A Pattern For Prayer (Part 3)

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Good morning Church!
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This is my Bible. It is God’s Holy Word. It is a lamp unto my feet, a light unto my path, and I will hide its words within my heart that I might not sin against God! Amen!!!
Open Bibles To: Philippians 4:6
We are continuing our study on prayer. We are currently walking through a series of “A Pattern For Prayer”! We are using the acronym ACTS for our guide, and we have already covered the first two letters.
“A” stood for adoration. “C” stood for confession.
Today, we are moving on to the third letter “T”, which stands for Thanksgiving.

Context

Philippians 4:6 ESV
6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
The majority of this verse is one that many lean on.
We like the idea of not being anxious. Most do not enjoy being stressed, afraid, overwhelmed, or worried.
We also do not mind making our requests known unto God. When we want something, we make God aware. When we need something, we ask for it. When we are in a pinch, we ask God for help.
Unfortunately, these same people, who consist of the majority, always stay stressed, overwhelmed, worried, and afraid. They also rarely get an answered prayer.
The question now becomes why. Why is it that many prayers go unanswered? Why is it that we bring things to God and then still stress about them anyway? I hope to show you today, that many of the issues we face in our prayer life have to do with two small, simple words. Those two words are right here in this verse, but are commonly looked over, or even left out: “With Thanksgiving”.

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What do we mean when we say that we are to give thanks to God?
To illustrate this, I want to turn to a particular set of verses: Luke 17:11-17.
Luke 17:11–17 ESV
11 On the way to Jerusalem he was passing along between Samaria and Galilee. 12 And as he entered a village, he was met by ten lepers, who stood at a distance 13 and lifted up their voices, saying, “Jesus, Master, have mercy on us.” 14 When he saw them he said to them, “Go and show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went they were cleansed. 15 Then one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice; 16 and he fell on his face at Jesus’ feet, giving him thanks. Now he was a Samaritan. 17 Then Jesus answered, “Were not ten cleansed? Where are the nine?
How to Pray Chapter 8: Praying with Thanksgiving

God is deeply grieved by the thanklessness and ingratitude of which so many of us are guilty. When Jesus healed the ten lepers and only one came back to give Him thanks, in wonderment and pain He exclaimed,

“Were not the ten cleansed? but where are the nine?”

We cannot talk about thanksgiving without also talking about gratitude. Though they are not the same, you cannot give thanks without first being grateful.
There have been countless messages preached on this set of verses, and the majority that I have heard have centered around the idea of being ungrateful. Unfortunately, I do not believe that is the issue here at all. The real issue is one of thanksgiving.
It was not because of ungratefulness that the nine did not return unto Christ, it was because they were forgetful.
To live in a time such as this, meant that they were completely outcast because of their leprosy.
They would not have been able to be around their families, or any other person for that matter.
Their lives were rendered completely useless unto the point of death, as far as everyone else was concerned. And even though they were loved by their families, and many others no doubt, those loved ones would take a chance on catching leprosy to be around them. Furthermore, anyone who had it, would not wish it upon anyone else anyway.
Leprosy was a death sentence. There was no cure, and it always killed the person who had it.
They literally had to stay away from any populated area and dwell in complete solitude. If someone else came by their way, they were required to yell out “Unclean, unclean. I am unclean!” If they did not do so, and they intentionally gave leprosy to someone else, they would have been killed.
Knowing the severity of their case, it would be absurd to think that these nine lepers were not grateful for their cleansing. After seeing the priest, their minds were no doubt set on one thing alone, and that was going home to their families.
There would have been tears, hugs, kisses, meals, parties, and much more. Obviously, these lepers, as well as those who loved them, were grateful.
Again, the issue was not them being ungrateful, it was the fact that they forgot about the one who healed them and made all of this possible.
Gratitude is secret, silent, and passive. It does not show itself until expressed externally. Thanksgiving is open, oral, and active. It is the giving out of something.
Gratitude is felt in the heart, and thanksgiving is the expression of that inward feeling.
Gratitude is an inward emotion of the soul, involuntarily arising within, while thanksgiving is the voluntary expression of that gratitude.
Gratitude cannot be helped. It is a natural emotion that takes place when one has been blessed. Giving thanks, on the other hand, is many times suppressed. It is an action that must be determined.
Forgetfulness was one of the primary sins of Israel as they wondered in the desert. They repeatedly failed to give credit to God for His many miracles, despite being warned time and again.
Deuteronomy 4:9 ESV
9 “Only take care, and keep your soul diligently, lest you forget the things that your eyes have seen, and lest they depart from your heart all the days of your life. Make them known to your children and your children’s children—
Deuteronomy 6:12 ESV
12 then take care lest you forget the Lord, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery.
Deuteronomy 8:11–14 ESV
11 “Take care lest you forget the Lord your God by not keeping his commandments and his rules and his statutes, which I command you today, 12 lest, when you have eaten and are full and have built good houses and live in them, 13 and when your herds and flocks multiply and your silver and gold is multiplied and all that you have is multiplied, 14 then your heart be lifted up, and you forget the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery,
Deuteronomy 9:7 ESV
7 Remember and do not forget how you provoked the Lord your God to wrath in the wilderness. From the day you came out of the land of Egypt until you came to this place, you have been rebellious against the Lord.
Ingratitude is a serious matter. The Scriptures have much to say about it. The failure to be grateful is the mark of the apostate.

