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Ephesians 5:25-33
The Love Sandwich (vv.25, 33) – everything in between tells a husband how to love his wife.
· Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
· Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Men need respect; women need security.
You harm a man by disrespecting him; you harm a woman by making her feel insecure.
How Do I Love Her?
1. Security – leadership support
a. Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.
2. Sacrifice- Give yourself for her
a.
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
3. Speech– wash with words
a. Ephesians 5:26 that He might sanctify and cleanseher with the washing of water by the word,
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Ephesians 5:27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.
4. Self– love as self
a. Ephesians 5:28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
5. Support – Nourish
a. Ephesians 5:29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
6. Sentiment- Cherish – warm / romance
a. Ephesians 5:29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
7. Significance- leave father & mother (v.31)
a. Ephesians 5:31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
8. Singularity– love his own wife (v.33)
a. Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
God instituted marriage to picture His love for the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32):
· Ephesians 5:31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”
· Ephesians 5:32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
In the Genesis account, we see:
1. God the Father is portrayed as the father of the bride giving away His daughter.
a. Genesis 2:22 Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man.
2. Adam, the groom, represents Jesus.
a. John 3:29 He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom’s voice.
Therefore this joy of mine is fulfilled.
3. The woman represents the Church as the Bride of Christ.
a. Revelation 19:7 Let us be glad and rejoice and give Him glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready.”
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Revelation 19:8 And to her it was granted to be arrayed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteous acts of the saints.
i. Comparisons of Adam and Eve with Christ and the Church
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The Bride came into being when Adam fell into a deep sleep and when Christ died on the Cross (Genesis 2:21; John 19:30).
2. The substance of Adam’s body became his wife, the Church is both the Body and the Bride of Christ (Genesis 2:22; 1 Corinthians 12:27).
a. John 19:34 But one of the soldiers pierced His side with a spear, and immediately blood and water came out.
3. Eve shared in man’s nature and was called by his name; the Church partakes of the nature and the name of Christ (Genesis 2:23; 2 Peter 1:4).
4. Adam & Eve ruled the earth jointly; the Church will rule & reign with Christ (Genesis 1:26-28; Revelation 22:5).
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There was only one bride for Adam; Christ has chosen the Church as the special object of His love (2 Corinthians 11:2-3).
Conclusion
This story was based partially on an article found in Reader’s Digest (February, 1988).
The original work was copyrighted by Patricia McGerr in 1965.
My trip to the Kiniwata Island in the Pacific was a memorable one.
Although the island was beautiful and I had an enjoyable time, the thing I remember most about my trip was the fact “Johnny Lingo gave eight cows for his wife.”
Johnny Lingo is known throughout the islands for his skills, intelligence, and savvy.
If you hire him as a guide, he will show you the best fishing spots and the best places to get pearls.
Johnny is also one of the sharpest traders in the islands.
He can get you the best possible deals.
The people of Kiniwata all speak highly of Johnny Lingo.
Yet,
when they speak of him, they always smile just a little mockingly.
A couple days after my arrival to Kiniwata, I went to the manager of the guesthouse to see who he thought would be a good fishing guide.
“Johnny Lingo,” said the manager.
“He’s the best around.
When you go shopping, let him do the bargaining.
Johnny knows how to make a deal.”
“Johnny Lingo!” hooted a nearby boy.
The boy rocked with laughter as he said, “Yea, Johnny can make a deal alright!”
“What’s going on?”
I demanded.
“Everybody tells me to get in touch with Johnny Lingo and then they start laughing.
Please, let me in on the joke.”
“Oh, the people like to laugh,” the manager said, shrugging.
“Johnny’s the brightest and strongest young man in the islands.
He’s also the richest for his age.”
“But …” I protested.
“… if he’s all you say he is, why does everyone laugh at him behind his back?”
“Well, there is one thing.
Five months ago, at fall festival, Johnny came to Kiniwata and found himself a wife.
He gave her father eight cows!”
I knew enough about island customs to be impressed.
A dowry of two or three cows would net a fair wife and four or five cows would net a very nice wife.
“Wow!”
I said.
“Eight cows!
She must have beauty that takes your breath away.”
“She’s not ugly, …” he conceded with a little smile, “… but calling her ‘plain’ would definitely be a compliment.
Sam Karoo, her father, was afraid he wouldn’t be able to marry her off.
Instead of being stuck with her, he got eight cows for her.
Isn’t that extraordinary?
This price has never been paid before.”
“Yet, you called Johnny’s wife ‘plain?’ ”
“I said it would be a compliment to call her plain.
She was skinny and she walked with her shoulders hunched and her head ducked.
She was scared of her own shadow.”
“Well,” I said, “I guess there’s just no accounting for love.”
“True enough.” agreed the man.
“That’s why the villagers grin when they talk about Johnny.
They get special satisfaction from the fact the sharpest trader in the islands was bested by dull old Sam Karoo.”
“But how?”
“No one knows and everyone wonders.
All of the cousins urged Sam to ask for three cows and hold out for two until he was sure Johnny would pay only one.
To their surprise Johnny came to Sam Karoo and said, ‘Father of Sarita, I offer eight cows for your daughter.’
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