Expelling Anger

Matthew 5:21-26. "Expelling Anger" Safe Haven Community Church. Sunday August 15th, 2021. Matthew 5:21-26 [21]"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.' [22] But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, 'You fool!' will be liable to the hell of fire. [23] So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, [24] leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. [25] Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are going with him to court, lest your accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you be put in prison. [26] Truly, I say to you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny. (ESV) Once there was a little boy was doing his homework, and he asked: "Dad, what causes people to go to war? Why do people kill each other in war?" "Well," he said, "son, it's like this. If you want to know what causes war," he said, "for example, in World War I," he said, "Germany invaded Belgium.". Just then, the boy's mother came in and said, "No, no, , that's not the way it is. Here's the way that war started." The Father said to her, "Look, do you want to answer the question or do you want me to answer the question? Did he ask you or did he ask me? Besides that, you don't know anything about it. Why don't you butt out of this conversation?" She said, "What do you mean I don't know anything about it?" She turned around, and slammed the door. The Father then continued: "Now son, let me tell you how wars start." Before he could continue, the boy said, "No thanks, Dad. I understand it all now" (Rogers, A. (2017). It's What's inside that Counts. In Adrian Rogers Sermon Archive (Mt 5:20-22). Signal Hill, CA: Rogers Family Trust.) Why does anger, murder, wars and the like occur? Jesus says in Matthew 15 that it is out of a person's own heart that "come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders" (Matt. 15:19). We do not sin simply because of Satan or because of social deprivation, stressful situations, bad influences, or any other external cause. Those things may tempt us to sin and make sinning easier, but when we commit sin-or even intend to commit sin-it is because we decide to sin. Sin is an act of the will. Jesus' hearers were aware of the prevalence and seriousness of this sin. No doubt most of them were in full agreement with capital punishment for the crime but were convinced that they were innocent of that particular evil. After specifying God's standard of holiness in Matthew 5:20, Jesus now applies this standard attacking self-righteousness by charging that no one is truly innocent of murder. The anger that lies behind murder-anger which many people think is not really a sin-is one of the worst of sins. Although most children do not act out the ultimate result of anger, the anger that exists in all our hearts, even displayed in the youngest, shows the common problem that we must all attend to and realize our common need for deliverance. Anger, unchecked and uncorrected, affects 3 things: 1) Our view of ourselves (Matthew 5:21-22), 2) Our worship of God (Matthew 5:23-24), and 3) Our relation to others (Matthew 5:25-26). In order to Expel Anger, we need to realize: 1) The Effect on Our View of Ourselves. (Matthew 5:21-22) Matthew 5:21-22 [21]"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.' [22] But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, 'You fool!' will be liable to the hell of fire. (ESV) "We'll spend most of our time on this first point" The first of six illustrations of heart-righteousness that Jesus gives in Matthew 5 deals with the sin of murder. He says in verse [21]"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder; "Those of old", the ancients refers to the rabbis and scribes of old who had devised the many traditions with which Judaism had become encumbered and which had virtually replaced the authority of the Scriptures. "Murder" is the correct rendering since the underlying Hebrew (ratsach, sometimes translated "kill") did not include killing in self-defense, wars ordered by Yahweh, capital punishment following due process of law, or accidental manslaughter Understanding the full scope of this term is the issue. According to rabbinic tradition, and to the beliefs of most cultures and religions, murder is strictly limited to the act of physically taking another person's life. Jesus had already warned that God's righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees (v. 20). (Blomberg, Craig: Matthew. electronic ed. Nashville : Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2001, c1992 (Logos Library System; The New American Commentary 22), S. 106). The traditional command you shall not commit murder was scriptural, being a rendering of Exodus 20:13. But the traditional Jewish penalty, whoever commits murder shall be liable to judgment/the court, fell short of the biblical standard in several ways. In the first place it fell short because it did not prescribe the scriptural penalty of death (Gen. 9:6; Num. 35:30-31; etc.). The traditional penalty for murder was liability before a civil court, which apparently used its own judgment as to punishment. In the second place, and more importantly, God's holy character was not even taken into consideration. Nothing was said of disobedience to His law, of desecrating His image in which humanity is made, or of His role in determining and dispensing judgment. In the third place nothing was said about the inner attitude, the heart offense of the murderer. Jesus presses beyond behavior specifically punished by law to the kind of heart that generates such behavior. Anger that would generate murder if unimpeded is the spiritual equivalent of murder (1 Jn 3:15). God has never merely wanted people to obey rules; He wants them to be holy as He is, to value what He values (Keener, C. S. (1997). Matthew (Vol. 1, Mt 5:21-26). Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press.). * For kids, a list of do's and dont's doesn't deal with the issue of the heart. * Direction, be it for a child or across a congregation, will never get to the heart of the matter until it gets to the heart of the matter. In verse 22 Jesus gives three examples that show the divine definition of murder: being angry with another person, insult him, or calling him a fool. In saying, But I say to you, Jesus was not contrasting His teaching with that of the Old Testament (cf. Matt. 5:17-19) but with that of rabbinic tradition. He was saying, in effect, "Let me tell what the Scriptures themselves say, what God's truth is on the matter. You cannot justify yourselves because you have not committed the physical act of murder. Murder goes much deeper than that. It originates in the heart, not in the hands. It starts with evil thoughts, regardless of whether or not those thoughts are brought to consummation in action." We must not think that God forbids all anger with other people. There is a place for righteous indignation against sin. God himself is properly wrathful (cf. Mt. 18:34; 22:7). But it is unusual for human anger to be free from mixed motives and not be in some sense self-avenging (Blomberg, Craig: Matthew. electronic ed. Nashville : Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2001, c1992 (Logos Library System; The New American Commentary 22), S. 106). Please turn to 1 John 3 There are things in our country, our communities, our schools, and even in our churches about which we have no excuse for not being angry, vocally angry. God Himself is "angry with the wicked every day" (Ps. 7:11, KJV). But Jesus is not talking about anger over God being dishonored, but rather selfish anger, anger against a brother, whoever that might be, because he or she have done something against us, or simply irritates and displeases us. Orgizō (to be angry) has to do with brooding, simmering anger that is nurtured and not allowed to die. It is seen in the holding of a grudge, in the smoldering bitterness that refuses to forgive. It is the anger that cherishes resentment and does not want reconciliation. "Brother" in Matthew, when not referring to a biological sibling, consistently means a fellow member of the religious community and usually refers to Jesus' disciples (cf. 5:44; 7:3-5; 12:49-50; 18:15, 21, 35; 23:8; 25:40; 28:10). Jesus does not thereby imply that it is all right to be angry against those who are not believers; rather, he applies his injunction first of all to those against whom anger is most inappropriate. That is to say, it is particularly bad for Christians to get angry at other Christians who have themselves also been spared God's wrath (Blomberg, Craig: Matthew. electronic ed. Nashville : Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2001, c1992 (Logos Library System; The New American Commentary 22), S. 107). John explains how we are to regard brothers in Christ in regards to hostility: 1 John 3:7-15 [7] Little children, let no one deceive you. Whoever practices righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous. [8] Whoever makes a practice of sinning is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the works of the devil. [9] No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God's seed abides in him, and he cannot keep on sinning because he has been born of God. [10] By this it is evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does not love his brother. [11] For this is the message that you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. [12] We should not be like Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own deeds were evil and his brother's righteous. [13] Do not be surprised, brothers, that the world hates you. [14] We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brothers. Whoever does not love abides in death. [15] Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him. (ESV) * Knowing Christ means becoming involved in an all-out war against the works of the devil, that is, the practice of sinning. Jesus here points to the devil as the arch liar and murderer. Here John uses Cain (Gen. 4:1-16) to introduce discussion of what Christians must both avoid and pursue. John agrees with the teaching of Jesus (Matt. 5:22, 28) that outward conformity to God's command ("You shall not murder," Ex. 20:13) is not enough, for even a heartfelt desire to break the command violates it (note the command about inward desires in Ex. 20:17). (Crossway Bibles. (2008). The ESV Study Bible (p. 2433-34). Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles.) To slander a creature made in God's image is to slander God Himself and is equivalent to murdering that person. Contempt, says Jesus, is murder of the heart. The contemptuous person will be liable to the council /guilty before the supreme court, the Sanhedrin. Jesus refers to the three levels of courts that functioned in Israel. The lower courts dealt with civil matters, and the intermediate courts handled criminal cases. The highest court was the Sanhedrin, which consisted of 70 men with the high priest presiding over them. Only this court could consider matters of war or the imposing of the death penalty, although at Jesus' time any death penalty had to be approved and imposed by the Roman court (cf. Acts 6:12-7:60). (Albrecht, G. Jerome ; Albrecht, Michael J.: Matthew. Milwaukee, Wis. : Northwestern Pub. House, 1996 (The People's Bible), S. 74) Jesus here condemns angry contempt and all its cousins-animosity, malice, hostility, malevolence, wrath. He is not suggesting a ladder of offenses that result in progressively sterner judgments, as if "anger" gets a minor judgment, "raca" a stiffer penalty, and "fool" Hell. He is simply multiplying examples to make His point. And the point is, all such animosity can land one in Hell (Hughes, R. Kent: The Sermon on the Mount : The Message of the Kingdom. Wheaton, Ill. : Crossway Books, 2001 (Preaching the Word), S. 101). To call someone You fool (Mōros) was to accuse them of being both stupid and godless. Jesus' prohibition is against slanderously calling a person a fool out of anger and hatred. Such an expression of malicious animosity is tantamount to murder and makes us liable to the hell of fire /guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. Geenna (hell) is derived from Hinnom, the name of a valley just southwest of Jerusalem used as the city dump. It was a forbidding place where trash was continually burned and where the fire, smoke, and stench never ceased. The name of the valley therefore came to be a metonym for the place of eternal torment, and was so used by Jesus eleven times (cf. Matt. 5:29-30; 10:28; 18:9; 23:15, 33; 7 of the 11 references to Gehenna are in Matt) (Walvoord, John F. ; Zuck, Roy B. ; Dallas Theological Seminary: The Bible Knowledge Commentary : An Exposition of the Scriptures. Wheaton, IL : Victor Books, 1983-c1985, S. 2:30) There is no mistaking the severity of the Savior's words. He teaches that anger contains the seeds of murder, that abusive language contains the spirit of murder, and that cursing language implies the very desire to murder. (MacDonald, William ; Farstad, Arthur: Believer's Bible Commentary : Old and New Testaments. Nashville : Thomas Nelson, 1997, c1995, S. Mt 5:22). * This does not mean that we should go ahead and murder someone we hate, since we have already sinned inwardly. Obviously, sinful feelings are not excuses for sinful deeds (Wiersbe, Warren W.: The Bible Exposition Commentary. Wheaton, Ill. : Victor Books, 1996, c1989, S. Mt 5:21). Illustration: 98 High Cost Of Anger Anger puts people at a disadvantage in every undertaking in life. When Sinbad and his sailors landed on a tropical island, they saw high up in the trees coconuts which could quench their thirst and satisfy their hunger. The coconuts were far above the reach of Sinbad and the sailors, but in the branches of the trees were the chattering apes. Sinbad and his men began to throw stones and sticks up at the apes. This enraged the monkeys and they began to seize the coconuts and hurl them down at the men on the ground. That was just what Sinbad and his men wanted. They got the apes angry so that the apes would gather their food for them. That is a good illustration of how by indulgence in anger we play into the hands of our foes. (C. E. Macartney as found in: Tan, Paul Lee: Encyclopedia of 7700 Illustrations : A Treasury of Illustrations, Anecdotes, Facts and Quotations for Pastors, Teachers and Christian Workers. Garland TX : Bible Communications, 1996, c1979) In order to Expel Anger, we need to realize: 2) Effect on Our Worship of God. (Matthew 5:23-24) Matthew 5:23-24 [23] So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, [24] leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. (ESV) In Matthew 5:23, So/Therefore refers back to Jesus' point that sin, just as righteousness, is first of all internal. As long as there is internal sin, outward acts of worship are not acceptable to God. Jesus continues to focus on the particular sin of hatred against someone else, a brother in the broadest sense. Reconciliation must precede worship. Jesus answers the human problems by asking His followers to take the initiative in reconciliation. He teaches that the problem of human estrangement is so serious that one should even interrupt his worship to go on a mission of reconciliation when this is brought to mind.(Augsburger, M. S., & Ogilvie, L. J. (1982). Matthew (Vol. 24, p. 18). Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson Inc.) The scene of offering your gift at the altar was a familiar one to Jews. Every Jew realized that sin caused a breach in one's relationship with God, and that the sacrifices and offerings were intended to restore a right relationship with Him. Jesus said, "if you remember that your brother has something against you." Unresolved conflict has priority and must be settled. Notice that the situation here is when your brother has something against you. It is not sufficient to say that this is his problem, let him deal with it. Matthew 18 deals with the situation when we have something against another. In this situation it deals with the flip side. Now we must ask what is the "something" that Christ refers to here? The phrase your brother has something against you could also refer to anger or hatred on the brother's part. That is, even if we hold nothing against him, if he is angry with or hates us, we should do everything in our power to be reconciled