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The Greek word that is used in Romans 12:8 to designate the seventh Motivational Gift is “eleeo.”

The King James Version translated, “to show mercy.”

It is defined by Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance, as, “to have compassion – by word or deed – specifically, obtain, receive, or show, by Divine grace.”

Vine’s Word Study defines “eleeo” as “the readiness of mind that prompts one to do anything joyfully and cheerfully.”

Vincent defines it as “the joyfulness, the amiable grace, the affability going the length of gaiety, which makes the visitor a sunbeam penetrating into the sick-chamber, and to the heart of the afflicted.”

Wuest tells us that the word “hilarity” comes from the same Greek word.

The motivation of one with the Motivational Gift of Compassion, or Mercy is to mentally, and emotionally, relate to the feelings of those around him.

Just as the server focuses on physical needs, the one with the gift of compassion concentrates on giving empathy, and comfort, during times of distress.

The Motivational Gift of compassion, or Mercy, is the ability to show great love, and deep feeling, toward the needs of others, it is the “outward manifestation of empathy.”

The guidelines for this gift of compassion, or mercy, spoken of in Romans 12:15, are:

1.

To weep with, and

2. To rejoice with

I. Characteristics of the Gift of Mercy

A. Deeply Loyal to Friends

A person with the gift of mercy demonstrates loyalty to a friend to the extent that he will even react harshly toward those who attack his friends.

When the Apostle John, with the gift of mercy, watched the Samaritans reject Jesus, whom he love he wanted to call down fire from heaven to consume them (See Luke 9:54).

HE IS TRUSTWORTHY, THEREFORE, TRUSTING

Because the merciful, person is trustworthy, he expects others to be also, that is why he assumes that everyone is honest and reliable until absolutely proven otherwise.

He can be so trusting, in fact, that he may tend to be gullible.

HE ALWAYS LOOKS FOR THE GOOD IN PEOPLE

Because the merciful, person is non-critical not only does his focus remain on the good, both real and potential, in others, but he also seems to have built-in blinders that keep him from seeing the bad in others.

B. Need for Deep Friendships

The very nature of a person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy requires close friendships, friendships where there are mutual commitments and constant reaffirmations.

John enjoyed such a friendship with Jesus.

He was not only closer to Christ than more of the other disciples, but he referred to himself as “the disciple whom Jesus loved”.

HE IS MOTIVATED TO HELP PEOPLE HAVE RIGHT RELATIONSHIPS WITH ONE ANOTHER

Because the merciful person grieves over broken relationships, he is a natural builder of bridges, a mender of breaches, a “peacemaker.”

He works to bring about Jesus’ prayer in John 17:22-23,

He Desires to see the Body of Christ united, and functioning, in love.

HE AVOIDS CONFLICTS AND CONFRONTATIONS

The person with the gift of mercy longs, and will do anything, for peace and harmony, that is why he finds it difficult to cope with conflict.

C. Empathize with Hurting People

One with the gift of mercy has an ever-present – ready to empathize –characteristic that attracts him to those who are hurting or in distress.

The compassionate, merciful, person cannot only sense which individuals are hurting, but he also has the ability to share pain with them.

The compassionate, merciful person can, as well, sense the full scope of emotions of those who are hurting.

HE IS RULED BY HIS HEART RATHER THAN BY HIS HEAD

The heart plays the major role in the life of the person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy because the heart is the channel through which he shares God’s wonderful love with others.

HE REJOICES TO SEE OTHERS BLESSED AND GRIEVES TO SEE OTHERS HURT

Because the person with eh motivational Gift of Mercy has an immense capacity to identify with what others are going through he has an ability to “rejoice with those who rejoice,” and to “weep with those who weep.”

D. Decisions Based on Benefits

One motivated by the gift of mercy will find it hard to be firm because he does not want to offend others.

However, as he matures in this gift, he must come to realize that greater hurt, and offenses, may occur if he fails to be decisive.

When John was faced with denying Jesus, he demonstrated a boldness and decisiveness that caused the Sadducees to marvel (See Acts 4:13.)

HE IS A CRUSADER FOR GOOD CAUSES

In the eye of the person with the Motivational of Gift of Mercy, right needs to prevail.

If there is evil at work in society he strives to overcome it, usually in “silent witness” fashion – by participating – for instance, in sit-ins, picketing, peace marches, our mail-outs.

If he has a more extroverted personality, or a strong secondary “speaking gift,” he may address political rallies or appear on television, however, no matter what he does, it is done with the motivation to bring about change.

He tends to be altruistic, not wanting any special benefit for himself, but rather, for others.

But HE DOES NOT LIKE TO BE RUSHED IN A JOB OR ACTIVITY

The person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy has one speed: “Slow Forward” – which means that punctuality may be a problem.

Given a job, he will finish it, but not necessarily on schedule – because – time doesn’t seem important to him.

