Why Women Cheat On Good Men-Bad Girls Bad Girls
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Hosea 1
1 The word of the Lord that came unto Hosea, the son of Beeri, in the days of Uzziah, Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah, kings of Judah, and in the days of Jeroboam the son of Joash, king of Israel. 2 The beginning of the word of the Lord by Hosea. And the Lord said to Hosea, Go, take unto thee a wife of whoredoms and children of whoredoms: for the land hath committed great whoredom, departing from the Lord. 3 So he went and took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim; which conceived, and bare him a son. 4 And the Lord said unto him, Call his name Jezreel; for yet a little while, and I will avenge the blood of Jezreel upon the house of Jehu, and will cause to cease the kingdom of the house of Israel. 5 And it shall come to pass at that day, that I will break the bow of Israel in the valley of Jezreel. 6 And she conceived again, and bare a daughter. And God said unto him, Call her name Lo-ruhamah: for I will no more have mercy upon the house of Israel; but I will utterly take them away. 7 But I will have mercy upon the house of Judah, and will save them by the Lord their God, and will not save them by bow, nor by sword, nor by battle, by horses, nor by horsemen. 8 Now when she had weaned Lo-ruhamah, she conceived, and bare a son. 9 Then said God, Call his name Lo-ammi: for ye are not my people, and I will not be your God. 10 Yet the number of the children of Israel shall be as the sand of the sea, which cannot be measured nor numbered; and it shall come to pass, that in the place where it was said unto them, Ye are not my people, there it shall be said unto them, Ye are the sons of the living God. 11 Then shall the children of Judah and the children of Israel be gathered together, and appoint themselves one head, and they shall come up out of the land: for great shall be the day of Jezreel.
5 For their mother hath played the harlot:
She that conceived them hath done shamefully:
For she said, I will go after my lovers,
That give me my bread and my water,
My wool and my flax, mine oil and my drink.
Hosea 2:5
James 1:14-15
14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. 15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
1 Corinthians 6:12-20
12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. 13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. 14 And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power. 15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. 18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
So why do Women cheat on Good Men?
Previous Cheating: The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is more than just a saying. You will find that if a person has not found Christ and has truly been delivered, they will go back to cheating when things in the relationship go bad.
Personality Disorders: Studies have shown people who have strong narcissistic traits or personality disorders such as Bipolar are more likely to cheat. With narcissism, an affair may be driven by ego and a sense of entitlement. In addition to being self-centered, people with these disorders often lack empathy.
Poor self-esteem and insecurity can increase the risk of an affair as a way to prove worthiness.
Low compatibility: People who married for the wrong reasons. For instant because you got pregnant.
Body Image/Aging: Many middle-aged Women have affair with much younger men as a way to prove that they still "have it."
Hyper-sexuality: There are women that have a higher sex drive than men, and when they’re not getting it fulfilled that can led to an affair.
She wants out the marriage
She feels the relationship is over but don’t want to just dump him, but he refuses to leave, so she cheats.
She’s noticed- Low self esteem
This is one of the tactics the enemy using on women the are emotionally broke in their relationship. All she wants is to be noticed and made to feel wanted and beautiful by her man.
She trying to find her identity:
Women will sometimes cheat, when they've lost themselves within all of the ways that they have given themselves to others. They don’t start out with the thought of cheating but are seduced by the feeling of being appreciated for the woman that they are within all their roles, as a mother, wife, friend, etc.
Learned Behavior- Its what she saw going up