In Romans 1:21, Paul calls attention to two primary sins of the pagan. He says, “For although they knew God they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him.” Honor and thanksgiving may be distinguished, but not separated. God is honored by thanksgiving and dishonored by the lack of it. All that we have and all that we are we owe ultimately to the benevolence of our Creator. To slight Him by withholding appropriate gratitude is to exalt ourselves and debase Him

The pagan must be distinguished from the apostate. The pagan has never entered into the household of faith. He is a stranger to the covenant community. Idolatry and ingratitude characterize him. An apostate is one who joins the church, becomes a member of the visible covenant community, and then repudiates the church, leaving it for a life of secular indulgence. The apostate is “one who forgets.” He has a short memory.

Thanksgiving is an acknowledgment of God and His benefits.

Forgetting the benefits of God is also the mark of the immature Christian, one who lives by his feelings. He is prone to a roller-coaster spiritual life, moving quickly from ecstatic highs to depressing lows. In the high moments, he feels an exhilarating sense of God’s presence, but he plunges to despair the moment he senses an acute absence of such feelings. He lives from blessing to blessing, suffering the pangs of a short memory. He lives always in the present, savoring the “now” but losing sight of what God has done in the past. His obedience and service are only as strong as the intensity of his last memory of blessing.

If God never grants us another glimpse of His glory in this life, if He never grants us another request, if He never gives us another gift from the abundance of His grace, we still would be obligated to spend the rest of our lives thanking Him for what He already has done. We have already been blessed enough to be moved daily to thanksgiving. Nevertheless, God continues to bless us.

Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

Gratitude is born of meditation on God’s grace and mercy. “The Lord hath done great things for us, whereof we are glad.” Herein we see the value of serious meditation. “My meditation of him shall be sweet.” Praise is begotten by gratitude and a conscious obligation to God for mercies given. As we think of mercies past, the heart is inwardly moved to gratitude.

“I love to think on mercies past,

And future good implore;

And all my cares and sorrows cast

On Him whom I adore.”

Psalm 126:3 ESV
3 The Lord has done great things for us; we are glad.
Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

Gratitude is born of meditation on God’s grace and mercy. “The Lord hath done great things for us, whereof we are glad.” Herein we see the value of serious meditation. “My meditation of him shall be sweet.” Praise is begotten by gratitude and a conscious obligation to God for mercies given. As we think of mercies past, the heart is inwardly moved to gratitude.

