WHEN YOU CAN'T BE A BLESSING AT HOME

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it has been said that "Charity starts at home and then spreads abroad." However, what is one expected to do when they cannot be a blessing at home?

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Read Mark 6:1-6

Mark 6:1–6 NASB95
Jesus went out from there and came into His hometown; and His disciples followed Him. When the Sabbath came, He began to teach in the synagogue; and the many listeners were astonished, saying, “Where did this man get these things, and what is this wisdom given to Him, and such miracles as these performed by His hands? “Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon? Are not His sisters here with us?” And they took offense at Him. Jesus said to them, “A prophet is not without honor except in his hometown and among his own relatives and in his own household.” And He could do no miracle there except that He laid His hands on a few sick people and healed them. And He wondered at their unbelief. And He was going around the villages teaching.

INTRODUCTION

it has been said that "Charity starts at home and then spreads abroad." The origin of Charity Begins at Home is usually not attributed to the Bible. One of the people most referenced as the author of this quote is Sir Thomas Browne, an English physician, writer and theologian:
“But how shall we expect charity towards others, when we are uncharitable to ourselves? ‘Charity begins at home,’ is the voice of the world;” – Sir Thomas Browne, 1642
Somebody may be asking what definition of home I am using? Can I borrow from Stephanie Mills and say “When I think of home, I think of a place Wheres there is love overflowing. That is because family and friends are at home, home is a peaceful place where one can always get perspective.
The Tyndale Bible Dictionary says, “Love for one’s neighbor is nowhere defined but everywhere illustrated. In the parable of the good Samaritan, “neighbor” is shown to mean anyone near enough to help, and love involves whatever service the neighbor’s situation demands. The parable of the sheep and goats shows love feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, visiting the sick and the imprisoned. In the untiring example of Jesus, love heals, teaches, adapts instruction to the hearers by parable and symbolic language, defends those criticized or despised, pronounces forgiveness, comforts the bereaved, befriends the lonely. We are to love others as he has loved us and as we love ourselves. Such imaginative transfer of self-love does good without expecting return, never returns ill treatment, ensures unfailing courtesy even to the lowliest, sustains thoughtful understanding that tempers judgment.
However, what is one expected to do when they cannot be a blessing at home?
Walter A. Elwell and Philip Wesley Comfort, Tyndale Bible Dictionary, Tyndale Reference Library (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 2001), 827–828.

SITUATION

Jesus returns to Nazareth where he attends the Sabbath gathering at the local synagogue. He is accompanied by his disciples validating his position as a rabbi. He begins to teach in the synagogue where many of the residents question the legitimacy of his ministry by citing their familiarity with the history of his family.

“Is not this the carpenter

and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon?

Are not His sisters here with us?

And they took offense at Him.

Offended: ADJECTIVE resentful or annoyed, typically as a result of a perceived insult. "she sounded slightly offended" synonyms: upset · hurt · wounded · injured · insulted · aggrieved · affronted · pained · displeased · distressed · disgruntled · put out · annoyed · angered · angry · cross · exasperated · indignant · irritated · vexed · piqued · irked · stung · galled · nettled · needled · peeved · ruffled · resentful · in a huff · huffy · in high dudgeon · fed up · vex · riled · miffed · miffy · rattled · aggravated · peed off · hacked off · narked · eggy · cheesed off · browned off · brassed off · sore · teed off · ticked off · snuffy
The Bible Exposition Commentary Chapter Five: Will Anyone Trust God’s Servant? (Mark 6:1–56)

“Familiarity breeds contempt” is a well-known maxim that goes all the way back to Publius the Syrian, who lived in 2 B.C. Aesop wrote a fable to illustrate it. In Aesop’s fable, a fox had never before seen a lion, and when he first met the king of the beasts, the fox was nearly frightened to death. At their second meeting, the fox was not frightened quite as much; and the third time he met the lion, the fox went up and chatted with him! “And so it is,” Aesop concluded, “that familiarity makes even the most frightening things seem quite harmless.”

The maxim, however, must be taken with a grain of salt. For example, can you imagine a loving husband and wife thinking less of each other because they know each other so well? Or two dear friends starting to despise each other because their friendship has deepened over the years? Phillips Brooks said it best: “Familiarity breeds contempt, only with contemptible things or among contemptible people.” The contempt shown by the Nazarenes said nothing about Jesus Christ, but it said a great deal about them!

A tourist, eager to see everything in the art gallery, fled from picture to picture, scarcely noticing what was in the frames. “I didn’t see anything very special here,” he said to one of the guards as he left. “Sir,” the guard replied, “it is not the pictures that are on trial here—it is the visitors.”