Because he is a “NOW” person, and lives for the moment, he figures that the future will take care of itself, just as long as he is about his Father’s business in the present.

E. Deeply Sensitive to Loved Ones

Because the gift of mercy carries with it the ability to sense genuine love, it, therefore, also carries with it a greater vulnerability to deeper, and more frequent, hurts from those who fail to demonstrate sincere love.

John used the word “love” in his Gospel and epistles more times than did any of the other disciples.

HE LOVES DOING THOUGHTFUL THINGS FOR OTHERS

The person motivated by mercy will remember birthdays, anniversaries, Mother’s Day, and Father’s Day, Valentine’s Day – and find a host of other occasions on which to send cards, or notes, just to remind others that he cares.

HE HAS A TREMENDOUS CAPACITY TO SHOW LOVE

Of all the Motivational Gifts, the gift of Mercy is the one that gives one the greatest capacity, and ability, to show love to others.

Reflecting the nature of his heavenly Father, the person motivated by “the Gift of Mercy” seems to be an unending source of “agape” love, and, the more opportunity he has to give this love, the more joyful, and fulfilled, he is.

HE IS TYPICALLY CHEERFUL AND JOYFUL

The person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy is a positive person.

Because the Merciful person loves showing love he, in fact, can do it with “genuine cheerfulness” and “joyful eagerness.”

As verse 8 of this chapter tells us, those with the Gift of Mercy do so with cheerfulness.

HE IS MORE CONCERNED ABOUT MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL DISTRESS THAN PHYSICAL DISTRESS

The person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy will probably be the first one to visit someone who goes to the hospital and, then, he will inquire about this person’s comfort and medical prognosis.

His greatest area of concern for the one who is ill will be how he is feeling – what he may be worrying about – whether or not he is fearful – whether or not he senses the Lord’s presence in this time of need.

F. Attract People in Distress

One who is motivated by the gift of mercy has a deep understanding of people who are going through mental, or emotional, distress.

This sensitivity causes those who hurt to be drawn to him and confide in him.

When Jesus died, He transferred responsibility for his grieving mother to John (See John 19:26- 27).

However the person with a gift of mercy can easily detect insincerity or wrong motives.

Because the merciful, person’s “built-in radar system” helps him to detect ulterior motives, or insincerity, of any kind, he will back off from a person, or a group, when he senses this.

G. Desire to Remove Hurts

The person who is motivated by mercy is not only drawn to the hurting, but will also do something about the hurt, whenever possible.

Whereas the exhorter will try to help a person find benefit from his hurt, the person with the gift of mercy will try to remove the source of the hurt.

The message of John’s first epistle was for Christians to stop “hurting” each other (See 1 John 3:11, 15).

HE IS CAREFUL WITH HIS WORDS AND ACTIONS IN ORDER TO AVOID HURTING OTHERS

Because the last thing a merciful, person wants is to be the cause of hurt to another person he will be extremely careful in his actions, and speech, in order to keep from hurting others.

HE INTERCEDES FOR THE HURTS AND PROBLEMS OF OTHERS

Like those with the Motivational Gift of “Prophet,” – and those with the Motivational Gift of “Giving” – those with the Motivational Gift of “Mercy” is, most likely to be called to, and anointed for, intercessory prayer.

They intercede primarily for the hurts and problems they have become aware of in other people’s lives.

Because their prayers are deeply, moving, heartfelt, expressive prayers, it is not unusual for them to be moved to tears as they intercede.

Because those with the Motivational Gift of Mercy usually pray with an abandonment that forgets that there are others present, they are unashamed of their tears or of other expressions of emotions.

H. Measure Acceptance by Closeness

A person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy tends to need physical closeness in order to be reassured of acceptance, a closeness that includes rich times of fellowship.

John sought out the closest place to Jesus at the Last Supper and leaned upon the Lord and this same need for physical closeness may also have been what prompted his request to sit next to Christ in glory (See Mark 10:35-37).

I. Attracted to Prophets

The statement that “opposites attract” is certainly true with the Motivational Gifts.

The mature person with the Motivational Gift of Mercy should realize his need for the one with the Motivational Gift of Prophecy – knowing that the firm truth of this gift is balanced with the gentle love of compassion.

John spent more time with Peter than with any other disciple.

However, Those with the Motivational gift of Mercy are naturally drawn to each other.

They enjoy sharing with each other, praying together, just being together.

They may not think alike, but they feel alike.

They have the same emotional reactions to people and situations, and share the same degree of concern for them.

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Misuses of the Gift of Mercy

The Motivational Gift of Mercy is potentially both the most beautiful gift of all – and the most emotionally destruction gift of all!

It all depends upon the degree to which the, merciful, person had overcome his own emotional wounds, but more importantly is yielded to the Holy Spirit.

Merciful, people are the most vulnerable to hurts because their hearts are the most open to others.