“I love to think on mercies past,

And future good implore;

And all my cares and sorrows cast

On Him whom I adore.”

Psalm 126:3 ESV
3 The Lord has done great things for us; we are glad.
Psalm 104:34 ESV
34 May my meditation be pleasing to him, for I rejoice in the Lord.
This is why we are to pray specific prayers. If we pray in general terms, a blessing may still come. But because we did not pray specific enough, the devil will convince us that it happened through chance, luck, or any other type of Godless explanation.
When we pray specifically and then that prayer comes to pass just as we prayed, there is little room for explaining it away. In that moment, our hearts are filled with gratitude.
Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

Love is the child of gratitude. Love grows as gratitude is felt, and then breaks out into praise and thanksgiving to God: “I love the Lord because he hath heard my voice and my supplication.” Answered prayers cause gratitude, and gratitude brings forth a love that declares it will not cease praying: “Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.” Gratitude and love move to larger and increased praying.

Psalm 116:1–2 ESV
1 I love the Lord, because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy. 2 Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.
How to Pray Chapter 8: Praying with Thanksgiving

Returning thanks for blessings already received increases our faith and enables us to approach God with new boldness and new assurance. Doubtless the reason so many have so little faith when they pray is because they take so little time to meditate upon and thank God for blessings already received. As one meditates upon the answers to prayers already granted, faith waxes bolder and bolder, and we come to feel in the very depths of our souls that there is nothing too hard for the Lord.

Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

Gratitude and thanksgiving forever stand opposed to all murmurings at God’s dealings with us, and all complainings at our lot. Gratitude and murmuring never abide in the same heart at the same time. An unappreciative spirit has no standing beside gratitude and praise. And true prayer corrects complaining and promotes gratitude and thanksgiving. Dissatisfaction at one’s lot, and a disposition to be discontented with things which come to us in the providence of God, are foes to gratitude and enemies to thanksgiving.

We are to meditate on the things that God has brought to pass in our lives. We must not forget how good God has been unto us. As we dwell on those blessings, we are to give God thanks in return. We are not to be as the nine lepers, but as the one. It is the remembrance of God’s mercies upon our lives that move us to live faithfully for Him.
Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

Paul appeals to the Romans to dedicate themselves wholly to God, a living sacrifice, and the constraining motive is the mercies of God:

“I beseech you, therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.”

Consideration of God’s mercies not only begets gratitude, but induces a large consecration to God of all we have and are. So that prayer, thanksgiving and consecration are all linked together inseparably

Romans 12:1–2 ESV
1 I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. 2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.
Complete Works of E. M. Bounds IV. Prayer, Praise and Thanksgiving

When Paul wrote to the Colossians to let the word of Christ dwell in their hearts richly and to let the peace of God rule therein, he said to them, “and be ye thankful,” and adds, “admonishing yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts unto the Lord.”

Further on, in writing to these same Christians, he joins prayer and thanksgiving together: “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving.”

And writing to the Thessalonians, he again joins them in union: “Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God concerning you.”

Commitment

Prevailing Prayer: What Hinders It Chapter V: Thanksgiving

A farmer was once found kneeling at a soldier’s grave near Nashville. Some one came to him and said: “Why do you pay so much attention to this grave? Was your son buried here?” “No,” he said. “During the war my family were all sick, I knew not how to leave them. I was drafted. One of my neighbors came over and said: I will go for you; I have no family.’ He went off. He was wounded at Chickamauga. He was carried to the hospital, and there died. And, sir, I have come a great many miles, that I might write over his grave these words, ‘He died for me.’ ”

This the believer can always say of his blessed Savior, and in the fact may well rejoice. “By Him therefore, let us offer the sacrifice of praise continually, that is the fruit of our lips, giving thanks to His name.”

Hebrews 13:15 ESV
15 Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name.
Philippians 4:6 ESV
6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
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