to him. Obviously, we cannot change another person's heart or attitude, but our desire and effort should be to close the breach as much as is possible from our side and to hold no anger ourselves even if the other person does. We cannot guarantee that another person will agree to be reconciled with us, but we should make every effort "as far as it depends on" us (Rom 12:18). It is not enough to control one's temper (though that is important); one must not arouse other people's anger. Regardless of who is responsible for the break in relationship-and often there is guilt on both sides-we should determine to make a reconciliation before we come before God to worship. True worship is not enhanced by better music, better prayers, better architecture, or even better preaching. True worship is enhanced by better relationships between those who come to worship. When one in our family or school or a friend has something against you, we have a responsibility to act. This is the courageous and mature action. This shows character and forges bonds much closer than casual friendliness. Interestingly, it is not the anger of the person Jesus is addressing of which he speaks, but anger provoked by that person. (Morris, L. (1992). The Gospel according to Matthew (pp. 115-116). Grand Rapids, MI; Leicester, England: W.B. Eerdmans; Inter-Varsity Press.) Please turn to Isaiah 1 In this situation, here in Matthew 5:24, Jesus specifies that we should: leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. The gift is presumably an animal sacrifice, to offer which a layman was allowed to enter the Court of the Priests where the altar stood. Jesus' instruction to interrupt such a solemn occasion indicates the importance of the demand. Its application is of course far wider than the specific occasion of a sacrifice in the temple in Jerusalem, which would be a very rare, and therefore significant, experience for his Galilean audience (France, R. T. (1985). Matthew: an introduction and commentary (Vol. 1, p. 126). Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press.). Our relationships with others makes all the difference in the world when we come to worship. Isaiah explained the importance in Isaiah 1: Isaiah 1:11-17 [11]"What to me is the multitude of your sacrifices? says the LORD; I have had enough of burnt offerings of rams and the fat of well-fed beasts; I do not delight in the blood of bulls, or of lambs, or of goats. [12]"When you come to appear before me, who has required of you this trampling of my courts? [13] Bring no more vain offerings; incense is an abomination to me. New moon and Sabbath and the calling of convocations-- I cannot endure iniquity and solemn assembly. [14] Your new moons and your appointed feasts my soul hates; they have become a burden to me; I am weary of bearing them. [15] When you spread out your hands, I will hide my eyes from you; even though you make many prayers, I will not listen; your hands are full of blood. [16] Wash yourselves; make yourselves clean; remove the evil of your deeds from before my eyes; cease to do evil, [17] learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow's cause. (ESV) * Settle the breach between you and your brother before you try to settle the breach between you and God. Not to do that is to be a hypocrite by asking for forgiveness without repenting. Paul interprets this concept in relation to the Lord's Supper (1 Cor. 11). An in 1 Peter 3:7 God also warns husbands to honor their wives lest their prayers be hindered. God receives no worship from a believer who is not on speaking terms with another (MacDonald, William ; Farstad, Arthur: Believer's Bible Commentary : Old and New Testaments. Nashville : Thomas Nelson, 1997, c1995, S. Mt 5:23). Illustration: Anger has an affect on our worship with God, but not in the ways we often think. There is a story of a little Scottish boy wouldn't eat his prunes, so his mother sent him off to bed saying, "God is angry at you." Soon after the boy went to his room a violent storm broke out. Amidst flashes of lightning and peals of thunder, the mother looked into the boy's room, worried that he would be terrified. When she opened the door she found him looking out the window muttering, "My, such a fuss to make over a few prunes." (Green, Michael P.: Illustrations for Bilical Preaching : Over 1500 Sermon Illustrations Arranged by Topic and Indexed Exhaustively. Revised edition of: The expositor's illustration file. Grand Rapids : Baker Book House, 1989) * We can easily miss the real source of our problems. Finally, and only briefly, in order to Expel Anger, we need to realize the: 3) Effect on Our Relations with Others. Matthew 5:25-26 Matthew 5:25-26 [25] Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are going with him to court, lest your accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you be put in prison. [26] Truly, I say to you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny. (ESV) These verses are essentially a commentary on the previous two. Using an illustration from the common practice of imprisoning a person for an unpaid debt, Jesus teaches that if someone holds a debt of any sort against us, that person is to make it good as soon as possible and before it is too late and the result is judgment The time for reconciliation, just as the time for salvation, is always now. Tomorrow is often too late. We are not to allow bitterness, anger, hatred, or any other sin to keep us separated from