A carpenter was a respected artisan in that day, but nobody expected a carpenter to do miracles or teach profound truths in the synagogue. Where did He get all this power and wisdom? From God or from Satan? (see Mark 3:22) And why did His brothers and sisters not possess this same power and wisdom? Even more, why did His brothers and sisters not believe in Him? The people who called Him “the son of Mary” were actually insulting Him; because in that day you identified a man by calling him the son of his father, not the son of his mother.

The people of Nazareth were “offended at Him,” which literally means “they stumbled over Him.” The Greek word gives us our English word scandalize. Kenneth Wuest wrote in his book Wuest’s Word Studies (Eerdmans), “They could not explain Him, so they rejected Him.” Jesus was certainly a “stone of stumbling” to them because of their unbelief (Isa. 8:14; Rom. 9:32–33; 1 Peter 2:8).

Twice in the Gospel record you find Jesus marveling. As this passage reveals, He marveled at the unbelief of the Jews, and He marveled at the great faith of a Roman centurion, a Gentile (Luke 7:9). Instead of remaining at Nazareth, Jesus departed and made another circuit of the towns and villages in Galilee. His heart was broken as He saw the desperate plight of the people (Matt. 9:35–38), so He decided to send out His disciples to minister with His authority and power.

COMPLICATION

The people had at least two responses available to them regarding him; they could receive him or reject him. The people of Nazareth choose the latter. John said it like this in his gospel narrative at John 1:11.
John 1:11 NASB95
He came to His own, and those who were His own did not receive Him.
Their rejection of him put them in a precarious situation; that is to have Him say like Aretha Franklin said “Ain’t No Way! that I can Love you if you won’t let me.” In a figurative word, the people “tied his hands”.

6:5–6a. Because of such persistent unbelief Jesus could not do any miracles there except to lay His hands on (cf. 5:23) a few sick people and heal them. There was no limitation on His power, but His purpose was to perform miracles in the presence of faith. Only a few here had faith to come to Him for healing.

Even Jesus was amazed (ethaumasen, “astonished”; cf. 5:20; 12:17; 15:5, 44) at their unbelief, their unwillingness to believe that His wisdom and power were from God. So far as is known, He never returned to Nazareth.

The people of Nazareth represent Israel’s blindness. Their refusal to believe in Jesus pictured what the disciples would soon experience (cf. 6:7–13) and what Mark’s readers (then and now) would experience in the advance of the gospel.

RESOLUTION

New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update (Chapter 6)
And He wondered at their unbelief.And He was going around the villages teaching.
Mark 6:6b Jesus’ Ministry in the Surrounding Region

6:6b Jesus’ Ministry in the Surrounding Region

Perhaps verse 6b can be included with the previous episode, counting as a fourth response by Jesus to the lack of faith in Nazareth. He is rejected there, but his ministry is not hindered. He moves out to the smaller villages around Nazareth. Connecting verse 6b to this episode, however, also fits Mark’s larger pattern. The sequel to rejection is expanded ministry. We have often seen this in Mark:

• When demonic opposition arises, it is quickly subdued, and Jesus’ fame spreads (1:23–28).

• When religious leaders begin to question Jesus, his fame attracts great crowds (2:6–7, 12–13).

• When the Pharisees and Herodians initiate a death plot, Jesus is quickly surrounded by crowds from virtually every region in Palestine (3:6–8).

• When family and foe alike oppose him (3:21–22), Jesus is surrounded first by faithful followers (3:34–35), and then by the largest crowds to date (4:1).

So it is here also: Jesus is rejected in his hometown, and immediately the narrative shifts to the enlarging ministry of Jesus (among the villages; 6:6b) and its multiplication through those he sends out (v. 7).

CONCLUSION

The bottom line of the issue today is that there are times when being a blessing at home is hindered by people who refuse to take you seriously because of their preconceived assumptions about you . They won’t accept your testimony because they are convinced that they already know everything there is to know about you. This could be a debilitating experience if you allow yourself to take it personally. I mean we need to recognize that 1) you will never be able to help everybody. Please hear me cleary and understand me correctly to be saying that we should attempt to love and serve everyone and most especially at home but don’t give all your energy where it is not wanted : help the few that do.
Furthermore, when you can’t be a blessing at home, be a blessing somewhere else. Where; the hospitals, the shcools, the jails, everywhere you go. That’s what Jesus did. and I believe that is what He wants to get us to do as if relates to growing his kingdom.
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