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Life’s Healing Choices

This is week 7 of our series; and from what I have heard from some of you, many are finding real change as you work through these choices....

I tell my kids all the time, make healthy choices… and what I mean by that usually is … don’t do something stupid this weekend.

You’ll have plenty of opportuntiies for mistakes, but when you get to make a choice, choose healthy relationships, healthy behaviors, healthy habits, healthy meals, you name it.

I know though that saying that sometimes

If we don’t think about each choice as healthy or not… we will naturally choose what sounds best in the moment… and you and I both know that the things that sound right in the moment usually aren’t tthat healthy.

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that’s why this week’s choice is so important.

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Scripture uses the picture of running a race to remind us how to live out these healing choices.

Paul wrote it this way:

You look at me and you think… If you look at me and think, I bet hes a runner.... first you need glasses, but second, I used to be… in fact I’m running a 5K… I started out ready and confident… along the way there were people stopping to walk, limping, tripping, stopping for water, when I got to the end I could hardly breather, nose running, legs aching, I was a mess.

But I finished.

I didn’t get a trophy because I didn’t win the race, but in the race of faith, winning is finishing

You are the only one who can win the race of your life.... you just have to finish

Overcoming sin in our lives is just like that, it’s not so much how we look after the race, it’s that we finish.

Today’s choice is about finishing the race.

Living the tomorrows of our life free from hurts, habits, and hangups.

Removing the sinful habits from our lives and living the life that Jesus came to make real in us.

That life of freedom.

The Growth Choice: I reserve a daily time with God for Bible reading, self examination, and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the power to follow His will.

Jesus gives us a new life.

But this new life is dramatically different from teh one we knew.

We talked about this freedom before.

Just a dysfunctional life has a pattern…

...you’re spouse has died and you don’t really want to go out to see anyone else, but that leads to depression where you feel like going out to meet anyone.

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…You’re bitter towards your family who don’t come visit anymore, but when someone does, you can’t help but treat them in ways that make sure it’ll be even longer till they come back… Why do you do that?

…You’re successful… at least by every measure of our culture… but you are overwhelmed with responsibilities.... you don’t want to make a mistake because of the way it would affect others… how do you cope?

…you have a secret… and you don’t let people get close because you know they find out and you are scared how they will react, so you put on a good front, but you are worry that people will see through it…how do you hide it?

Just like there are patterns to dysfunctional living, there are patterns to healthy living that leads to spiritual growth; that’s what I want to talk about today.

How to keep living out healthy choices.

How to keep our spiritual growth on track as it were.

First, is no surprise:

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I grow as I spend time with Jesus

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John, the gospel writer said it this way:

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The source of our strength comes from being connected to the power source.

I remember when our son asked for a ninja for Christmas one year.

I couldn't imagine why anyone would want one of those over priced blenders, then I saw it in action.

It’s like having an Evinrude 225 in a blender.

That thing will blend firewood to saw dust if you put it in there.

We had to get one for us.

But as awesome as it is as a blender, unless it’s plugged in, it’s useless.

Unless it’s connected to the power source, it can’t do anything.

Same way with our spiritual lives.

The power of our lives comes from being connected to Jesus.

For us to grow spiritually, we need to keep our lives connected to Jesus.

Maybe this will help you get this first point.

We can run after many things in this life.

God doesn’t direct oru lives… forcing us to pursue one thing or another.

He gives us options.

We can pursue what ever we want.

He did create to be in relationship with him though.

That’s what I was created for; that’s the best place for me to be.

It’s like starting to run.

Whats’ the best race for you? is it a marathon?

probably not, is it a 5k, maybe. is it just around the block, more likely depending on your health.

But the race you need to run is the one Jesus is running.

What I find is that when I run with Jesus, sin isn't such an issue; fear isn’t such an issue; joy becomes more normal; the sun is brighter and my approach to the sun is less ugh it’s bright and more wow

As I’m near Jesus, he actually changes me.

Jesus makes life better, Jesus makes me better at life.

First we need to be in the right place… with Jesus.

That sets us up for success.

But don’t misunderstand, we are pretty limited creatures, even though we are in God’s image, scripture refers to us as jars of clay.

But while we may be simple fragile clay jars, we have the ability to contain a power that is from God.

So how do we replace the contents of our jar with God’s power?

Spending time with him in prayer, worship, listening, praying.

My son has an internship with a tech company in Salisbury.

It’s a way for him to get real practical experience in the technology industry.

He’s learning, it’s not about getting paid now.

What he’s learning is what a career in technology is really about, not what he had imagined it was like.

I grow as I fill my mind with Scripture

It’s the same for us as we grow spiritually.

We need to change our way of thinking to be more in line with God’s way do thinking.

James the brother of Jesus said it this way:

Understand this, the bible doesn’t save anyone.

Knowing Scripture doesn’t change who you are, Jesus changes you, but filling our minds with God’s word is the best way to understand the character of Jesus.

It’s the best way for us to know who we are trying to model our lives after.

Back to our running example from before… just like to run the right race we need to be in the right place, think of scripture as having the right fuel for the race.

The way to know what Jesus wants for our lives… not just where the spirit leads, but that is supported by what the Word says.

I grow as I focus on my goal, not my habit.

In running the race of faith, it’s important to run the right way (with Jesus); with the right fuel (scripture); with the right focus (goal/prize).

What’s the goal.

We could say to something generic platitude… I want to be more holy… I want to remove sin from my life.

But those are platitudes.

Be specific.

What exactly is God leading you to accomplish?

For the next week I won’t eat ice cream.

Tomorrow every time I want to smoke, I will go for a walk

To help with my anxiety, I will exercise 30 minutes every day this week

Today, every time I get the urge to drink alcohol, I will call a friend

Spiritual growth goals need to be specific

Focusing on specific goals help us grow in two ways.

Focus on my goal: Helps me have a short memory of mistakes

Athlete who is consumed with past mistakes is destined to make new ones.

Remember: Spiritual growth isn’t about perfection it’s about progress

And when you are focused on your specific goal, it really helps you have a short memory of mistakes… you don’t have time for them because you are on track.

Focus on my goal: Helps me avoid temptations, not fear them

What am I running for… not running from.