Funeral: Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton

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Obituary for Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton It is with mixed emotions that I announce the passing of my mother, Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton, on March 30, 2021, in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Known mostly as Ms. Edna, Ms. Hubbard, Ms. Sutton or just as Edna Marie, she was born in Baltimore, Maryland on July 7, 1918, the daughter of John Richard Dierker, a German immigrant, and Edna Lillian Gears of Kent County, Maryland. She was pre-deceased by her first husband George Wilkins Hubbard, Sr., her daughter Lynda Sue Hubbard, her daughter-in-law, Candace Stephanie Hubbard and her second husband Stanley Sutton, her father, mother and Dierker siblings, Christine Barnes, Frank R. Dierker and John R. Dierker. She is survived by her son, George Wilkins Hubbard, Jr. of Virginia Beach, Virginia, granddaughter Courtney Stephanie Starr, son-in-law Timothy Starr and three great grand boys, Taylor Christian, William Timothy and Benjamin Hubbard Starr of Earlysville, Virginia. Survivors also include nephew Hubbard Kendall and niece Donna Edwards and their families. Of the Sutton family, survivors include her step son William S. Sutton and step grandchildren William S. Sutton, his wife Tricia, step granddaughter Susan B Nickerson and her husband Phil, and step grandchildren as well as sister-in-law, Charmayne Dierker of Chestertown, Maryland and “just like a daughter”, Ann Lee Thomas of Rock Hall. One of four children, she grew up as a farm girl in Kent County, Maryland, and received her early education in the public school system. As she related, “Perhaps we were poor, but we didn’t know it”. A stellar student, she entered nursing school at Maryland General Hospital in Baltimore at age 17, claiming to meet the entry age of 18. She graduated from Nursing School in 1938 at age 20 and worked in the Instructional Visiting Nurse Association (IVNA). She married George Wilkins Hubbard, a commercial fisherman in 1940, and worked in nursing at Kent and Queen Anne’s Hospital in Chestertown until 1948. The family started Hubbard’s Pier and Seafood, Inc. in 1953 where she was secretary/ treasurer and manager until retiring in 1983. Her husband, Wilkes Hubbard died in 1964 and the corporation was sold to Albert Woodfield in 1965. She and Al worked together until she retired in 1983. She remarried in 1976 to Stanley Sutton. They were able to enjoy travel and some life at Bittersweet Farm with the Sutton family until his death in 1984 after completing his book, Beyond the Road Gate. Edna Marie and Wilkes had 2 children, Lynda Sue and George Wilkins, Jr. The misfortunes of life with the death of her daughter Lynda at age 13 and of her husband at age 48 placed her in the role of single parent and sole provider. She shouldered those roles with sacrifice and faith and stoically carried on. She was known as an accomplished business women and Charter member of the Soroptimist International of Kent County. She was a life member of Maryland General Hospital School of Nursing Alumni Association. She was a lifelong member of Wesley Chapel Church where she taught Sunday School and women’s class for several years. She was an advocate for her town and proud of her Eastern Shore heritage. She was featured in Southern Living Magazine and interviewed on Eastern Neck Island Bridge in 2004. She served on multiple committees and municipal boards, including Rock Hall Senior Citizens Association, the Rock Hall Museum Board, the Zoning Appeals Board, and Crime Solvers of the Upper Eastern Shore. Known as an advocate for education, she was proud of her association with the University of Virginia where she was involved with University Development and a member of the Lawn, Compass Rose and Cornerstone Societies. Above all, she was a woman of strong faith as demonstrated in her character of Christian living and unwillingness to compromise Christian principles. Her later years were fraught with many health challenges that she faced with courage, resiliency and dignity which she overcame with the excellent and loving care by the doctors and nurses at Sentara Leigh Memorial Hospital in Norfolk. Most importantly, she made every sacrifice that a mother could possibly make for a son. As a family, we will miss her wit, her advice, her bright blue eyes and smile and the times we shared in difficulties and celebrations. As her son, I can only hope that I can be as consistent in my life and an example to my daughter, son-in-law and grandchildren. She was an inspiration. Close personal gathering is a challenge with the Covid dilemma ever present, however with masking, social distancing and air-hug- substitutes, we hope to honor her memory. There will be an in-person visitation on Friday, April 9, 2021 from 4-6 PM at Fellows, Helfenbein and Newnam Funeral Home in Chestertown, Maryland. A memorial celebration of the life will be held at the funeral home at 3 PM, Saturday, April 10, 2021. A graveside service will be private. A webcast option of the memorial service can be accessed on Mrs. Sutton’s memorial page at www.fhnfuneralhome.com underneath the “Photos & Videos” tab at the time of the service. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the Cemetery Fund at Wesley Chapel Church, c/o Donna Edwards, P.O. Box 395 Rock Hall, MD 21661, or the Rock Hall Fire House, 21500 Rock Hall Ave, Rock Hall, Maryland 21661, or a charity of your choice are suggested. To send flowers or a memorial gift to the family of Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton please visit our Sympathy Store.

