Sermon Tone Analysis

Text: Galatians 5:19-25; 2 Samuel 9:1-12

Theme: Believers must cultivate the fruit of God’s Holy Spirit in their lives.

One of those fruits is Kindness.

On Sunday evenings we’ve been looking at the Seven Cardinal Virtues.

In the early fourth century, a monk named Evagrius Ponticus came up with a list of cardinal sins—cardinal in the sense that these are foundational sins lead to other sins.

We’ve come to know them better as the Seven Deadly Sins, and include lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy, and pride.

Their considered deadly not because they can’t be forgiven, but they are spiritually deadly in that their habitual practice destroy the believer’s spiritual walk.

The Christian cannot regularly indulge in these sins, and then claim that “I’m imitating the life of Christ.”

In AD 410, Aurelius Clemens Prudentius said to himself, “If there are seven cardinal sins to be avoided, then what are the inverse of these sins?

What are the virtues that ought to be practiced in a believer’s life?”

He wrote a poem entitled "Contest of the Soul" where he listed what we’ve come to call the Seven Cardinal Virtues.

They are ...

Chastity ... it’s opposite it lust

Temperance ... it’s opposite is gluttony

Charity ... its opposite is greed

Diligence ... its opposite is sloth

Longsuffering ... its opposite is wrath

Kindness ... its opposite is envy, and

Humility, it’s opposite is pride.

Virtues are described as “habitual dispositions of one’s character that propel us toward moral good.

By developing theses virtues we become more like Christlike ... which is the goal of the Christian life.

So far we’ve looked at Charity, Diligence, and Longsuffering.

Tonight we will look at the Cardinal Virtue of Kindness.

Kindness is considered the direct opposite to envy.

Kindness comes in all kinds of forms and expressions.

Kindness is as simple as a smile.

It is as simple as a thank you to the waitress or to someone who does serves you.

Kindness is an encouraging word to someone who is in need of encouragement.

Kindness is an expression of appreciation or affirmation to the people around you.

Kindness is stopping and giving a helping hand to a person in need.

Kindness is a word of recognition to a small child.

Kindness is a sympathetic ear, that listens to a person who is hurting or in pain.

These are simple acts of kindness.

In tonight’s message I’d like to address two issue: 1) Why should we be kind?

and 2) How do we cultivate kindness in our lives?

I. WHY SHOULD WE BE KIND?

1. kindness is defined as the act or the state of being marked by good and charitable behavior, pleasant disposition, and concern for others.

It is known as a virtue, and recognized as a value in many cultures and religions (Wikipedia)

ILLUS.

The Jewish Talmud, which is the Rabbinical commentary on the Torah, claims that "deeds of kindness are equal in weight to all the commandments."

In Buddhism, kindness is one of the Ten Perfections—disciplines that lead to spiritual awakening.

Muhammad, writing in the Koran, says, "Allah is kind and He loves Kindness".

2. kindness it’s a necessary ingredient in any culture and finds its fullest expression in the Christian’s character as we seek to imitate Christ

A. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE GOD IS KIND TO US

1. God has been so incredibly kind to us

a. God shows His kindness to us through what we call common grace

“Yet he has not left himself without testimony: He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” (Acts 14:17, NIV84)

1) the fact that we have a roof over our head, food in our stomach, cloths on our back, a steady income, friends and family, and a general sense of well-being all come from the kindness of God

2. there is no greater act of kindness that God could have demonstrated toward us then coming in the flesh to die on a cross for our sins

“But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.

He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,” (Titus 3:4–5, NIV84)

a. the extraordinary sacrifice and commitment that God has shown us—out of His kindness and mercy—sets us free from the bondage of sin and death

"made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.

And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus."

(Ephesians 2:5-7, NIV)

3. may we always be moved when we think about how God saved us from our sin and how He provided a place for us in heaven

4. we need to be kind to others because God has been kind us

a. why should we be kind?

B. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE WE WANT PEOPLE TO BE KIND TO US

1. the second reason sounds a little selfish, but we should be kind because we want people to be kind to us

a. Jesus said, " ... do unto others as you would have them do unto you."

(Matt.

7:10)

1) we call it the Golden Rule

b. if you want others to treat you with kindness, then you treat them with kindness

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.”

(Colossians 3:12, NIV84)

“Love is patient, love is kind.

...” (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV84)

2. the way that you treat people is often the way they will treat you

ILLUS.

Are people regularly rude to you, so strangers treat you in a snotty kind of way?

Perhaps it is not their problem.

Perhaps it's you.

Have you ever considered that people are snotty to you because that's the way you come across to them?

If kindness begets kindness, then snottyness begets snottyness.

Now of course I’m referring to all those other believers who are not here this evening!

a. if we treat a person with rudeness, they will probably respond with rudeness

b. but if you treat a person with kindness, they will often respond in like manner

c. why should we be kind?

C. WE SHOULD BE KIND BECAUSE KINDNESS DEMONSTRATES WE BELONG TO CHRIST

"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."

(Ephesians 4:32, NIV)

ILLUS.

William Penn, the founder of the Colony of Pennsylvania wrote: “I expect to pass through life but once.

If, therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again.”

1. the third reason of why it is important that we be kind is that kindness demonstrates that we belong to Christ

2. one of the ways we witness to the world that we are followers of Jesus Christ is when we are kind to people around us—both the saved and the lost

ILLUS.

Three weeks ago, we delivered presents for three families this congregation adopted for Christmas.

We have classes that save up all year for this.

These are acts of kindness the demonstrate that we belong to Christ.

a. this is a testimony that God is alive and working in your life

3. kindness is also found in forgiving each other according to Eph 4:32

4. Christians should be kind

II.

HOW DO WE YOU CULTIVATE KINDNESS IN OUR LIVES?

1. one of the great illustrations of kindness in the Bible is the story of David and Mephibosheth found in 2 Samuel 9:1-12

a. Mephibosheth was the son of Jonathan, King David’s closes friend, and the grandson of Saul

b. he was five years old when his father and grandfather fell in the Battle of Mount Gilboa fighting the Philistines

c. hearing of this calamity, Mephibosheth’s nurse fled with him fearing that the Philistines would seek to take the boy’s life, too