The Courage To Say "NO"
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The Courage To Say "NO"
The Courage To Say "NO"
Key Passage: Acts 4:18-20
Key Passage: Acts 4:18-20
18 And they called them, and commanded them not to speak at all nor teach in the name of Jesus. 19 But Peter and John answered and said unto them, Whether it be right in the sight of God to hearken unto you more than unto God, judge ye. 20 For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.
Supporting Scriptures: Genesis 3:1-7 | Genesis 39:6-10 | Judges 16:15-21 | Isaiah 41:10-12 | Daniel 1:8-16 | Daniel 6:4-24 | 2 Samuel 11:1-4 | James 1:13
Supporting Scriptures: Genesis 3:1-7 | Genesis 39:6-10 | Judges 16:15-21 | Isaiah 41:10-12 | Daniel 1:8-16 | Daniel 6:4-24 | 2 Samuel 11:1-4 | James 1:13
1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden? 2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: 3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die. 4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die: 5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. 6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. 7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.
6 And he left all that he had in Joseph’s hand; and he knew not ought he had, save the bread which he did eat. And Joseph was a goodly person, and well favoured. 7 And it came to pass after these things, that his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me. 8 But he refused, and said unto his master’s wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand; 9 There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? 10 And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
15 And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth. 16 And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death; 17 That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a rasor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother’s womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man. 18 And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this once, for he hath shewed me all his heart. Then the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and brought money in their hand. 19 And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him. 20 And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the Lord was departed from him. 21 But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house.
10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee:
Be not dismayed; for I am thy God:
I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee;
Yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
11 Behold, all they that were incensed against thee shall be ashamed and confounded:
They shall be as nothing; and they that strive with thee shall perish.
12 Thou shalt seek them, and shalt not find them, even them that contended with thee:
They that war against thee shall be as nothing, and as a thing of nought.
8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. 9 Now God had brought Daniel into favour and tender love with the prince of the eunuchs. 10 And the prince of the eunuchs said unto Daniel, I fear my lord the king, who hath appointed your meat and your drink: for why should he see your faces worse liking than the children which are of your sort? then shall ye make me endanger my head to the king. 11 Then said Daniel to Melzar, whom the prince of the eunuchs had set over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 Prove thy servants, I beseech thee, ten days; and let them give us pulse to eat, and water to drink. 13 Then let our countenances be looked upon before thee, and the countenance of the children that eat of the portion of the king’s meat: and as thou seest, deal with thy servants. 14 So he consented to them in this matter, and proved them ten days. 15 And at the end of ten days their countenances appeared fairer and fatter in flesh than all the children which did eat the portion of the king’s meat. 16 Thus Melzar took away the portion of their meat, and the wine that they should drink; and gave them pulse.
4 Then the presidents and princes sought to find occasion against Daniel concerning the kingdom; but they could find none occasion nor fault; forasmuch as he was faithful, neither was there any error or fault found in him. 5 Then said these men, We shall not find any occasion against this Daniel, except we find it against him concerning the law of his God. 6 Then these presidents and princes assembled together to the king, and said thus unto him, King Darius, live for ever. 7 All the presidents of the kingdom, the governors, and the princes, the counsellers, and the captains, have consulted together to establish a royal statute, and to make a firm decree, that whosoever shall ask a petition of any God or man for thirty days, save of thee, O king, he shall be cast into the den of lions. 8 Now, O king, establish the decree, and sign the writing, that it be not changed, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not. 9 Wherefore king Darius signed the writing and the decree.
10 Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house; and his windows being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he kneeled upon his knees three times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God, as he did aforetime. 11 Then these men assembled, and found Daniel praying and making supplication before his God. 12 Then they came near, and spake before the king concerning the king’s decree; Hast thou not signed a decree, that every man that shall ask a petition of any God or man within thirty days, save of thee, O king, shall be cast into the den of lions? The king answered and said, The thing is true, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not. 13 Then answered they and said before the king, That Daniel, which is of the children of the captivity of Judah, regardeth not thee, O king, nor the decree that thou hast signed, but maketh his petition three times a day. 14 Then the king, when he heard these words, was sore displeased with himself, and set his heart on Daniel to deliver him: and he laboured till the going down of the sun to deliver him. 15 Then these men assembled unto the king, and said unto the king, Know, O king, that the law of the Medes and Persians is, That no decree nor statute which the king establisheth may be changed. 16 Then the king commanded, and they brought Daniel, and cast him into the den of lions. Now the king spake and said unto Daniel, Thy God whom thou servest continually, he will deliver thee. 17 And a stone was brought, and laid upon the mouth of the den; and the king sealed it with his own signet, and with the signet of his lords; that the purpose might not be changed concerning Daniel.
18 Then the king went to his palace, and passed the night fasting: neither were instruments of musick brought before him: and his sleep went from him. 19 Then the king arose very early in the morning, and went in haste unto the den of lions. 20 And when he came to the den, he cried with a lamentable voice unto Daniel: and the king spake and said to Daniel, O Daniel, servant of the living God, is thy God, whom thou servest continually, able to deliver thee from the lions? 21 Then said Daniel unto the king, O king, live for ever. 22 My God hath sent his angel, and hath shut the lions’ mouths, that they have not hurt me: forasmuch as before him innocency was found in me; and also before thee, O king, have I done no hurt. 23 Then was the king exceeding glad for him, and commanded that they should take Daniel up out of the den. So Daniel was taken up out of the den, and no manner of hurt was found upon him, because he believed in his God. 24 And the king commanded, and they brought those men which had accused Daniel, and they cast them into the den of lions, them, their children, and their wives; and the lions had the mastery of them, and brake all their bones in pieces or ever they came at the bottom of the den.