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Welcome

Jesus said, I am the resurrection and I am life.
Those who believe in me, even though they die, yet shall they live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die.
I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last.
I died, and behold I am alive for evermore, and I hold the keys of hell and death.
Because I live, you shall live also.

Opening Prayer

O God, you gave us birth, we come together today in prayer, believing that you, the creator and sustainer of life, hear us. You are more ready to hear than we are to pray. It is our hope and our trust that You know our needs before we ask. You have patience for us asking for the very things you love to give your children.
Today we ask that You give us your grace, that as this mystery of death makes us feel small and insignificant, we can find encouragement in your presence with us.
God we ask that, as we see just how fragile life is, you would reveal to us once more, a message of hope.
Your hope that allows us to live as people who are prepared to die.
And die as people prepared to live.
So that our living and our dying, may be with you, as we hold to your promise that nothing in life or in death would separate us from your great love in Christ Jesus our Lord.
In whose beautiful name we pray, Jesus our Lord, Amen.
I would like to read you some scripture today. I do this for two reasons:
it has been found, over the centuries, to provide comfort to people who are experiencing what you are experiencing today.
This is because of the second reason I am reading these ancient texts today. Because these are the words of God. That as we hear these words, God’s spirit begins to move in us, and in that movement, we experience God’s healing and transforming power.
Hear this

Psalm

Psalm 130 NIV
A song of ascents. 1 Out of the depths I cry to you, Lord; 2 Lord, hear my voice. Let your ears be attentive to my cry for mercy. 3 If you, Lord, kept a record of sins, Lord, who could stand? 4 But with you there is forgiveness, so that we can, with reverence, serve you. 5 I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in his word I put my hope. 6 I wait for the Lord more than watchmen wait for the morning, more than watchmen wait for the morning. 7 Israel, put your hope in the Lord, for with the Lord is unfailing love and with him is full redemption. 8 He himself will redeem Israel from all their sins.

Old Testament Lesson:

Isaiah 55:1–3 NIV
1 “Come, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters; and you who have no money, come, buy and eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost. 2 Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good, and you will delight in the richest of fare. 3 Give ear and come to me; listen, that you may live. I will make an everlasting covenant with you, my faithful love promised to David.
Isaiah 55:6–13 NIV
6 Seek the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near. 7 Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon. 8 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. 9 “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. 10 As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, 11 so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. 12 You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their hands. 13 Instead of the thornbush will grow the juniper, and instead of briers the myrtle will grow. This will be for the Lord’s renown, for an everlasting sign, that will endure forever.”

New Testament Lesson:

Selected verses from Romans 8
Romans 8:1–2 NIV
1 Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, 2 because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.
Romans 8:11 NIV
11 And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you.
Romans 8:14 NIV
14 For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.
Romans 8:17–18 NIV
17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. 18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.
Romans 8:28 NIV
28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:31–32 NIV
31 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?
Romans 8:35–39 NIV
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” 37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Song of Reflection:

In the Garden

Gospel Lesson:

Selected verses from John 14
John 14:1–4 NIV
1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. 4 You know the way to the place where I am going.”
John 14:18–19 NIV
18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 19 Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.
John 14:25–27 NIV
25 “All this I have spoken while still with you. 26 But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. 27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Message

