Women Love Hard or Do They?
Why Do Women Cheat On Good Men? • Sermon • Submitted
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12 Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him.
13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man: 14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. 15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
James 1:12-15
Have you ever heard a women say: When I Love I Love Hard?
What exactly does that mean? And, what are we setting ourselves up for if we’re in a relationship or trying to be in a relationship with a men that does love you hard? How do we define love? Is it me, myself, and I? Or, is it I give and I expect you to give me the same thing back even though you never said or saw love the way I did or wanted what I wanted? Want kind of man are we choosing that make us feel we have to Love him hard in order to make him happy or keep him? That’s too much work!! There are men that have shown from the very beginning they have no intention of committing to a long loving lasting relationship, but because we feel like we have the power, we make our business to mold him into the man we want him to be. What we’ve done is coveted him until he puts a ring on it and say I do, to only end up unhappy, bitter, depressed, and revengeful later.
If we are to be married to the right man, our first love must be God, and we are to learn of Jesus!
Deuteronomy 6:5
5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength.
Matthew 5:6
6 They are blessed who hunger and thirst after justice,
for they will be satisfied.
Matthew 11:28-30
28 “Come to me, all of you who are tired and have heavy loads, and I will give you rest. 29 Accept my teachings and learn from me, because I am gentle and humble in spirit, and you will find rest for your lives. 30 The burden that I ask you to accept is easy; the load I give you to carry is light.”
So why do women cheat on good men?
He’s too good: He’s a nerd, she can tell you day after day just what he’s going to do, there are no surprises to him at all. He’s not a challenge.
He Changed: The man she married stop telling her he love her. He thinks that because he pays all the bills, he is saying he loves her. What he does understand is she needs validation and what he says matters.
Revenge: She can’t let go of the past. She cheats because he cheated on her so many times in the past, and yes she could just leave him back then, but because she wants him to feel what she felt, she cheats.
Lost of Romantic love: He’s not a cheater, but He’s that type of guy, he like the silent invisible partner. You don’t date anymore, No flowers, Gifts, etc, and he lacks drive.You wanted to travel, he wanted to stay at home. You wanted children, he doesn’t not. You wanted someone who would make love to you, he wants to have sex. You wanted to take on opportunities and be challenged, he wanted to be comfortable. He’s that type of guy. nothing with her. They don’t date anymore, No flowers, Gifts, etc, and he lacks drive.
Lack of availability: Husband is always away from home,Works late hours, he hangs out with the guys, runs around for his mama, he always has something on his calendar, but you and when he is home he never has time to listen, because that’s his time to rest or if its game season to watches the game in his cave.
Lack of Self Confidence and Happiness: Women cheat when they marry with a Cinderella mind set. She expects him to be perfect and break his back to make her happy when she’s not happy with herself.