1 And it came to pass, after the year was expired, at the time when kings go forth to battle, that David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the children of Ammon, and besieged Rabbah. But David tarried still at Jerusalem. 2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. 3 And David sent and inquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bath-sheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? 4 And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.
13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:
Summary
Summary
At some point in our lives, we all face fearful situations.
At some point in our lives, we all face fearful situations.
But if we yield to what we know is wrong, our lives will be filled with entanglements and trouble.
But if we yield to what we know is wrong, our lives will be filled with entanglements and trouble.
At this present time we are living it is so important and vital for the Christian not to forget the things that have brought them thus far and not to give in and say yes to to some things that are contrary to the Word of God .
At this present time we are living it is so important and vital for the Christian not to forget the things that have brought them thus far and not to give in and say yes to to some things that are contrary to the Word of God .
Therefore, we must consider the source of our desires,
Therefore, we must consider the source of our desires,
5 Areas of Your Life Satan Wants to Enter
5 Areas of Your Life Satan Wants to Enter
Satan wants nothing more than to enter certain areas of your life so he can gain a stronghold. He’ll try anything to throw you off center, distract you from your focus, and render you ineffective for the Kingdom of God.
Satan wants nothing more than to enter certain areas of your life so he can gain a stronghold. He’ll try anything to throw you off center, distract you from your focus, and render you ineffective for the Kingdom of God.
And I believe, after more than 40 years of ministering , that there are common areas he attacks – , but in any of us. As long as we’re aware of his strategies, we can be on guard to keep him out of his targeted entry points.
And I believe, after more than 40 years of ministering , that there are common areas he attacks – , but in any of us. As long as we’re aware of his strategies, we can be on guard to keep him out of his targeted entry points.
These are the five areas of your life Satan wants to enter:
1. Your heart – so it’s not God’s alone.
1. Your heart – so it’s not God’s alone.
There’s a reason God’s Word tells us: (Proverbs 4:23). Satan knows he has an entry point into your life if God is not first in our hearts. God’s first commandment, set forth under the Old Covenant, was: (Exodus 20:3). And Jesus restated that under the New Covenant when He was asked what is the greatest commandment and responded by saying (Luke 10:27). Satan’s greatest desire is to prevent you from giving God all of your heart so he will constantly dangle people, things, and desires in front of you – anything to distract you so he can erect a false god in front of you that you don’t even realize you have.
There’s a reason God’s Word tells us: (Proverbs 4:23). Satan knows he has an entry point into your life if God is not first in our hearts. God’s first commandment, set forth under the Old Covenant, was: (Exodus 20:3). And Jesus restated that under the New Covenant when He was asked what is the greatest commandment and responded by saying (Luke 10:27). Satan’s greatest desire is to prevent you from giving God all of your heart so he will constantly dangle people, things, and desires in front of you – anything to distract you so he can erect a false god in front of you that you don’t even realize you have.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence;
For out of it are the issues of life.
3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
27 And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself.
Do you love God more than you love anything (or anyone) else in life?
Do you love God more than you love anything (or anyone) else in life?
He will try to lure you with a false god like your career, a spouse or love interest, a dream or goal, a hobby or lifestyle. I know many women whose first love is their bodies, so they spend more time in the gym working out than letting God work within. It’s a subtle way of starting to love other things more than God. Some of us love food, money, recreation, our children, a substance, or a “feeling” (like being in love, or feeling energetic) more than God, Himself. Guard your heart by keeping Christ on the throne of your life so Satan doesn’t try to sneak anything else in there.
He will try to lure you with a false god like your career, a spouse or love interest, a dream or goal, a hobby or lifestyle. I know many women whose first love is their bodies, so they spend more time in the gym working out than letting God work within. It’s a subtle way of starting to love other things more than God. Some of us love food, money, recreation, our children, a substance, or a “feeling” (like being in love, or feeling energetic) more than God, Himself. Guard your heart by keeping Christ on the throne of your life so Satan doesn’t try to sneak anything else in there.
2. Your worries – to make you doubt God’s love and provision.
2. Your worries – to make you doubt God’s love and provision.
Satan wants you stressing, because then you’re not resting in God’s ability to care for you. Women tend to stress over the temporal – bills that must be paid, whether or not a man will come into our lives, if we’ll be able to have a child, what someone is saying about us, how our body looks, and so on. Men tend to stress about their jobs, providing for their families, and whether or not they are “making the cut” in several areas of life. Then there’s health concerns, fears about our aging parents, and other situations that can crowd out God’s peace in our lives and even cause us to begin to blame God for our circumstances.
Satan wants you stressing, because then you’re not resting in God’s ability to care for you. Women tend to stress over the temporal – bills that must be paid, whether or not a man will come into our lives, if we’ll be able to have a child, what someone is saying about us, how our body looks, and so on. Men tend to stress about their jobs, providing for their families, and whether or not they are “making the cut” in several areas of life. Then there’s health concerns, fears about our aging parents, and other situations that can crowd out God’s peace in our lives and even cause us to begin to blame God for our circumstances.
Are you living like God's love and provision are real?
Are you living like God's love and provision are real?
