Faith Amid Faithlessness
Introduction
Have Faith In God
Faith Can Move Mountains
The Relationship of Faith and Prayer
Many promises in Scripture assure us as to how God will answer our prayers; we simply need to believe them. Many years ago, when I was on staff at a church, a woman came to me for counsel because of her unrelieved feelings of guilt over a sin she had committed in the past. I advised her that she needed forgiveness from God, and the only possible way for her to receive it was for her to repent. When I told her that, she became irritated. She said, “I thought you were a theologian.” She was looking for a technical, sophisticated answer to her moral dilemma, something that she could not expect to find from people in her prayer group. She said, “I have asked God fifty times to forgive me for this sin, and I’m still overwhelmed by my guilt.” So I told her she needed to pray one more time and repent of her sin. At that point, she became very irritated and said: “I have told you that I have asked God to forgive me many times. I have repented. Why do I still feel guilty?” So, I said to her: “Yes, you need to pray for forgiveness one more time, but this time you need to pray that God will forgive you for another sin—your arrogance.” Of course, she did not understand the point I was making and became even more irate, so I asked her to read James 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Then I explained to her that she had confessed her sin but she did not feel forgiven because she did not believe God’s promise of forgiveness.
This statement may sound completely outrageous, but I do not believe that this text or any text in the New Testament teaches that we are obligated to forgive people who sin against us unilaterally without their repentance. All the New Testament teachings on confronting brothers who sin against us, seeking restitution, carrying out church discipline, and so forth do not mean that if someone harms us, we have to say, “I forgive you,” We may do that, but there is an analogy between our forgiveness of others’ sins and God’s forgiveness of our sins. God does not forgive us unilaterally; He requires repentance. But when we repent, He does forgive. We must do the same. If someone injures us or offends us, but then he apologizes, confesses his sin, and asks for our forgiveness, we cannot hold a grudge. If we do, we can expect the same from God. Jesus’ point is that every Christian is to be standing ready at any moment to forgive any offense if the offending person repents.