Wilkes, many of us were moved by your words honoring your mom in the obituary.
As wonderful as those words were, they were woefully lacking in capturing who your mom was.
But in times like this, words are all we have to communicate how important, how precious things are to us.
The way you cared for your mom was a powerful testimony of your love for her.
You sought to protect your mom by making sure she had the best care available. That’s the choice we all make for the things that are most precious to us.
1. Many things in life are precious to us
a. We try to protect ourselves and our property with insurance, locks, alarms, and banks
Yet the most precious thing of all, can’t be locked away
2. The most precious things are relationships
a. Relationships to people are precious
(1) Death becomes a heart-rending intruder
Always at the wrong time
b. Relationship to the church is special
B/C we are a part of something unique. A group established in love and called to love one another. We don’t do it perfectly, but love is in the DNA of the church.
c. Relationship to God is the most precious one we can have
3. Many things also are precious to God (text)
Rather… many are precious to God
Psalm 116:15 NIV
15 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.
I. Speaks of God’s Feelings for His Children
A. Bible assures us of God’s love
Romans 5:8 NIV
8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
How does God feel about us? He loves us enough to send his son to die in our place.
That sort of Love is really beyond our ability to fully understand.
God explained it further in Scripture.
Romans 8:35–39 NIV
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36 As it is written: “For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” 37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Nothing can touch us.
B. This assurance gives us strength in life
1. In times of trouble, strife, and sorrow we know that God is for us… He loves us… no matter what life might look like.
Mrs Edna knew that… her life had not been easy… .yet she knew God loved her and that gave her strength to live.
But not only living.
It allowed her to face the future without fear.
C. This assurance gives us confidence in death.
Love gives us confidence to live… live as those prepared to die.
Facing the future unafraid. Because he loves us.
Psalm 116:15 NIV
15 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.
II. Speaks of God’s Provision for His Children
A. We don’t know much about what happens after death
B. We know only what the Bible tells us
1. We know it is not the end of life
He proved that by sending Jesus to come and be one of us… for us… for our redemption
That by trusting in the work of Jesus, we will be with God the father for eternity.
This is why Christians don’t fear death in the same way the rest of the world does. Sure we are concerned about the loved ones we leave behind. The things we will miss here on earth, we don’t want to see others saddened, but the fact of the matter is, Jesus rose from the dead.
Came back to show his disciples that they need not fear death, he promised that we would rise again, so that we could live with confidence.
That was my Easter message… Today we are seeing that Easter message lived out.
a. Death of the body is a transition
Story of ship setting sail… and instantly starting to arrive
2. We know His children have a place prepared for them—John 14
We read that text a few minutes ago… that’s how you care for things that are special to you; you provide a special place for them.
3. We know someday we shall receive a new glorified body
A body that isn’t limited to Why… because God provides for his children.
Do we know what’s it is like on the other side? No, not completely. but can we trust that God has a plan for us?
Can we trust that his plan is sufficient because we are precious to him?
Psalm 116:15 NIV
15 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servants.
III. Speaks of God’s Action at the Death of His Children
A. Can we imagine that God stood by and did nothing?
God is motivated by love and love is not a stationary thing. It’s intentional, it’s powerful, it’s effective.
All throughout the scriptures God has been seen at work in the lives of his people. That’s what you do when something is precious. You don’t just stare at it. Think of how you act when those you love are hurting, in need.
Scripture says when your son is hungry do you give him a stone? Well if you don’t do that, what would an infinitely good God do, God who is all powerful, all knowing, he would do what’s best for those he loves as well.
B. If there were a fire in our church, in our home, we would want to do something, because the building is special to us.
1. Surely God acts to help in our hour of need
God was there with Mrs Edna because she was precious in his sight
Because,
2. We are precious in His sight
He is here with us.
Psalm 23 NIV
A psalm of David. 1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Prayers & Commendation

