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*UNDERSTANDING YOUR WIFE'S DEEPEST NEEDS*
*The Secrets of a Satisfying Marriage - Part 6 of 12*
*I Cor.
7:3 & I Peter 3:7*
*Rick Warren*
I Cor 7:3 (GN)
/"A man should fulfill his duty as a husband and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other's needs."/
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/"Husbands, in the same way BE CONSIDERATE as you LIVE WITH your wives, and treat them with RESPECT as the weaker partner, and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers."
/I Peter 3:7
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*HOW I TREAT MY WIFE DETERMINES ______________________________*
As a husband, I am to do three things according to 1 Peter 3:7.
1.
___________________________________ my wife! "Be considerate"
DEF: "Thoughtful of the needs and feelings of another"
2.
___________________________________ with my wife! "Live with"
DEF: Share my life . . .
do things together . . .
be companions
3.
___________________________________ my wife!
". . .
respect . .
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DEF: Honor my wife.
Value her . . .
Appreciate her value
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*THE FIVE DEEPEST NEEDS OF YOUR WIFE*
Dr.
Willard Harley is a Christian psychologist who directs a network of mental health clinics in Minnesota.
During the past 25 years as a marriage counselor he has interviewed thousands of couples and discovered the 10 most important needs of husbands and wives.
They are discussed in his highly recommended book, /His Needs~/Her Needs/, (Revell, 1986).
*1.
My Wife Needs My Affection*
/ "The love a man gives his wife is the extending of his love for himself to enfold her."/ Eph.
5:28b (Ph)
/ "Husbands give your wives much love; never treat them harshly."/
Col.
3:19 (Ph)
(Amp) /". . .
be affectionate and sympathetic with them."/
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/ "Affection is the ______________________________________, /
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/ Sex is the _____________________________________________."/
Four Ways to Show Affection
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/ "No man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and carefully protects and cherishes it, as Christ does the church."/
Eph.
5:29 (Amp)
Her greatest need is to feel "cherished":
The feeling that she is ______________________________ to me than anyone or anything else!
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My Wife Needs Conversation With Me*
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Live together in harmony and love, as though you had only one mind and one spirit between you."/
Ph.
2:2
/ "Reliable communications permits progress. . .
"/ Pr.
13:17 (LB)
/ "Don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others too, and in what they are doing."/
Phil.
2:4 (LB)
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My Wife Needs My Honesty and Openness*
/ "Insincere talk hides what you are really thinking . . . it brings nothing but ruin."
/ Pr.
26:23, 28
/ "The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in men who are truthful."/
Pr.
12:22
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My Wife Needs Financial Security*
/ "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."/ 1 Tim.
5:8
/ "It is better to be an ordinary man working for a living than to play the part of a great man but go hungry."/
Pr.
12:9 (GN)
/ "The wise man saves for the future, but the foolish man spends whatever he gets."
/ Pr.
21:20 (LB)
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My Wife Needs My Commitment to the Family*
~* /"Be faithful to your own wife and give your love to her alone."/
Pr.
5;15 (GN) (Pr.
6;32)
~* /"Fathers, don't over-correct your children or make it difficult for them to obey . .
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Bring them up with Christian teaching and Christian discipline."/
Eph.
6: (Ph)
~* /"If a man is lazy, the rafters sag; if his hands are idle, the house leaks."/
Eccl.
10:18
~* /"You husbands show the same kind of love to your wives as Christ showed to the church when he died for her, to make her holy and clean. . .
"/ Eph.
5:26 (LB)
\\ *UNDERSTANDING YOUR WIFE'S DEEPEST NEEDS*
*The Secrets of a Satisfying Marriage - Part 6 of 12*
*I Cor.
7:3 & I Peter 3:7*
*Rick Warren*
A book for leaders, Strategies for Taking Charge by Warren Bennis and Burt Nannis, is probably one of the top three of all the books I've read on leadership.
It's not about marriage.
I'd suggest you get this book and read it regardless of the career you've chosen, the business you're in.
They did a study of 90 top CEO's in the United States to find what are the common denominators of men who rise to the top.
They studied 90 top CEO's in many different fields: business, entertainment, television, politics, sports.
They found they had nothing in common in terms of background, ability, education.
They only found one common denominator: In all 90 CEO's were still married to their first wife.
They all claimed to be happily married and they all were very enthusiastic about the institution of marriage.
They concluded that the stability that takes place when a husband and a wife have a good relationship is one of the factors of success.
I Corinthians 7:3 (Good News) /"A man should fulfill his duty as a husband and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife and each should satisfy the other's needs."/
Meeting your spouse's needs is a purpose of marriage.
God expects husbands to satisfy the needs of their wives.
God expects wives to satisfy the needs of their husbands.
The problem is the needs of men and women are very different.
Your wife's needs are not the same as yours.
If you try to meet her needs thinking, "This is what I need" you're going to miss the base.
Freud, "Despite my 30 years of research into the feminine soul, I have not yet been able to answer the great question, What does a woman want?"
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