Comforting Relatonionships

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Hebrews 3:13 AV
But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.
What are your friends influencing you to do?

the Italian word for influence is influenza. The word influenza was introduced into English in the mid-1700s, apparently coming from the Italian phrase which attributed the origin of this malady to an influenza di freddo (influence of the cold).

We are, by our very natures, very contagious people—our example tends to spread to others as easily as the flu. Everyone exerts influence.*

Be careful what your friends get you into:

A farmer, troubled by a flock of crows in his corn field, loaded his shotgun and crawled unseen along the fence-row, determined to get a shot at the crows. Now the farmer had a very “sociable” parrot who made friends with everybody. Seeing the flock of crows, the parrot flew over and joined them (just being sociable, you know). The farmer saw the crows but didn’t see the parrot. He took careful aim and BANG! The farmer crawled over the fence to pick up the fallen crows, and lo, there was his parrot—badly ruffled, with a broken wing, but still alive. Tenderly, the farmer carried the parrot home, where his children met him. Seeing that their pet was injured, they tearfully asked, “What happened, Papa.” Before he could answer, the parrot spoke up: “Bad company!”

Be thankful for friends that lift you up:

A new homeowner’s riding lawn mower had broken down, and he had been working fruitlessly for two hours trying to get it back together. Suddenly, one of his neighbors appeared with a handful of tools. “Can I give some help?” he asked. In twenty minutes he had the mower functioning beautifully.

“Thanks a million,” the now-happy newcomer said. “And say, what do you make with such fine tools?”

“Mostly friends,” the neighbor smiled. “I’m available any time.

From Pain to Joy in Repentance

2 Corinthians 2:1–4 ESV
For I made up my mind not to make another painful visit to you. For if I cause you pain, who is there to make me glad but the one whom I have pained? And I wrote as I did, so that when I came I might not suffer pain from those who should have made me rejoice, for I felt sure of all of you, that my joy would be the joy of you all. For I wrote to you out of much affliction and anguish of heart and with many tears, not to cause you pain but to let you know the abundant love that I have for you.
What do we learn from this passage (from Richard Baxter)?
Puritan Sermons, Volume 3 Sermon XI: What Are the Best Preservatives against Melancholy and Overmuch Sorrow? (Richard Baxter)

I. That sorrow, even for sin, may be overmuch.

II. That overmuch sorrow swalloweth one up.

III. Therefore it must be resisted and assuaged by necessary comfort, both by others, and by ourselves.

From Punishment to Praise in Fellowship

2 Corinthians 2:5–11 ESV
Now if anyone has caused pain, he has caused it not to me, but in some measure—not to put it too severely—to all of you. For such a one, this punishment by the majority is enough, so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him. For this is why I wrote, that I might test you and know whether you are obedient in everything. Anyone whom you forgive, I also forgive. Indeed, what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, has been for your sake in the presence of Christ, so that we would not be outwitted by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his designs.

From Death to Life in Christ

Paul used the image of a parade of Romans soldiers returning home from a victorious battle here.
2 Corinthians 2:12–17 ESV
When I came to Troas to preach the gospel of Christ, even though a door was opened for me in the Lord, my spirit was not at rest because I did not find my brother Titus there. So I took leave of them and went on to Macedonia. But thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession, and through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are the aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing, to one a fragrance from death to death, to the other a fragrance from life to life. Who is sufficient for these things? For we are not, like so many, peddlers of God’s word, but as men of sincerity, as commissioned by God, in the sight of God we speak in Christ.

The verb θριαμβεύω is from the noun θρίαμβος, which was a hymn sung to Dionysus (Bacchus) during festal processions, a title of Dionysus, and also a rendering of the Latin term triumphus.14 Linguistically θριαμβεύειν corresponds to the Latin verb triumphare, “to celebrate a triumph” (intransitive) or “to lead in triumph” (transitive). The Roman triumph was a victory procession celebrated by Roman generals on their return to Rome after a successful foreign campaign, although during the empire the privilege of celebrating a triumph became the prerogative of the emperor

Lexham Research Commentary: 2 Corinthians Background Studies: Roman Triumphal Processions

The triumphal procession was one of the greatest displays of Roman grandeur. After conquering an enemy, the victorious general, adorned in a purple toga, rode into Rome in a chariot drawn by four horses (or elephants). The procession behind him included his army and the spoils of war—plunder and prisoners. The procession culminated with a sacrifice to Jupiter, the chief god of the Roman pantheon, and the execution of the prisoners who had been “led in triumph” (Witherington 1995, 367–68).

Although the procession focused on the triumphant general, Hafemann (1990, 30) notes that “the procession itself, as a whole was intended to be an act of worship to the god who had granted the victory.” The extensive festivities associated with the procession were a way to offer thanksgiving to Jupiter for granting Rome victory (Hubbard 2002, 206).

Sermons and Discourses, 1739–1742 Gospel Ministers a Savor of Life or of Death

Christ is the rose, the gospel is the savor of the rose.

When God sends a messenger that faithfully preaches the gospel among a people, it will be effectual either for the great good or great hurt of every one that hears it.

What is the Gospel to us? Examine yourselves:
Is the Gospel have a sweet flavor you can’t get enough of?
Does the Gospel linger in your thoughts throughout the day?
Does the Gospel bring fruit or frustration in your life?

What are your relationships doing to you?

I’ve seen relationships build congregations.
I’ve also seen relationships destroy congregations.
I’ve seen relationships transform lost souls to soul winners.
I’ve also seen relationships transform soul winners to lost souls.

What are you doing with your relationships?

Do you pull others up or put them down?
Do you save others from danger or stab in them in the back?
Do you point them to the world or to what happens after this world?
Do you point others to the latest news or to the good news?

The most important relationship is the relationship we have with Christ.

Just as the neighbor gained a friend with some tools, God wins us to himself with Christ. Jesus said, “when I am lifted up, I will draw all men to myself.”
Puritan Sermons, Volume 3 Sermon XI: What Are the Best Preservatives against Melancholy and Overmuch Sorrow? (Richard Baxter)

But God hath an awakening day for all, and he will make the most senseless soul to feel, by grace or punishment.

When finally we wake to see Jesus, will we see our Savior our Executioner?
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