Children and Parents

Children and Parents Ephesians 6:4 Pt. 2 Context 1. Paul on Spirit-filled relationships 2. Husbands-Wives; Children-Fathers; Bondservants-Masters 3. Although Paul addresses fathers specifically, mothers are expected to participate fully (Deuteronomy 6:7; Proverbs 1:8) and to take up the slack in a father’s absence (2 Timothy 3:15; Titus 2:4). Sinful Provocation • • Present – “Do not be provoking to anger … ” Used frequently in the ancient Greek translation of the Old Testament: 1. God’s Jealous Anger: Judges 2:12; 1 Kings 16:2-33 2. Imbitter with Accusation: Psalm 105:32 • Key Cross-Reference – Colossians 3:21, where Paul uses a different word that means vex, harass, challenge, embitter, stir the pot, etc. Gospel Care • • • • Present – “Be Nurturing”; see 5:29, another word used much in the Greek translation of the OT. Meaning: preserve and provide (Genesis 47:17); used of the Lord my Shepherd who provides green pasture and still waters (Psalm 23:2) Discipline: using every means necessary to shape the entirety of a person Instruction: more didactic in nature but includes passionate encouragement. Looking to Bible for How • Dads must embrace God’s promises, speak them to their children, and encourage their children to live accordingly (see Genesis 22:5; 1 Chronicles 28:20). • Dads must get the family where God wants them to be for worship (see Joseph, the father of Jesus). • Dads must be compassionate as they allow mercy to steer the relationship with their kids (Psalm 103). • Dads must take the lead in Bible instruction (Deuteronomy 6:7).