God, your love never ends.
When all else fails, you still are God.
We pray to you for one another in our need, and for all, anywhere, who mourn with us this day.
To those who doubt, give light; to those who are weak, strength; to all who have sinned, mercy; to all who sorrow, your peace.
Keep true in us the love with which we hold one another.
Help us to trust you in all our ways.
And to you, with your Church on earth and in heaven, we offer honor and glory, here, now and forever.
Now O God, just as all that you have given us is yours.
As first you gave Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton to us, now we give Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton back to you.
Receive Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton into the arms of your mercy.
Raise Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton up with all your people.
Receive us also, and raise us into a new life.
Help us so to love and serve you in this world that we may enter into your joy in the world to come. Amen.
Into your hands, O merciful Savior, we commend your servant Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton.
We pray you may acknowledge him, a sheep of your own fold, a lamb of your own flock, a sinner of your own redeeming.
Receive Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton into the arms of your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints of light. Amen.

The Lord's Prayer

God of love, we thank you for all with which you have blessed us even to this day:
for the gift of joy in days of health and strength and for the gifts of your abiding presence and promise in days of pain and grief.
We praise you for home and friends, and for our baptism and place in your Church with all who have faithfully lived and died.
Above all else we thank you for Jesus, who knew our grief’s, who died our death and rose for our sake, and who lives and prays for us.
And as he taught us, so now we pray.
Our father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil; for thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.

Dismissal

Life is much more than an accident.
Where ever you go, believe God needs you there.
Where ever you are, trust God has put you there.
He has a purpose for you being there;
Christ, alive in you, wants to do something
through you, no matter where you are.
I believe this and go in His grace
and His love and His power. Amen.
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GRAVESIDE SERVICE:

In the midst of life, we are in death; from whom can we seek help?Our help is in the name of the Lord who made heaven and earth.(ROMANS 8:11, ALT.)
Listen, I will tell you a mystery!We will not all die, but we will all be changed.For this perishable body must put on imperishability, and this mortal body must put on immortality.
Then the saying that is written will be fulfilled: "Death has been swallowed up in victory." "Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?"But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.(1 CORINTHIANS 15:51, 53, 54 b 55, 57)
Therefore my heart is glad, and my soul rejoices; my body also dwells secure.You, [Lord,] show me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy, in your right hand are pleasures forevermore.(PSALM 16:9, 11, UMH 748)

PRAYER:

Let us pray.
O God, you have ordered this wonderful world and know all things in earth and in heaven.Give us such faith that by day and by night, at all times and in all places, we may without fear commit ourselves and those dear to us to your never failing love, in this life and in the life to come. Amen.

SCRIPTURE READING

1 PETER 1:3-9
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ!
By his great mercy we have been born anew to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and to an inheritance which is imperishable, undefiled and unfading, kept in heaven for you.In this you rejoice, though now for a little while you suffer trials so that the genuineness of your faith may prove itself worthy at the revelation of Jesus Christ. Without having seen him, yet you love him;though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with unutterable and exalted joy. As the harvest of your faith you reap the salvation of your souls.

SCRIPTURE READING

JOHN 12:24-26
Jesus said: "Very truly, I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.Those who love their life lose it, and those who hate their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.Whoever serves me must follow me, and where I am, there will my servant be also.Whoever serves me, the Father will honor."

COMMITTAL:

Almighty God, into your hands we commend your son/daughter Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton, in sure and certain hope of resurrection to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
This body we commit to the ground earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord. Yes, says the Spirit, they will rest from their labors for their deeds follow them. (REVELATION 14:13, ALT.)

PRAYER:

Eternal God, you have shared with us the life of Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton .
Before he/she was ours, he/she is yours.
For all that Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton has given us to make us what we are, for that of him/her which lives and grows in each of us, and for his/her life that in your love will never end, we give you thanks.
As now we offer Edna Marie Hubbard Sutton back into your arms, comfort us in our loneliness, strengthen us in our weakness, and give us courage to face the future unafraid.
Draw those of us who remain in this life closer to one another, make us faithful to serve one another, and give us to know that peace and joy which is eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

BENEDICTION:

Now to the One who is able to keep you from falling, and to make you stand without blemish in the presence of God's glory with rejoicing, to the only God our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, power, and authority, before all time and now and forever. Amen
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