Don’t let Satan in this door through his tantalizing “what if?” questions and the doubts he weaves through your mind. God instructs us in Philippians 4:6-7 to . Keep praying about your concerns and keep thanking God ahead of time for what He’s about to do, so Satan doesn’t get a stronghold in your mind through your worries and fears.
Don’t let Satan in this door through his tantalizing “what if?” questions and the doubts he weaves through your mind. God instructs us in Philippians 4:6-7 to . Keep praying about your concerns and keep thanking God ahead of time for what He’s about to do, so Satan doesn’t get a stronghold in your mind through your worries and fears.
6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
3. Your everyday thinking – so you’re just like the world.
3. Your everyday thinking – so you’re just like the world.
It’s amazing how many people profess to know God and follow Him, yet their thinking patterns are just like those of anyone else in the world. Satan loves that. He wants you to be so absorbed with the ways of the world that you are clueless about what God’s Word says. He will do this through subtle messages in music lyrics, statements from your favorite celebrity, and words of advice from friends (even friends of yours who are believers, but are quoting “verses” that are not in the Bible).
It’s amazing how many people profess to know God and follow Him, yet their thinking patterns are just like those of anyone else in the world. Satan loves that. He wants you to be so absorbed with the ways of the world that you are clueless about what God’s Word says. He will do this through subtle messages in music lyrics, statements from your favorite celebrity, and words of advice from friends (even friends of yours who are believers, but are quoting “verses” that are not in the Bible).
Is your everyday thinking different from the world's?
Is your everyday thinking different from the world's?
Scripture commands us: “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is” (Romans 12:2, ). Furthermore, God’s Word instructs: “fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise… and the God of peace will be with you” (Philippians 4:8-9, ). But Satan would rather have us in mental anguish by listening to the world, rather than the word of God. Guard your everyday thinking by soaking it in Scripture. It’s the only way to keep Satan and his worldly philosophies from entering in.
Scripture commands us: “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is” (Romans 12:2, ). Furthermore, God’s Word instructs: “fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise… and the God of peace will be with you” (Philippians 4:8-9, ). But Satan would rather have us in mental anguish by listening to the world, rather than the word of God. Guard your everyday thinking by soaking it in Scripture. It’s the only way to keep Satan and his worldly philosophies from entering in.
2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. 9 Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.
4. Your speech – so you tear others apart.
4. Your speech – so you tear others apart.
God wants us to be holy mouthpieces for Him – people who heal and help with our words. But Satan would rather have you and me blowing it big time with our mouths. A few critical words here, a few complaints there, some profanity mixed in with a little gossip on the side and we have given him permission to make us people who tear others apart and sound no different (and sometimes worse) than unbelievers. Satan knows we can cause much damage with our mouths if we do not bring them under God’s control.
God wants us to be holy mouthpieces for Him – people who heal and help with our words. But Satan would rather have you and me blowing it big time with our mouths. A few critical words here, a few complaints there, some profanity mixed in with a little gossip on the side and we have given him permission to make us people who tear others apart and sound no different (and sometimes worse) than unbelievers. Satan knows we can cause much damage with our mouths if we do not bring them under God’s control.
Are your words building up others?
Are your words building up others?
Whether it is gossip, criticism or unkind remarks, our mouths can be instruments of righteousness or unrighteousness. Close that door to Satan, altogether, by applying God’s instructions in Ephesians 4:29: (). And 1 Thessalonians 5:18 tells us. Be a verbally thankful person who speaks only to lift others up, not tear them down. That will diminish and destroy a critical and complaining spirit that gives Satan a stronghold in our lives.
Whether it is gossip, criticism or unkind remarks, our mouths can be instruments of righteousness or unrighteousness. Close that door to Satan, altogether, by applying God’s instructions in Ephesians 4:29: (). And 1 Thessalonians 5:18 tells us. Be a verbally thankful person who speaks only to lift others up, not tear them down. That will diminish and destroy a critical and complaining spirit that gives Satan a stronghold in our lives.
29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
5. Our Bodies - so they no longer glorify God.
5. Our Bodies - so they no longer glorify God.
Why is it that when people get depressed they overeat or drink excessively or turn to substances? Why is it that young girls will cut their bodies or starve themselves when they are dealing with emotional pain? I believe it’s because Satan will turn us against our bodies if he can, as a way of “getting back at God.” (Romans 12:1, ).
Why is it that when people get depressed they overeat or drink excessively or turn to substances? Why is it that young girls will cut their bodies or starve themselves when they are dealing with emotional pain? I believe it’s because Satan will turn us against our bodies if he can, as a way of “getting back at God.” (Romans 12:1, ).
1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
Are you glorifying God through your body?
Are you glorifying God through your body?
Satan knows that God considers our bodies His temple and therefore God wants us to keep our bodies holy, healthy and honoring to Him (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Scripture says keeping our bodies holy is our “spiritual act of worship” (Romans 12:1, ). So because our bodies are holy to God, Satan would love to have us harm them, mutilate them, starve them, and destroy them with substances. Don’t let him in. Not in how you dress. Not in how you see yourself. Not in how you treat yourself. Ask God for a healthy body image and a desire to protect your body so you can serve Him on this earth in it for as long as possible.
