RECOVERING YOUR MARRIAGE 4 - TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE

SCRIPTURE: 1 Samuel 30:6 Introduction: Pastor George * David was distressed and the rest of the people were grieved but David was the only one who "strengthened himself in the Lord his God". * In the marriage relationship we must strengthen one another if we are to recover our marriage. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 * This scripture gives 4 reasons why two are better than one * First, two together reap a greater result or profit because one makes up for the weakness of the other with his/her strength (Eccl 4:9). * Second, when one falls the other will lift him or her up (Eccl 4:10) * Third, one offers the other special warmth or strength (Eccl 4:11). * Fourth, the two help each other in battle and are stronger with God. (Eccl 4:12). Pastor Julia: My Husband * Eno said she's grateful for the man she got married to. A man who supported her to become a better person. * Her husband persevered and stuck with her. Instead of condemning her he encouraged her to continue. * Jesus saw the gem in Peter. He didn't give up on Peter. He washed his feet, He served him. He saw a rock upon which He established His church. * The "Esthers" that God brought to the "Mordecais", the Ruths that come into the "Naomis" lives; they don't hold any promise, nothing to offer... * When God throws us the challenge, we may not know what He is planning for you and me so take them as they come. * If you happen to be in a position as Eno's husband please don't give up on her. Let the love as described in 1 Cor 13:4-7 prevail. * Ask God for a fresh dose of patience, self-control, perseverance, and love each day to help you fulfill that assignment. * Your support could be all your spouse needs to become better. * Your patience could be the lifeline your spouse needs to change. * Support your erring spouse with prayers and love. * And remember that change is a process and not an event! Conclusion: Pastor George * Husbands have a responsibility to make their wives better. Ephesians 5:25-27 * Wives also have a responsibility to make their husbands better. 1 Peter 3:1-2