The Gathering of True Fellowship 2 John

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This brief letter was written primarily to warn the readers about certain itinerant deceivers, and of the dire consequences of welcoming such people and thereby sharing in their ‘wicked work’. It has a secondary and related purpose of reminding the readers of the command to love one another which they received ‘at the beginning’, and so ensuring that both writer and readers persist in their relationship of mutual love. In this way the writer seeks to make sure that the deceivers do not succeed in alienating the readers from fellowship with him. The paraenetic nature of the letter, comprising both encouragement and dissuasion, suggests that the writer is on friendly terms with the readers and that they regard him as a ‘friendly superior’. (See the Introduction, pp. 36–40, for a fuller discussion of the provenance of this letter.)

Charles Swindoll - Why is Second John so important? Second John makes clear what our position should be regarding the enemies of the truth. Whereas 1 John focuses on our fellowship with God, 2 John focuses on protecting our fellowship from those who teach falsehood. The apostle went so far as to warn his readers against inviting false teachers into the house or even offering them a greeting (2 John 1:10). Such practices align the believer with the evildoer, and John was keen on keeping the believers pure from the stain of falsehood and heresy.
You would think that these books of the bible would be the most know books because they are the shortest. You would think that they would be the most popular. Long books are harder.
Who wrote it?
John, Salome, 2 sons, Sister of Mary mother of Jesus. Blood cousin of Jesus. Well to do famliy. His mother supported the ministry of Jesus.
Jesus Called John to follow him.
Knickname - Bonergies - sons of thunder. Very ambitious. James and John. Mom wanted them to have cheif seats, one on right and last.
Quick tempered rash young man John becomes the great apostle of Love.
Lord transfigured, John was there. Lord praying in gethsemins.
Our lord gave the supper. Lord spoke personally from John
John first person at the tomb.
John saw the lord. He became the pillar of the church at Jersusalem.
The persecutuon first were put in prison, peter and john.
He was exciled on the island of Patmos.
Church history when he was old he lived at Ephesis.
He could speak, he was carried into the church and could only speak, my little church.
We are very privileged to be able to read this little letters of John.
To Whom he wrote?
Letters were written on papyrus. 10 by 8 inches. 300 words by hand.
To a lady or a church
Why did he write?
Hospitality - travel had become very easy - many traveling Christians.
Traveling workers and tentmakers. Where are the traveling Christians going to stay? Most inns were places of ill repute.
The influence of the home…think of all the people Paul stayed with.
But what do you do when a false teacher arrives at your home? A false teacher and false Christian. People are also out there who are sponging on Christians.
How we can recognize a true Christian and how we can recognize a false teacher. And what we are to do.
1-3
How this aging apostle opens the letter.
We say dear.
Love springs from the truth. What binds Christians together.
Truth is the fountain of love.
If we play down the truth we will have more love.
If we play down dogma we will have more love.
If truth is inside there is bonds between them but eternal truth and love.
Christian love
We are not drawn together because we are nice people, nice family.
Some love the Lord because he gives them fishes.
Love is born on the anvil of truth.
Affection uncomparable to anyone in the world.
Benedicition vs 3.
Grace shall be with you - in truth and love.
All this and the results, peace, will be with her/church.
John Stott, Love grows soft
He will go on and recognize
Christians are judged by three things in perfect balance - truth(right belief) love (right affection) and obedience (right practice).
James Burnham, author of Suicide of the West, once wrote: “As a rule it is not the several values to which a man adheres that reveal most about his character and conduct, but rather the order of priority in which the values are arranged” (159). Christians are often faced with a tension between commitment to the truth and commitment to love. It sometimes seems as if we cannot pursue one without sacrificing the other. Is that true? If so, which has priority?
Storms, S. (2016). Biblical Studies: Second & Third John (2 Jn). Edmond, OK: Sam Storms.
I understand that our century is much different from the early centuries of the church’s history. Back then few people could read. People were used to listening to speeches. There were no Bibles in every home, no sermons on their iPods, Amazon to deliver boxes of books whenever you want. I don’t expect us to go recreate the world that called for these instructions in the Didache.
So I turn to the Bible. I find in place of the words, "education" and "relationship," the words, "truth" and "love." So what does the Bible say about how truth and love relate to each other? There are at least four ways of talking about this relationship.

1. Truth aims at love.

"The goal of our instruction is love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith" (1 Timothy 1:5). Note: instruction is not the goal, love is. Instruction is the means. It is subordinate. Truth serves love. Education serves relationships - mainly the relationship between us and God, but also between Christian and Christian, and between us and unbelievers. The "goal" of all our education is love.
"Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful; and let us consider one another how to stir up to love and good deeds, . . . encouraging one another" (Hebrews 10:23-25, literal translation). The aim of our "considering one another" and "encouraging one another" is that we stir up love. We mingle insight into "the confession of our hope" with insight into "each other," and the effect is stirring each other to love. The truth of doctrine and truth of people-watching unite to aim at love.

