and put on the toga virilis, which was a plain toga worn by adults. He was then escorted by his friends and relatives down to the forum and formally introduced to public life. It was essentially a religious ceremony. Once again, there was a quite definite day on which the boy attained manhood. There was a Roman custom that, on the day a boy or girl grew up, they offered their toys to Apollo to show that they had put away childish things.