01-23 The Manifold Grace of God
Genesis 3:16-24
2095 Three Wonders In Heaven
John Newton said, “When I get to heaven I shall see three wonders there. The first wonder will be, to see many people there whom I did not expect to see—the second wonder will be, to miss many people whom I did expect to see; and the third and greatest wonder of all, will be to find myself there.”
I. Grace Toward the Woman
Child Bearing
Marriage
The woman has the same sort of desire for her husband that sin has for Cain, a desire to possess or control him. This desire disputes the headship of the husband. As the Lord tells Cain what he should do, i.e., master or rule sin, the Lord also states what the husband should do, rule over his wife. The words of the Lord in Genesis 3:16b, as in the case of the battle between sin and Cain, do not determine the victor of the conflict between husband and wife. These words mark the beginning of the battle of the sexes. As a result of the fall, man no longer rules easily; he must fight for his headship. Sin has corrupted both the willing submission of the wife and the loving headship of the husband. The woman’s desire is to control her husband (to usurp his divinely appointed headship, and he must master her, if he can. So the rule of love founded in paradise is replaced by struggle, tyranny and domination.
Augustine praised God in retrospect for this uncomfortable grace, saying, “Your goad was thrusting at my heart, giving me no peace until the eye of my soul could discern you without mistake.”
II. Grace Toward the Man
“the woman’s punishment struck at the deepest root of her being as wife and mother, the man’s strikes at the innermost nerve of his life: his work, his activity, and provision for sustenance” (Von Rad).
This applies to all work involved in human culture. Painful toil will assault every soul who attempts to produce in this world. We may imagine exceptions such as royalty or the super-rich. But even the rich are made for work. The bored, indolent Prince of Wales, Edward VI, hitting a thousand golf balls into the sea from the deck of his yacht, knows he is not meant to do nothing. Nevertheless, anyone who works to produce in this world knows pain and frustration. This condition is irrevocable. It is for “all the days of your life” (v. 17), “till you return to the ground” (v. 19).
III. Grace Toward Humanity
God’s Promise
This assumes a prodigious posterity, and it is a tribute to Adam’s faith in the prospect that God had revealed (vv. 15–16). Adam had learned, albeit through the most calamitous lesson, to accept God’s word in faithful obedience.
God’s Provision
It is also to be remarked that the clothing which God provided was in itself different from what man had thought of. Adam took leaves from an inanimate, unfeeling tree; God deprived an animal of life, that the shame of His creature might be relieved. This was the last thing Adam would have thought of doing. To us life is cheap and death familiar, but Adam recognized death as the punishment of sin. Death was to early man a sign of God’s anger. And he had to learn that sin could be covered not by a bunch of leaves snatched from a bush as he passed by … but only by pain and blood. Sin cannot be atoned for by any mechanical action nor without expenditure of feeling. Suffering must ever follow wrongdoing. From the first sin to the last, the track of the sinner is marked with blood.… It was made apparent that sin was a real and deep evil, and that by no easy and cheap process could the sinner be restored.… Men have found that their sin reaches beyond their own life and person, that it inflicts injury and involves disturbance and distress, that it changes utterly our relation to life and to God, and that we cannot rise above its consequences save by the intervention of God Himself, by an intervention which tells us of the sorrow He suffers on our account.