other people, whoever they are. In Matthew 5:23-24 the command for reconciliation is given to the innocent as well as the guilty party, here in Matthew 5:25-26, the focus is strictly on the one who is guilty. Roman law provided that a plaintiff could bring the accused with him to face the judge. The two themselves could settle the matter while you are going with him to court/on the way, but not after the court became involved. If a man had wronged an accuser/opponent at law (indicating that the issue was headed for court) he should come to terms quickly, that is, settle the account with his accuser/opponent before he had to face judgment. The sequence of going from the judge to the guard/officer to prison shows the typical procedure in dealing with a guilty person. To avoid judgment and prison he had to pay the last penny/cent (a small Roman coin) owed. In light of vv. 21-22 they obviously refer primarily to the spiritual goal of averting God's wrath on Judgment Day before it is too late to (avert judgment). As a metaphor with one central point of comparison, the details of vv. 25-26 must not be allegorized. No spiritual counterparts to the adversary and officer appear, nor does v. 26 support the traditional Roman Catholic doctrine of purgatory, as if one could ever pay enough to get out of hell. (Blomberg, Craig: Matthew. electronic ed. Nashville : Broadman & Holman Publishers, 2001, c1992 (Logos Library System; The New American Commentary 22), S. 108). Please turn to Ephesians 4 Jesus himself was angry when He cleared the temple (Mt. 21:12-17; John 2:13-22). He was angry with those who assailed him for healing on the Sabbath (Mark 3:5 uses the word "anger"). And in Matthew 23:17 he called the Pharisees "blind fools." So, we conclude that there is a place for anger. Jesus was angry at sin and injustice, but he never became angry at personal insult or affront. Peter says that when Jesus was dying, "when they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, He entrusted himself to him who judges justly" (1 Peter 2:23). But we see that there is a place for righteous anger. Such anger brings pleasure to God (Hughes, R. Kent: The Sermon on the Mount: The Message of the Kingdom. Wheaton, Ill. : Crossway Books, 2001 (Preaching the Word), S. 101). Jesus therefore does not prohibit every form of anger. Paul tells us to: Ephesians 4:26-32 [26] Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, [27]and give no opportunity to the devil. [28] Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. [29] Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. [30] And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. [31] Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. [32] Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (ESV) * This passage spells out in theological terms what Jesus in Matthew 5 says by way of examples. We see how there is a proper time for righteous indignation in upholding truth. When self-righteousness is the root of anger and not external truth, we need to repent of the sin quickly and how our words must be tempered as such. The finally illustration in verse 26 is a picture of sin against another person. Such sin must be resolved to avoid having to face a sentence from the divine Judge. The precise penalty to which Jesus alludes is not made clear. Being put/thrown into prison and not being able to get out until the debt is paid is an analogy of God's punishment. The basic teaching is plain and unmistakable: we are to make every effort, with no delay, to make our relationship right with our brother before our relationship can be right with God and to avoid judgment. In the context of first century justice, a convicted criminal in prison could not, at that time, pay his debt to society by simply serving his time. Restitution had to be made. He might have to sell his property, or perhaps his wife or children could manage to pay his debt; sometimes family members would even be sold into slavery to pay such a debt. But anyone who is condemned by God and cast into the prison of hell will never be able to regain their freedom, no matter what the members of his family might be willing to do. That would be the fate of anyone following the example of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law. The righteousness of Jesus' disciples had to surpass that of those false teachers. In the fullest sense, of course, because no one ever fully has right attitudes toward others, no worship is acceptable. Thus, everything Jesus teaches in this passage, as in the rest of the Sermon on the Mount, is to show the absolutely perfect standard of God's righteousness and the absolutely impossible task of our meeting that standard in our own power. He shatters self-righteousness in order to drive us to His righteousness, which alone is acceptable to God. This is possible only when Christ's perfect righteousness is imputed to sinners through faith (Albrecht, G. Jerome ; Albrecht, Michael J.: Matthew. Milwaukee, Wis. : Northwestern Pub. House, 1996 (The People's Bible), S. 75). (Format Note: Outline & some base commentary from MacArthur, John: Matthew. Chicago : Moody Press, 1989, S. 291) Closing Hymn: "Sweet, Sweet Spirit" (2X Chorus & verse) 069 Benediction May He who is full of kindness and compassion, Who is slow to anger, vast in love; Whose works of love are of surpassing measure, Keep you in the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. In Christ we Pray. AMEN. (cf. Eph. 4:3) 9