Satan knows that God considers our bodies His temple and therefore God wants us to keep our bodies holy, healthy and honoring to Him (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). Scripture says keeping our bodies holy is our “spiritual act of worship” (Romans 12:1, ). So because our bodies are holy to God, Satan would love to have us harm them, mutilate them, starve them, and destroy them with substances. Don’t let him in. Not in how you dress. Not in how you see yourself. Not in how you treat yourself. Ask God for a healthy body image and a desire to protect your body so you can serve Him on this earth in it for as long as possible.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
The best strategy:
The best strategy:
So what’s your strategy now that you know the areas where Satan wants to enter your life? God gives us a great defense through Paul’s instructions to the saints in Ephesians 6:11-18: I find it interesting that every piece of “armor” described in that passage refers to the character of Christ. Check an article “Are You a or a Wounded One?”) In other words, put on Christ-likeness. Abide in Christ, be clothed in His character and righteousness, and you will fend off the attacks of the enemy.
So what’s your strategy now that you know the areas where Satan wants to enter your life? God gives us a great defense through Paul’s instructions to the saints in Ephesians 6:11-18: I find it interesting that every piece of “armor” described in that passage refers to the character of Christ. Check an article “Are You a or a Wounded One?”) In other words, put on Christ-likeness. Abide in Christ, be clothed in His character and righteousness, and you will fend off the attacks of the enemy.
11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. 12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. 13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. 14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; 15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; 16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. 17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: 18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;
learn to discern the difference between good and evil,
learn to discern the difference between good and evil,
Discerning Good From Evil
Discerning Good From Evil
Just as we are concerned about growth in the physical realm, we need to be concerned about spiritual growth. One way in which we can see if we have matured as a Christian is to look at our ability to discern between good and evil.
Just as we are concerned about growth in the physical realm, we need to be concerned about spiritual growth. One way in which we can see if we have matured as a Christian is to look at our ability to discern between good and evil.
The writer of Hebrews said, (Heb.5:12-14).
The writer of Hebrews said, (Heb.5:12-14).
12 For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat. 13 For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. 14 But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.
After a reasonable period of time has passed, we should have grown to be able to partake of the meat of God's word. He went on to say such individuals should be able to "discern good and evil," seeing they have had their senses exercised by the continual use of God's word. If we will continually use God's word, we will develop the ability to discern between good and evil.
After a reasonable period of time has passed, we should have grown to be able to partake of the meat of God's word. He went on to say such individuals should be able to "discern good and evil," seeing they have had their senses exercised by the continual use of God's word. If we will continually use God's word, we will develop the ability to discern between good and evil.
Every day we are called upon to make decisions. Therefore, the ability to discern between that which is good and that which is evil is important to the child of God. As we read the pages of God's word, we see principles set forth which can guide us when making these decisions. Learn these principles well and you too will be able to "discern good and evil."
Every day we are called upon to make decisions. Therefore, the ability to discern between that which is good and that which is evil is important to the child of God. As we read the pages of God's word, we see principles set forth which can guide us when making these decisions. Learn these principles well and you too will be able to "discern good and evil."
Does it Protect Your Identity as a Christian?
Does it Protect Your Identity as a Christian?
When trying to decide if something is right or wrong, first ask yourself these questions: Does it destroy my identity as a Christian by causing me to be regarded as of the world? Does it classify me with Satan's realm of sin instead of Christ and the church? God has always required His people to maintain a separation from Satan's realm.
When trying to decide if something is right or wrong, first ask yourself these questions: Does it destroy my identity as a Christian by causing me to be regarded as of the world? Does it classify me with Satan's realm of sin instead of Christ and the church? God has always required His people to maintain a separation from Satan's realm.
We can see this principle taught in 2 Corinthians 6:17:
We can see this principle taught in 2 Corinthians 6:17:
17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
Paul also taught this principle in Romans 12:2:
Paul also taught this principle in Romans 12:2:
2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Whenever I become so much like the world people cannot tell by the way I live and by what I do whether I am a Christian or not, then God will not accept me as His child. Our life must always be a living demonstration of the will of God, rather than a living demonstration of the will of Satan. Therefore, any activity which would cause us to be considered of the world is wrong since it destroys our separation to the world.
Whenever I become so much like the world people cannot tell by the way I live and by what I do whether I am a Christian or not, then God will not accept me as His child. Our life must always be a living demonstration of the will of God, rather than a living demonstration of the will of Satan. Therefore, any activity which would cause us to be considered of the world is wrong since it destroys our separation to the world.
This principle alone would show us such practices as social drinking or the modern dances are activities we should not participate in, since those are activities associated with living for ourselves rather than living for Christ.
This principle alone would show us such practices as social drinking or the modern dances are activities we should not participate in, since those are activities associated with living for ourselves rather than living for Christ.
So the first question to ask when trying to determine whether an activity is right or wrong is: "Does it destroy my identity as a Christian?"
So the first question to ask when trying to determine whether an activity is right or wrong is: "Does it destroy my identity as a Christian?"
Does it Violate Your Conscience?
Does it Violate Your Conscience?
Note Paul's words in Romans 14: 14 , 20 ,23 "
Note Paul's words in Romans 14: 14 , 20 ,23 "
14 I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean.
20 For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.
23 And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.
In Paul's day some believed it was wrong to eat meats which had previously been offered in sacrifice to idols. Paul showed it was not wrong (cf.1 Cor.8:8). However, it was wrong if that is how they viewed it in their own heart. Likewise today there may be many things which fall into the same category.
In Paul's day some believed it was wrong to eat meats which had previously been offered in sacrifice to idols. Paul showed it was not wrong (cf.1 Cor.8:8). However, it was wrong if that is how they viewed it in their own heart. Likewise today there may be many things which fall into the same category.
