A Family Affair
Understanding the role of the father - yesterday and today
A Family Affair
In modern Western culture, the word “family” typically signifies a nuclear group of persons who reside together and are related either by blood or adoption (i.e., a father, mother, and any children). The word is then expanded to refer to a long line of people to whom that nuclear family is connected. This modern meaning of family differs greatly from words used to delineate family within the first and second centuries.
Introduction
In modern Western culture, the word “family” typically signifies a nuclear group of persons who reside together and are related either by blood or adoption (i.e., a father, mother, and any children). The word is then expanded to refer to a long line of people to whom that nuclear family is connected. This modern meaning of family differs greatly from words used to delineate family within the first and second centuries.
There is no Greek or Latin word that specifically denotes a nuclear family (Moxnes, Constructing Early Christian Families, 20). The primary Greek word for describing a family (οἶκος, oikos) refers mainly to a house or household (BDAG, A Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament). The word holds the sense of a homestead wherein people are living together for a common purpose
There are over 100 occurrences of οἶκος (oikos) in the New Testament, 60 of which refer to a house or home; in at least 12 of the occurrences οἶκος (oikos) represents a family or group of people (Aland, Did the Early Church Baptize Infants?, 87). The term connotes a unit of persons—including servants—working and living together under the leadership of the head of that household (Moxnes, Constructing Early Christian Families, 21).
The male head of the household.
Ethnic identity was central to practicing the Jewish faith (Barclay, “The Family as the Bearer of Religion,” 69): to be Jewish was to be a follower of Yahweh. As Barclay writes, “Judaism was woven particularly deeply into the fabric of family life, and Jewish children raised in an ethos in which their ethnic distinctiveness was continually reinforced” (Barclay, “The Family as the Bearer of Religion,” 71).
So now it was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house, and a ruler throughout all the land of Egypt.
Joseph Reveals His Identity
45:8. titles of Joseph. The use of the title “father of Pharaoh” most likely is related to the Egyptian title itntr, “father of the god,” used to refer to a variety of officials and priests who serve in the Pharaoh’s court. “Father” represents an advisory relationship, perhaps to be equated with the role of the priest hired by Micah in Judges 17:10 or the role of Elisha as the king of Israel’s counselor in 2 Kings 6:21.