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Define The Relationship
Start visual of Duct tape
What are you willing to give away of yourself in a relationship?
(holding hands, Hugs, kiss, Etc)
Duct tape shows the affects of giving your heart away over and over.
You are less connected to the person you are currently with.
God has a created design for your good, your best life, the greatest experience you can have.
You have to be willing to say no to the desires of your heart and do it God’s way, the way He created for you to experience
Your future healthy relationships take work NOW
There is blessing in doing it Gods way
Session 1 Your Relationship with God: Who are you?
God shaped and formed us from the ground
Gen
The intimacy in this moment cannot be forgotten
Many of us have had broken relationships or been abandoned all together by fathers.
Those hurts are great.
How much worse if we reject our most important relationship
Romans 7:4
1 corinthians 6:15-20
2 Corinthians 11:2
You are not your own
“You are not your own” What does this mean to you?
What does a life that does not belong to you, but to God look like?
Do you live like you are His?
Your decisions, beliefs, actions; do they please Him?
Explain a covenant
Your Covenant with God: What must change going forward? how will you live?
What do you want to see your relationship with God look like tomorrow and in five years?
Session 2 Parents: Do I really have to honor them?!?!
Do you want your relationship with your future spouse and friends to look like your current relationship with your parents?
The way your communicate?
the way your feel about your parents?
How we learn Right relationship
They were established by God, to dishonor them is to dishonor God
The way you treat your parents is the way you will treat ALL future relationships
Blessings of Parents: They are your covering (shelter or protection)
Their opinions matter
God used Neby
They teach us about all relationships good and bad
If you do not have earthly parents in your life you have a spiritual family in the church
Your parents understand more than you think about being your age… cause long long long… long ago they were
Deuteronomy 21:18-
Proverbs
Healthy relationships teach us how to have healthy relationships with others
Men without fathers tend to seek approval from other men (gangs drugs women) To get approval
Women without fathers tend to seek approval from men (dating, sex, trying to get love they never recieved)
When you have healthy relationship with your parents you will already have approval
Covenant with your Parents: What will you do to make your relationships healthier?
what will you start or stop doing?
What do you want to see your relationship look like tomorrow and in five years?
Session 3 Friends and Beyond: Building your best Future
God’s made Eve I when He saw it was not good for Adam to be alone.
He needed relationship and community not necessarily marriage
God was very intentional in His design, He didn’t make mistakes
We date to find a mate: how do we walk out this process godly and safely
Examples
PJ & Maddison
Pete & Cheyenne
Jordan & Mia
Q & A
Guys and Girls break up into groups
Take time to pray about how God wants you to live going forward?
What standards is He leading you to set for yourself and your future spouse?
Covenant in future relationship: What are you going to do to prepare yourself for your future?
what will you not compromise in finding a spouse?
what Character do you desire for yourself and your spouse?
What are you willing to give away from yourself before marriage?
What standards will you hold before you start dating?
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