8 But meat commendeth us not to God: for neither, if we eat, are we the better; neither, if we eat not, are we the worse.
When we have a question about a particular activity, rather than asking someone else what they think about it, ask yourself what you think about it. If it is an activity which you believe in your heart to be wrong, then you cannot engage in that activity without violating your conscience and thus committing sin.
When we have a question about a particular activity, rather than asking someone else what they think about it, ask yourself what you think about it. If it is an activity which you believe in your heart to be wrong, then you cannot engage in that activity without violating your conscience and thus committing sin.
Does it Lead Others to Sin?
Does it Lead Others to Sin?
Notice this principle in 1 Corinthians 10:24 ,28, 29, 32, 33
Notice this principle in 1 Corinthians 10:24 ,28, 29, 32, 33
24 Let no man seek his own, but every man another’s wealth.
28 But if any man say unto you, This is offered in sacrifice unto idols, eat not for his sake that shewed it, and for conscience sake: for the earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof:
29 Conscience, I say, not thine own, but of the other: for why is my liberty judged of another man’s conscience?
32 Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God:
33 Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.
Also note 1 Corinthians 8:13:
Also note 1 Corinthians 8:13:
13 Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend.
If we are a child of God and we care what is right, we cannot have the attitude we don't care what effect our actions have on others. If we do anything which would cause another to violate their conscience, we sin.
If we are a child of God and we care what is right, we cannot have the attitude we don't care what effect our actions have on others. If we do anything which would cause another to violate their conscience, we sin.
Does it Harm Your Body?
Does it Harm Your Body?
If we have obeyed the gospel of Jesus Christ, our bodies belong to the Lord. Paul said,
If we have obeyed the gospel of Jesus Christ, our bodies belong to the Lord. Paul said,
(1 Cor.6:19,20). We should use our bodies to God's glory rather than His reproach. Paul also said,
(1 Cor.6:19,20). We should use our bodies to God's glory rather than His reproach. Paul also said,
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
(1 Cor.3:16,17). We cannot engage in any activity which will prove destructive to our bodies.
(1 Cor.3:16,17). We cannot engage in any activity which will prove destructive to our bodies.
16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
By this principle we can quickly see what is wrong with smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol or using illegal drugs. They are destructive to our bodies and, therefore, things we should not participate in.
By this principle we can quickly see what is wrong with smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol or using illegal drugs. They are destructive to our bodies and, therefore, things we should not participate in.
Does it Conflict with Your Duties as a Christian?
Does it Conflict with Your Duties as a Christian?
We do not have the right to put ourselves under any circumstance, form any kind of alliance, put ourselves into any sort of a position where anyone or anything can interfere with our duty to God, because our service to the Lord must come first.
We do not have the right to put ourselves under any circumstance, form any kind of alliance, put ourselves into any sort of a position where anyone or anything can interfere with our duty to God, because our service to the Lord must come first.
Jesus said, (Matt.6:33). Nothing is to come before our service to the Lord.
Jesus said, (Matt.6:33). Nothing is to come before our service to the Lord.
33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Paul said,(2 Tim.2:3,4). A soldier in the United States military must put his service to his country first and all other interest and business must be placed second. Nothing less is expected of those who are soldiers of Christ. We must have our mind focused on His service at all times (cf.Col.3:1,2).
Paul said,(2 Tim.2:3,4). A soldier in the United States military must put his service to his country first and all other interest and business must be placed second. Nothing less is expected of those who are soldiers of Christ. We must have our mind focused on His service at all times (cf.Col.3:1,2).
3 Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ.
4 No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.
1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
Therefore, any activity or situation which prevents us from fulfilling our responsibilities as a Christian, is an activity or situation we cannot participate in.
Therefore, any activity or situation which prevents us from fulfilling our responsibilities as a Christian, is an activity or situation we cannot participate in.
Does it Create an Excessive Appetite for Things of this World?
Does it Create an Excessive Appetite for Things of this World?
We are not to live our lives after the flesh, seeking only to satisfy the appetites of the flesh. We are to live on a spiritual basis, focusing on things above. That's what Paul said in Colossians 3:1,2:
We are not to live our lives after the flesh, seeking only to satisfy the appetites of the flesh. We are to live on a spiritual basis, focusing on things above. That's what Paul said in Colossians 3:1,2:
1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.
In Titus 2:12 Paul tells us to deny ungodliness and "worldly lusts." This would include not only lusts of a sensual nature, but lusts for material things in general.
In Titus 2:12 Paul tells us to deny ungodliness and "worldly lusts." This would include not only lusts of a sensual nature, but lusts for material things in general.
12 Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;
Some years ago a sister in Christ told my wife everyone has a right to, and deserves, a nice carpeted house, a new car, and lots of nice cloths to wear. It was apparent she had an excessive appetite for worldly things.
Some years ago a sister in Christ told my wife everyone has a right to, and deserves, a nice carpeted house, a new car, and lots of nice cloths to wear. It was apparent she had an excessive appetite for worldly things.
If we want to please the Lord, we will avoid anything which will cultivate in us an excessive desire for things of this world.
If we want to please the Lord, we will avoid anything which will cultivate in us an excessive desire for things of this world.
Does it Place You under the Evil Influence of Others?
Does it Place You under the Evil Influence of Others?
The apostle Paul said, (1 Cor.15:33). We need to be careful about the influences which are being brought to bear upon our heart and life, careful we are not submitting ourselves to influences and associations which will destroy us and bring us into captivity to sin.