2. Love aims at truth.

"Love does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth" (1 Corinthians 13:6). Love is glad when truth is spoken. Therefore love aims at truth. It supports truth.
"Out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote to you with many tears; not so that you would be made sorrowful, but that you might know the love which I have especially for you" (2 Corinthians 2:4). Here is an example of how love aims at truth. Paul is filled with love and it compels him to write a letter that was hard, and caused sorrow in him and in the Corinthians. But it needed to be said. So love said it. Love speaks the truth personally and doctrinally.

3. Love shapes how to speak the truth.

"Speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ" (Ephesians 4:15). There is an unloving way to speak the truth. That kind of truth-speaking we should repudiate. But there is a way to speak the truth in love, and that we should seek. It is not always a soft way to speak, or Jesus would have to be accused of lack of love in dealing with some folks in the Gospels. But it does ask about what is the most helpful thing to say when everything is considered. Sometimes what would have been a hard word to one group is a needed act of love to another group, and not a wrong to the group addressed. But in general, love shapes truth into words and ways that are patient and gentle (2 Timothy 2:24-25).

4. Truth shapes how to show love.

"By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and observe His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome" (1 John 5:2). It is not always obvious which acts are loving. So John tells us some truth will help us know if our acts are loving. One truth test for our love is whether we are keeping the commandments of God toward people, In other words, love cannot be cut loose from the truth of God's will. Truth shapes how to show love.
Let us pray that God will cause his love and truth to abound and mingle in us in all these ways for the glory of his truth-filled love and love-filled truth.
“Truth without love is brutality, and love without truth is hypocrisy.” Those words from Warren Wiersbe are profound & perpetually relevant.
Where has your life reflected truth without love, or love without truth?
Ephesians 4:15–16 ESV
Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.
Our culture force-feeds us a false notion of love. Tolerance and diversity are its defining features. Meanwhile, truth is generally held in high suspicion—if not treated with outright contempt. An unyielding commitment to truth is often viewed as unloving. As a result, truth is regularly sacrificed in the name of love
Great application
The way for Christians to grow in both truth and love is to grow in Christ. To know Him more intimately. To trust Him more readily. To love Him more supremely. To grow in His grace and knowledge by having our minds renewed daily as the Spirit teaches us His Word (2 Peter 3:18; Romans 12:2; John 14:26; 1 John 2:27).
A good way to measure your growth in Christ is to take inventory of how both truth and grace are exemplified in your life. Ask a friend, with full assurance that you want an honest and candid answer.
Here is the twofold reality that we all need to acknowledge and keep in mind as we strive to grow in truth and love.
1) You cannot honor truth without also being loving. In 1 Corinthians 13:2 Paul writes, “If I… understand all mysteries and all knowledge [that’s truth]… but have not love, I am nothing.” This is a devasting truth bomb. If you are satisfied to be full of truth while lacking in love, know this—the truth of God’s Word that you think you are so full of and that you honor, says you are nothing.
2) In the same way, it is impossible genuinely to love without honoring truth. Why? Because genuine love “rejoices in truth” (1 Corinthians 13:6) and seeks the welfare of the one being loved. People can only be helped by knowing the truth. If you think you are being loving while downplaying truth, you really aren’t. You are sinning against love.
As followers of Christ, we must never be satisfied to be merely loving or truthful. Rather, we should keep John’s admonition always before us: “Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth” (1 John 3:18)
Greeting
The elder to the elect lady and her children, whom I love in truth, and not only I, but also all who know the truth, because of the truth that abides in us and will be with us forever:
Grace, mercy, and peace will be with us, from God the Father and from Jesus Christ the Father’s Son, in truth and love.
(2 Jn 1–3).
Paul founded this church,
“elect lady and her children” is simply a metaphorical way of saying “the church and its members” (cf. v. 13; see also 2 Cor. 11:2 and Eph. 5:22–32 where the church is portrayed as a “bride” betrothed to Christ; note also how Peter refers to the church in 1 Peter 5:13—“She who is at Babylon, who is likewise chosen, sends you greetings, and so does Mark, my son”).
Storms, S. (2016). Biblical Studies: Second & Third John (2 Jn 1–3). Edmond, OK: Sam Storms.
So the main point of this message today is: Life together in Christian love is a great protection against deception. Or, if it would help the point stick, you could even say: Mutual Christian affection is a protection against deception.
Our love grows soft if it is not strengthened by truth, and our truth hard if it is not softened by love. Scripture commands us both to love each other in the truth and to hold the truth in love.
The fellowship of the local church is created by truth and exhibited in love. Each qualifies the other. On the one hand, our love is not to be so blind as to ignore the views and conduct of others. Truth should make our love discriminating.
We love each other not because we are temperamentally compatible, or because we are naturally drawn to one another, but because of the truth which we share. Not only have we come to know it objectively (1); but it lives in us (2) as a present indwelling force, and with us (emphatic) it will stay for ever.
‘The communion of love is as wide as the communion of faith’ (Alford).
Stott, J. R. W. (1988). The Letters of John: An Introduction and Commentary (Vol. 19, p. 205). Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press.
Church love truth forever
The New Bible Commentary 1–3 Salutation

the community of love is as wide as the community of truth,

The Message of John’s Letters Chapter 19: Priorities of Truth and Love 2 John (1–3)

to know Christ is to love him, and to love Christ is to love all those who are united to him, through faith

