Jesus and Divorce
Introduction:
8 truths we know from scripture regarding marriage and divorce.
I. God designed marriage as one man and one woman for life.
II. Sexual immorality constitutes Biblical grounds for divorce.
III. Divorce and remarriage without biblical grounds constitutes adultery.
IV. The Old Testament law on divorce was designed to protect the woman from frivolous divorce and character assassination.
V. Divorce permitted in specific circumstances but never commanded.
VI. Even if Biblical Grounds for divorce, God’s desire is for reconciliation and restoration.
VII. Adulterers should repent and newly pursue God’s standards of sanctity in marriage.
VIII. Jesus expects divorce to be the rare exception and not the rule within the community of faith.
IV. Marriage is a picture Christ and the church.
Conclusion:
The greatest source of healing in a marriage is the grace of God poured into our hearts. That grace has two facets. First, God is patient and faithful toward us, despite our sins and flaws. As we behold our Lord and live in union with him, we participate more and more in his character. Then we grow into his patience and faithfulness.
Second, God graciously forgives our sins and flaws. Drinking deep at the fountain of his mercy, we have mercy for others. Some days our spouse’s failures loom large. Sometimes the virtues of a friendly and attractive person of the opposite sex loom even larger. Just as we cannot control our angry hearts, so we cannot repeal the heart’s tendency to become discontent, to wish for a better spouse.
What then? Remember God’s grace and providence. The church is the bride of Christ, and we are hardly the perfect spouse to him. Yet God tells us,
I will betroth you to me forever;
I will betroth you in righteousness and justice,
in love and compassion.
I will betroth you in faithfulness,
and you will acknowledge the LORD. (Hos. 2:19–20)
So God’s faithfulness inspires us. More than that, the Lord gives grace to forgive our sins and to make us new. With this grace, he can build a strong marriage, with all the faithfulness and contentment that two sinners can know.