The apostle Paul said, (1 Cor.15:33). We need to be careful about the influences which are being brought to bear upon our heart and life, careful we are not submitting ourselves to influences and associations which will destroy us and bring us into captivity to sin.
33 Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Our children are often under many pressures to do wrong because of their choice in friends. We as adults are often in similar situations with those we choose to associate with. In such situations it is not a question of whether they will have a negative influence on us, it is only a matter of how quickly their evil influence will bear its evil fruit in our own lives.
Our children are often under many pressures to do wrong because of their choice in friends. We as adults are often in similar situations with those we choose to associate with. In such situations it is not a question of whether they will have a negative influence on us, it is only a matter of how quickly their evil influence will bear its evil fruit in our own lives.
If the activity or relationship we are contemplating will put us under the influence of those who are evil, then we should choose not to participate.
If the activity or relationship we are contemplating will put us under the influence of those who are evil, then we should choose not to participate.
If we will read and study God's word daily, these principles will become a part of us. The daily choices we face will then be much easier to make.
If we will read and study God's word daily, these principles will become a part of us. The daily choices we face will then be much easier to make.
and have the courage to say no whenever something is contrary to God’s will and Word.
and have the courage to say no whenever something is contrary to God’s will and Word.
Sermon Points
Sermon Points
When Peter and John healed a lame man, the Jewish rulers were infuriated and commanded them not to speak or teach in the name of Jesus.
When Peter and John healed a lame man, the Jewish rulers were infuriated and commanded them not to speak or teach in the name of Jesus.
But they courageously refused, saying, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to give heed to you rather than to God, you be the judge; for we cannot stop speaking about what we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:19-20).
But they courageously refused, saying, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to give heed to you rather than to God, you be the judge; for we cannot stop speaking about what we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:19-20).
19 But Peter and John answered and said unto them, Whether it be right in the sight of God to hearken unto you more than unto God, judge ye. 20 For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.
This is the kind of courage God desires for all of us— obedience to Him without fear of what others may think or do. Instead of being frail Christians who base our decisions on the present situation, let’s become followers of Christ who hold firmly to God’s standards of right and wrong.
This is the kind of courage God desires for all of us— obedience to Him without fear of what others may think or do. Instead of being frail Christians who base our decisions on the present situation, let’s become followers of Christ who hold firmly to God’s standards of right and wrong.
Biblical Examples of Courage
Biblical Examples of Courage
Joseph (Gen. 39:6-10).
Joseph (Gen. 39:6-10).
6 And he left all that he had in Joseph’s hand; and he knew not ought he had, save the bread which he did eat. And Joseph was a goodly person, and well favoured. 7 And it came to pass after these things, that his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me. 8 But he refused, and said unto his master’s wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand; 9 There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God? 10 And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
When Joseph was sold into slavery in Egypt, he was purchased by Potiphar, who eventually put him in charge of his entire household. Because Potiphar’s wife was attracted to him, she repeatedly tried to seduce him.
When Joseph was sold into slavery in Egypt, he was purchased by Potiphar, who eventually put him in charge of his entire household. Because Potiphar’s wife was attracted to him, she repeatedly tried to seduce him.
But Joseph refused, saying, “How then could I do this great evil and sin against God?” (v. 9). Although his refusal to yield to temptation landed him in jail when Potiphar’s wife falsely accused him of rape, God used the situation to elevate him to a place of authority second only to Pharaoh.
But Joseph refused, saying, “How then could I do this great evil and sin against God?” (v. 9). Although his refusal to yield to temptation landed him in jail when Potiphar’s wife falsely accused him of rape, God used the situation to elevate him to a place of authority second only to Pharaoh.
Daniel (Dan. 1:8-16).
Daniel (Dan. 1:8-16).
8 But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. 9 Now God had brought Daniel into favour and tender love with the prince of the eunuchs. 10 And the prince of the eunuchs said unto Daniel, I fear my lord the king, who hath appointed your meat and your drink: for why should he see your faces worse liking than the children which are of your sort? then shall ye make me endanger my head to the king. 11 Then said Daniel to Melzar, whom the prince of the eunuchs had set over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 Prove thy servants, I beseech thee, ten days; and let them give us pulse to eat, and water to drink. 13 Then let our countenances be looked upon before thee, and the countenance of the children that eat of the portion of the king’s meat: and as thou seest, deal with thy servants. 14 So he consented to them in this matter, and proved them ten days. 15 And at the end of ten days their countenances appeared fairer and fatter in flesh than all the children which did eat the portion of the king’s meat. 16 Thus Melzar took away the portion of their meat, and the wine that they should drink; and gave them pulse.
After Daniel was taken into captivity in Babylon, the king ordered that he and his three friends be given food from his table.
After Daniel was taken into captivity in Babylon, the king ordered that he and his three friends be given food from his table.
But Daniel didn’t want to defile himself with food that had been offered to idols so he asked the commander if they might have vegetables and water. When the commander objected, Daniel wisely suggested that he test them for ten days to see how the new diet affected their appearance.
But Daniel didn’t want to defile himself with food that had been offered to idols so he asked the commander if they might have vegetables and water. When the commander objected, Daniel wisely suggested that he test them for ten days to see how the new diet affected their appearance.
At the end of the allotted time, Daniel and his friends looked healthier than all the other youths. God honored Daniel’s courageous choice and protected him from defiling himself with the king’s food.
At the end of the allotted time, Daniel and his friends looked healthier than all the other youths. God honored Daniel’s courageous choice and protected him from defiling himself with the king’s food.