John 14:17 ESV
even the Spirit of truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you and will be in you.
2 John 12 ESV
Though I have much to write to you, I would rather not use paper and ink. Instead I hope to come to you and talk face to face, so that our joy may be complete.
Fellowship is the result of unifying around the truth.
Membership meetings when we can hear the testimonies of members coming into the church. This creates such unity. Hearing the salvation testimony of new and old believers brings true unity to the body. This is true Christian fellowship.
That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we looked upon and have touched with our hands, concerning the word of life— the life was made manifest, and we have seen it, and testify to it and proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and was made manifest to us— that which we have seen and heard we proclaim also to you, so that you too may have fellowship with us; and indeed our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ. And we are writing these things so that our joy may be complete. (1 Jn 1:1–4).
To the chosen lady and her children -
The most logical interpretation is that the church is referred to as a woman with her children.
I Peter 5:13 - “She who is in Babylon”
Israel is referred to as a wife, bride, mother, and daughter.
The church is considered a bride of Christ.
The christian community - whom I love in the truth.
“in the truth” - because of the truth. “All who know the truth”
v2 - the elder explains that this community of love exist among those who know the truth “Because of the truth, which lives in us and will be with us forever.

On the surface, the text appears to indicate that the truth of the message has been internalised by believers so that it ‘lives in’ them and this is what creates the community of love. The text may also be alluding to Christ, as the embodiment of truth (cf. John 14:6), who lives in believers and who will be with them ‘forever’. In this case, the community of love is created not simply by believers internalising the truth of the gospel, but also by the indwelling of Christ, who is the embodiment of the gospel message, in each of them. Either way it boils down to much the same thing, for one cannot know the truth without knowing the person of Christ who first proclaimed it and also embodied it. If the elder is alluding to the presence of Christ within his readers and assuring them of Christ’s presence with them forever, this would function as a further encouragement to people unsettled by the secessionists’ teaching.

V3 - Conclusion of opening greeting
Blessed Fellowship

He reassures his readers by emphasising that God’s grace, mercy, and peace will be with them, despite what the secessionists might say. He includes himself with his readers as a recipient of these blessings to reinforce the sense of their community of love. He emphasises that these blessings come from God the Father and Jesus Christ, ‘the Father’s Son’, reflecting the truth about Jesus which he defends against the secessionists’ teaching. He adds that these blessings from God are experienced ‘in truth and love’, a rather imprecise expression, possibly meaning that the blessings are experienced by those who continue to hold to the truth and practise love among themselves; something he believes he and his readers do, but the secessionists do not.

A Note on Hospitality

Malina provides a very helpful description of the nature of hospitality in the Mediterranean world. Hospitality ‘might be defined as the process by means of which an outsider’s status is changed from stranger to guest’. Hospitality, then, is not something a person provides for family or friends but for strangers. They need such hospitality, for otherwise they will be treated as nonhuman because they are potentially a threat to the community. Strangers had no standing in law or custom, and therefore they needed a patron in the community they were visiting. There was no universal brotherhood in the ancient Mediterranean world.22

There were certain ‘rules’ to be observed by guests and hosts. Guests must not (i) insult their host or show any kind of hostility or rivalry; (ii) usurp the role of their host in any way, for example, by making themselves at home when not invited to do so, ordering the dependents of the host about, making demands of their host, etc.; (iii) refuse what is offered, especially food. Hosts must not (i) insult their guests or make any show of hostility or rivalry; (ii) neglect to protect their guests’ honour; (iii) fail to show concern for the needs of their guests.

Hospitality was not reciprocated between individuals (because once people became guests they were no longer strangers), but it was reciprocated between communities. And it was to the strangers’ own community that they were obliged to sing the praises of their hosts if they had been treated well (cf. 3 John 5–8) and to which they would report adversely if they had not been welcomed properly (cf. 3 John 9–10). Communities would repay hospitality to strangers from another community if that community had treated their own people well.

Letters of recommendation were important in the matter of hospitality. Their function was ‘to help divest the stranger of his strangeness, to make him at least only a partial stranger, if not an immediate guest’. To refuse to accept those recommended was to dishonour the one who commended them, and in the Mediterranean culture of the first century the one dishonoured had to seek satisfaction or bear the shame heaped upon him by the refusal of his commendation.

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