When Daniel was much older, he faced another challenge (Dan. 6:4-24).
When Daniel was much older, he faced another challenge (Dan. 6:4-24).
4 Then the presidents and princes sought to find occasion against Daniel concerning the kingdom; but they could find none occasion nor fault; forasmuch as he was faithful, neither was there any error or fault found in him. 5 Then said these men, We shall not find any occasion against this Daniel, except we find it against him concerning the law of his God. 6 Then these presidents and princes assembled together to the king, and said thus unto him, King Darius, live for ever. 7 All the presidents of the kingdom, the governors, and the princes, the counsellers, and the captains, have consulted together to establish a royal statute, and to make a firm decree, that whosoever shall ask a petition of any God or man for thirty days, save of thee, O king, he shall be cast into the den of lions. 8 Now, O king, establish the decree, and sign the writing, that it be not changed, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not. 9 Wherefore king Darius signed the writing and the decree.
10 Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house; and his windows being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he kneeled upon his knees three times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God, as he did aforetime. 11 Then these men assembled, and found Daniel praying and making supplication before his God. 12 Then they came near, and spake before the king concerning the king’s decree; Hast thou not signed a decree, that every man that shall ask a petition of any God or man within thirty days, save of thee, O king, shall be cast into the den of lions? The king answered and said, The thing is true, according to the law of the Medes and Persians, which altereth not. 13 Then answered they and said before the king, That Daniel, which is of the children of the captivity of Judah, regardeth not thee, O king, nor the decree that thou hast signed, but maketh his petition three times a day. 14 Then the king, when he heard these words, was sore displeased with himself, and set his heart on Daniel to deliver him: and he laboured till the going down of the sun to deliver him. 15 Then these men assembled unto the king, and said unto the king, Know, O king, that the law of the Medes and Persians is, That no decree nor statute which the king establisheth may be changed. 16 Then the king commanded, and they brought Daniel, and cast him into the den of lions. Now the king spake and said unto Daniel, Thy God whom thou servest continually, he will deliver thee. 17 And a stone was brought, and laid upon the mouth of the den; and the king sealed it with his own signet, and with the signet of his lords; that the purpose might not be changed concerning Daniel.
18 Then the king went to his palace, and passed the night fasting: neither were instruments of musick brought before him: and his sleep went from him. 19 Then the king arose very early in the morning, and went in haste unto the den of lions. 20 And when he came to the den, he cried with a lamentable voice unto Daniel: and the king spake and said to Daniel, O Daniel, servant of the living God, is thy God, whom thou servest continually, able to deliver thee from the lions? 21 Then said Daniel unto the king, O king, live for ever. 22 My God hath sent his angel, and hath shut the lions’ mouths, that they have not hurt me: forasmuch as before him innocency was found in me; and also before thee, O king, have I done no hurt. 23 Then was the king exceeding glad for him, and commanded that they should take Daniel up out of the den. So Daniel was taken up out of the den, and no manner of hurt was found upon him, because he believed in his God. 24 And the king commanded, and they brought those men which had accused Daniel, and they cast them into the den of lions, them, their children, and their wives; and the lions had the mastery of them, and brake all their bones in pieces or ever they came at the bottom of the den.
By this time he was one of the highest officials in the land, and the other commissioners were jealous of him. They convinced the king to pass an edict that anyone who makes a petition to any other god be thrown into a lion’s den. Knowing the consequences, Daniel continued to pray to the Lord three times a day and shortly thereafter was thrown into a den of hungry lions. But once again the Lord protected him and closed the lions’ mouths.
By this time he was one of the highest officials in the land, and the other commissioners were jealous of him. They convinced the king to pass an edict that anyone who makes a petition to any other god be thrown into a lion’s den. Knowing the consequences, Daniel continued to pray to the Lord three times a day and shortly thereafter was thrown into a den of hungry lions. But once again the Lord protected him and closed the lions’ mouths.
Biblical Examples of Yielding to Temptation
Biblical Examples of Yielding to Temptation
Adam and Eve (Gen. 3:1-7). Eve was the first person who said yes to temptation, and Adam soon followed, bringing a curse upon the earth and sin into the human race.
Adam and Eve (Gen. 3:1-7). Eve was the first person who said yes to temptation, and Adam soon followed, bringing a curse upon the earth and sin into the human race.
1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden? 2 And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden: 3 But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die. 4 And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die: 5 For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil. 6 And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat. 7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.
David (2 Sam. 11:1-4). Instead of saying no to his lust, David committed adultery with Bathsheba and suffered the horrible consequences for the rest of his life—the death of his son, betrayal by another son, and the loss of his kingdom for a short while.
David (2 Sam. 11:1-4). Instead of saying no to his lust, David committed adultery with Bathsheba and suffered the horrible consequences for the rest of his life—the death of his son, betrayal by another son, and the loss of his kingdom for a short while.
1 And it came to pass, after the year was expired, at the time when kings go forth to battle, that David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the children of Ammon, and besieged Rabbah. But David tarried still at Jerusalem. 2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. 3 And David sent and inquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bath-sheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite? 4 And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.
Samson (Judg. 16:15-21). After Delilah repeatedly pleaded and cried, Samson gave up the secret of his strength and suffered the loss of his eyes and freedom, and eventually his life.
Samson (Judg. 16:15-21). After Delilah repeatedly pleaded and cried, Samson gave up the secret of his strength and suffered the loss of his eyes and freedom, and eventually his life.
15 And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth. 16 And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death; 17 That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a rasor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother’s womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man. 18 And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this once, for he hath shewed me all his heart. Then the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and brought money in their hand. 19 And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him. 20 And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the Lord was departed from him. 21 But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house.
Questions to Ask When Facing Temptation
Questions to Ask When Facing Temptation
Before saying yes to temptation, we should ask ourselves the following questions:
Before saying yes to temptation, we should ask ourselves the following questions:
What is the source of this offer?
What is the source of this offer?
God never tempts us to do anything sinful or evil (James 1:13). Any desire that veers from truth and righteousness is from the devil. Instead of being carried away by the pleasure or benefits of the offer, we must focus on the Lord and remember what He thinks about it.
God never tempts us to do anything sinful or evil (James 1:13). Any desire that veers from truth and righteousness is from the devil. Instead of being carried away by the pleasure or benefits of the offer, we must focus on the Lord and remember what He thinks about it.
13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:
What are the requirements of this offer?
What are the requirements of this offer?
Yielding to temptation requires that we lay down our convictions. Sin is always expensive because it costs us our honesty, purity, and integrity.
Yielding to temptation requires that we lay down our convictions. Sin is always expensive because it costs us our honesty, purity, and integrity.
What are the consequences of this act?
What are the consequences of this act?
When temptation comes, we usually think only about the present, not the long-term consequences. But the satisfaction of the moment is never worth the pain and guilt that inevitably follow.
When temptation comes, we usually think only about the present, not the long-term consequences. But the satisfaction of the moment is never worth the pain and guilt that inevitably follow.
Why do people hesitate to say no to temptation?
Why do people hesitate to say no to temptation?
Fear of rejection.
Fear of rejection.
If we don’t follow along with what others want us to do, we may not be accepted. However, being rejected by someone because of our convictions reveals something good about us—that we have a strong relationship with God and are committed to obeying Him.
If we don’t follow along with what others want us to do, we may not be accepted. However, being rejected by someone because of our convictions reveals something good about us—that we have a strong relationship with God and are committed to obeying Him.
Fear of losing a relationship.
Fear of losing a relationship.
We may think that saying no could result in losing a friend or never getting married, but any time we let go of a relationship in order to remain obedient to God, we are positioning ourselves to be blessed by Him.
We may think that saying no could result in losing a friend or never getting married, but any time we let go of a relationship in order to remain obedient to God, we are positioning ourselves to be blessed by Him.
Fear of the loss of finances.
Fear of the loss of finances.
The temptation to steal or cheat is often fueled by a fear of losing money or not having enough.
The temptation to steal or cheat is often fueled by a fear of losing money or not having enough.
Fear of the loss of an opportunity.
Fear of the loss of an opportunity.
Sometimes we feel pressured to make an unwise decision, fearing that the opportunity may never come again. However, if this opportunity is not from God, it could have devastating results. But if we live in obedience to the Lord, He will place us exactly where he wants us and open doors in accordance with His will.
Sometimes we feel pressured to make an unwise decision, fearing that the opportunity may never come again. However, if this opportunity is not from God, it could have devastating results. But if we live in obedience to the Lord, He will place us exactly where he wants us and open doors in accordance with His will.
Fear of the loss of our self-image.
Fear of the loss of our self-image.
In an effort to feel good about ourselves, we may be tempted to pursue what the world values—the finest clothes, cars, homes, and jobs—without considering that we might be living in disobedience to God. He knows what is best for us and will direct our future if we’ll follow Him instead of the world.
In an effort to feel good about ourselves, we may be tempted to pursue what the world values—the finest clothes, cars, homes, and jobs—without considering that we might be living in disobedience to God. He knows what is best for us and will direct our future if we’ll follow Him instead of the world.
The Source of Our Courage to Obey
The Source of Our Courage to Obey
The Promise of God’s Word (Isa. 41:10-12).
The Promise of God’s Word (Isa. 41:10-12).
10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee:
Be not dismayed; for I am thy God:
I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee;
Yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.
11 Behold, all they that were incensed against thee shall be ashamed and confounded:
They shall be as nothing; and they that strive with thee shall perish.
12 Thou shalt seek them, and shalt not find them, even them that contended with thee:
They that war against thee shall be as nothing, and as a thing of nought.
Meditation upon Scripture is our greatest defense against disobedience.
Meditation upon Scripture is our greatest defense against disobedience.
The Lord’s promises help us trust and obey Him, knowing He will handle all the consequences.
The Lord’s promises help us trust and obey Him, knowing He will handle all the consequences.
Prayer and Meditation.
Prayer and Meditation.
This is our daily defense as we humble ourselves before God, reading His Word, talking to Him about our situations, and asking for His help.
This is our daily defense as we humble ourselves before God, reading His Word, talking to Him about our situations, and asking for His help.
The Indwelling Holy Spirit.
The Indwelling Holy Spirit.
He’s the one who empowers us to resist temptation and obey God.
He’s the one who empowers us to resist temptation and obey God.
Response
Response
In the past, what has caused you to yield to temptation?
In the past, what has caused you to yield to temptation?
What consequences followed?
What consequences followed?
In contrast, how have you been strengthened to say no to temptation?
In contrast, how have you been strengthened to say no to temptation?
What did God do in your life as a result?
What did God do in your life as a result?
Looking ahead, how can you courageously resist temptation in the future?
Looking ahead, how can you courageously resist temptation in the future?
